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To put it very bluntly.
You will always make a better impact helping people who need it than trying to hurt people you think deserve it.

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Very gentle reminder that you hurting someone does not make you irredeemable. It does not mean you cannot grow as a person and learn and become better
Everyone is capable of harm and hurt. Everyone *has* harmed and hurt others. That doesn't mean everyone is evil, it just means we are not perfect beings
"all paraphiles should die"
even the paraphiles who aren't disordered? even the paraphiles who are seeking therapy for their paraphilia?
even the paraphiles who wish they weren't paraphiles? even the paraphiles who are paraphiles due to trauma?
even the paraphiles who refuse to have sex with anyone besides consenting adults?
even the paraphiles who live in constant shame, disgust, embarassment, and fear due to their attraction?
even the paraphiles who are attracted to inanimate objects? even the paraphiles who are attracted to body parts? even the paraphiles who are just into BDSM and kink play? even the paraphiles whose paraphilias can be acted on in a harmless, healthy way?
even the paraphiles who actively work to prevent sexual abuse?
even the paraphiles who don't engage with sexuality? even the paraphiles who avoid their subject of attraction?
even the paraphiles who can be around their subject of attraction without acting on their feelings?
even the paraphiles who live a completely normal life?
these are all real, valid experiences that paraphiles can have. they are people like the rest of us, and live a diverse set of lives. your friends and family are likely paraphiles and you don't even realize. even your partner might be. kinks and fetishes are more common than you think.
many people don't realize that acts such as BDSM and kink play are paraphilic in nature, due to how normalized it's become. when homosexuality was considered a mental disorder, it was considered a paraphilia. it's part of why kink and queerness is oftentimes so interconnected culturally; both communities have been fighting to defend the right to engage in healthy, consensual sexual practices.
so, do these people really deserve to die, all for something they can't even control to begin with? do people deserve to die for something they cannot get rid of? even when many predators aren't genuine paraphiles, and many genuine paraphiles aren't predators?
do you not realize how the idea of "kill anyone i don't like" sounds? how the idea of "let's kill this entire group of people" sounds? is supporting the death penalty really a hill you want to die on?
i wish sex wasnt seen as evil . its such a normal process of Existing On This Earth why is it seen as taboo . oh and nudity too. they're like: How Dare You Have Body Parts . oh my gosh did you just say Vagina Pussy Boobs Titties Nipples Penis Balls Butthole . are you kidding me. wait . did you seriously piss and shit and fart . holy f*** what is going on!!
posting my opinions on that radnormal account as an anti-radqueer + anti-contact paraphile, proship/darkshipper, and pro-endo individual
tldr; i think its stupid. and thats putting it nicely tbh
im not going to get into shipping/profic discourse or endo discourse because iiiii⦠dont care about that. lol
i hate radqueers and pro-contact beings as much as the next guy but you are going to have a much happier experience online (and in general) if you 1. avoid them and 2. block/report them instead of engaging with them. the ideology that causes predation and rape is linked to serious cognitive distortions that a random aggressive tumblr user is not going to solve. they are, quite simply, people who need professional therapy / intervention.
my point is that you are not doing anything to actually help anyone. predators and rape culture is a serious, incredibly complex, large-scale global issue a simple tumblr account isn't going to solve. if you actually care about the cause, go support charities and organizations and real research rather than your dumbass callouts and tumblr posts saying you don't care if a group of people kills themselves.
also, let's address the paramisia, shall we?
not all paraphiles are disordered. paraphilia does not equal a paraphilic disorder. paraphilic disorders are, generally, defined as a paraphilia (abnormal sexual attraction) that causes distress/impairment to the individual, OR (a risk of) harm towards other beings.
if you believe all paraphiles are predators, you are not educated enough to speak about paraphilias. as mentioned previously, not all paraphiles are disordered, let alone predators. paraphilias are extremely diverse, and many can be enacted healthily between consenting adults. not all paraphilias lead to harm. not all paraphiles are a risk to other people. this includes those who are part of the "big 3" (zoos, necros, pedos). paraphiles can be asexual, sex-repulsed, choose to not engage with sex, avoid their subject of attraction, et cetera. just as many paraphiles have normal and fulfilling sex lives, or others who are able to interact with their subject of attraction without acting on their desires. predators are the issue, NOT PARAPHILES.
paraphiles are⦠everywhere. literally. BDSM and kink is paraphilic. anything deemed "abnormal" by society is paraphilic. objectums? they're paraphiles. they're known as objectophiles. people into feet? yup, they're paraphiles too. people who are a little too into, say, small boobs or small dicks, to the point it impairs their sex life? technically also paraphiles. the definition is extremely subjective but that's besides the point. my point is they're everywhere. paraphiles have existed all throughout history and will continue to. there's no getting rid of kinksters (probably because there's nothing wrong with consensual kink).
moving on from that, let's address the whole "i don't care if these people die" thing. i count that as supporting the death of an entire group of people (sounds familiar, don't it?) so let's get into a little bit of why the death penalty is ass. in no particular orderβ¦
what if the person's actually innocent? do you really trust the government and/or legal system to be able to accurately prosecute all criminals? do innocent people really deserve to die for the sake of the Big Bads?
it is extremely discriminatory. historically it has been used primarily against people of color, mentally ill folks, those with disabilities, poor people, and queer folks. you simply cannot trust the government to always use the death penalty in a non-discriminatory or just manner. if we put the death penalty to only apply to people you think are gross or personally dislike (which is entirely subjective by the way), i think you can see how quickly that'll be used for discriminatory reasons.
the death penalty is not reserved for the "most serious" crimes. in some countries, even non-violent crimes can cause someone to be sentenced to death. even juvenile offenders, as young as 14 (and possibly younger), have been given the death sentence before.
it is cruel and inhumane. death row itself is an incredibly traumatizing place to be, and people there are often subject to inhumane conditions. oftentimes, due to length legal processes, death row inmates are left in these shitty conditions for years. violent or not, criminals are still human and deserve humane conditions like the rest of us. these people are not "monsters" they're HUMAN BEINGS and dehumanizing them is not only unhelpful but takes away from how purposeful and impactful violence is.
why the fuck should the government have the power to kill its own people? is that not fucking terrifying to anybody but us?? governments are supposed to protect their people, and thus, their lives. killing them is a direct violation of that.
it does nothing to actually solve any problems. predators, murderers, et cetera are going to exist regardless of if the death penalty exists. if anything, the death penalty will make them harder to find, less likely to fess up, and make it substantially more difficult for victims who were close to their perpetrator to speak up about their experiences, in fear that their perpetrator will face the death penalty. it might be a shock, but many people don't want their abuser to die. sexual violence specifically is an extremely complex, global issue that a single fucking TUMBLR ACCOUNT is not going to do anything for. if you really want to deter predators, violent individuals, et cetera, you will want to focus on prevention/intervention and rehabilitation, not fucking killing and harassing them. everything happens for a reason, including shitty actions. it's basic cause and effect. and if something has a reason, it can be prevented. there's also the argument that killing these individuals actively prevents research on why rapists rape, murderers murder, et cetera. yknow, the exact thing that could help us prevent future violence. -_-
also. why are we ignoring the whole lynching thing. in their pinned. we do realize that has historically racist roots right. right guys. that it's also an unjust, unfair practice. and that public executions are 1. cruel and degrading to the person in question, and 2. oftentimes traumatizing to those who witness it. but also lynching is fucking racist.
shelix if you somehow actually see this: you are a 15 year old please go have fun and enjoy your youth instead of whatever this is. sincerely a very tired 20 yr old who has spent time researching the topic of sexual violence & paraphilias (its our spinterest lol), and who knows you're going to one day regret spending time wallowing in hatred and anger. (speaking from personal experience)
sources btw
death penalty issues
overview of paraphilias / paraphilic disorders
paraphilia - pubmed
general information of paraphilias
a brief history of paraphilias
and some relevant charities, organizations, pages, etc because i actually give a genuine fuck about this as an issue.
the cyber tipline for child sexual exploitation
rape incest & abuse national network
stop it now - resources for pedophiles & csa prevention
find a crisis helpline
ic3 - report internet crimes
what to do when you find csam online
rape crisis lines, information, and support
whatsok - sex education for youth
wikipedia mental health resource center
helpwanted - an online course for minor attracted people
MOORE videos about preventing child sexual abuse
rapecrisis.org - rape/sexual abuse support and information
prevention.global - csa prevention + resources for pedophiles
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reading the radnormal strawpage and
this is so funny to me because
why are we treating minors like they're stupid and incapable of thinking for themselves or like they're innocent beings incapable of doing anything wrong ever
you realize paraphilias can develop even before puberty right. and people can be diagnosed as a pedophile as young as 16. right.
fuck the paraphiles who use fiction to express their sexuality in a safe way / without hurting other real beings i guess lmao. god forbid someone wants to jerk off to weird porn instead of actual csam or bestiality or whatever else.
also for the love of god let's not equate genuine abuse to fiction. do you not realize how bad it makes you sound.
these people piss me off i stg
you cant get rid of a sexual attraction btw. people have literally tried it's called conversion therapy, and paraphiles have been victim to it in the past.
okay im done with this
Many people ask us - "why is [stigmatized] paraphilia activism important to youth liberation?"
The answer is simple - because paraphilias aren't an adult-only experience.
Statistics show that 50% of paraphilias begin before the age of 18. Paraphilic minors are rarely ever considered or discussed in topics of para activism. In fact, even just suggesting that a child could have a fetish, kink, or other atypical attraction often leads people to cringe or vehemently disagree, because children are deemed "pure", and paraphilias are deemed "dirty."
We see this happen even with common paraphilias, like foot fetishes and BDSM - suggesting that a minor may experience those desires often leads to people accusing you of sexualizing children. But it's not "sexualizing children" to acknowledge that paraphilic children exist.
This is why inclusion of paraphilias in sex education would help young paraphiles to a phenomenal degree. Both teaching them that they aren't alone, and also teaching them safe kink/fetish practices.
Paramisia often leads to paraphiles developing mental health issues, like depression, anxiety, OCD, and even self harm or suicidal desires. Destigmatization of paraphiles would save children from self harm and suicide.
Additionally, non-paraphilic children could know paraphiles. Their friends, siblings, parents, uncles, aunts, grandparents, etc, might be a paraphile. And since purity culture and paramisia leads to the stigmatization of paraphiles, a child may notice that someone in their life is struggling from internal hatred or external hatred, but have no context or understanding as to why.
This can be confusing and anxiety inducing to the child in question, as they can tell something is wrong, but nobody will explain to them what it is.
And one final, very important note - the destigmatization of paraphilias actually leads to less CSA, because there are less paraphiles who get groomed into pro-contact spaces. More on that here [link].
-Quad Squad
it's just really apparent that people think it's okay to want pain but morally abhorrent to want to give it. sorry but the sadist gets to have fun too. it's actually pretty crucial to the process.
if I said I was going to a taekwondo class would you feel the need to tell me kicking people on the street is bad or.
Image ID: A screenshot of a tumblr comment that says "yeah, its only abhorrent imo, when the recipient is non consenting, i've" the screenshot cuts off.
You're not hurting anyone by engaging in your paraphilia through fiction. You're free to do whatever you want with imagination and art, and nobody is getting hurt.
fun fact, self expression of paraphilias is literally a thing they teach you during recovery!
it's called Acceptance and Commitment TherapyΒ (ACT) and Compassion Focused Therapy (CFT)
don't believe me?
https://psycnet.apa.org/record/2020-16775-009
https://reachlink.com/advice/psychotherapy/understanding-paraphilia-exploring-sexual-diversity-with-empathy/#:~:text=Acceptance%20and%20commitment%20therapy%20(ACT),while%20working%20through%20internalized%20stigma.
being anti-self expression for harmful (and nonharmful) paraphilias is quite literally anti-recovery.
make those flags!! preach ur heart!! love yourself for the sake of yourself!!

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Iβm sick and tired of the morality police in the furry fandom like why do yβall flip at feral nsfw with sentient consenting characters but as soon as those characters stand on two legs it becomes morally okay? Do you seriously think that people outside this fandom will even notice a difference? Like it or not, furry porn is inherently zoophilic to a degree, and thatβs OKAY. As long as no real animals or beings are being harmed why do yβall give a shit?
now Iβm not saying that being attracted to ferals or anthros is exactly the same as being attracted to irl animals, but you canβt deny that there is an overlap. The term fictozoophilia exists people and like it or not yβall who like any kind of furry porn fall in that category. So the fact yβall shit on ANTI-CONTACT zoos is wild to me, and always has been. People canβt control what they like. Of course, people can control what they do about it if itβs something immoral to act on in real life. To any paras, fictional or otherwise, yβall are more than welcome on my page.
The tragedy of my life is that I keep acquiring and displaying fetish art and having to be corrected by my friends.
Most recently, a friend came over my house and saw my computer background and went, "Wow, um, I didn't know you were into that." To which I look at the picture of the well drawn muscular female minotaur in historically accurate Greek clothing and I start geeking out about how I love the detail the artist did with the clothing and I point out the period appropriate folds and pins, how the artist even inserted the native plant that was used to dye the clothing this particular shade in the background, and even how the belt has technology AND historically accurate weaving patterns on it.
Then I start explaining how I love the muscular choices of the minotaur, that I was so impressed with the artist's anatomically correct depiction of the muscles converging into the neck. That many people get an upright cow's neck wrong because cow's don't have collarbones, so it can be very difficult to merge the upper arms and a chest of a human with a cow's body. I draw her attention to the beautiful way they've merged the pectoralis major so smoothly while also staying true to how muscular they've depicted the rest of the body.
I finish up with my thoughts on the artist's bold choice to depict the minotaur as a female, and despite the underlying themes of a minotaur being violence, child murder, strength, and muscles. I segue into how unlike bulls, cow are perceived as mothers. That they are the major source of milk in human culture, and that idyllic depictions of them in a field usually depict calves frolicking nearby, yet the minotaur kills and eats children.
I finish and there is a long pause.
"Urban, this is fetish art." and she takes me to the artist's twitter and god dammit it's fetish art, not a bold statement on cultural perceptions of women and violence throughout history. I have been tricked again.
tbh if they put that much thought and research into it and an unaware observer couldn't tell, is it actually fetish art? If it were actually fetish art, does that somehow preclude it from also being a commentary on women and violence?
Some of the boldest political and emotional messages I've ever seen came from straight up no nonsense porn. It's a setting that allows people to approach a major facet of the human experience without shame or obfuscation.
Keep in mind this is coming from an asexual person-- I don't think physical desire is some foundational keystone of life without which one isn't fully human. I think it's as morally neutral as hunger and thirst, and almost as impactful on all of human culture.
So why does the fetish cancel out the art?
Our tendency to dismiss anything associated with sex or the expression of sexual desire as frivelous and meaningless leads a lot of people to forget that pornographic art is still art.
The artist didn't just jerk off on the canvas and a beautiful minotaur appeared. They didn't spend hours researching greek dyemaking and bovine anatomy just because they were horny for muscular women. And their admiration for muscular women doesn't cease to be inherently transgressive of traditional and mainstream views of femininity just because they expressed that admiration in a sexual way.
Francisco Goya's The Nude Maja is a classical masterpiece that took three years to paint and is considered one of the greatest works of art ever made. [^] It's also porn. It was commissioned by a man-- the Prime Minister in fact-- to hang in a private room specifically for his nudes where he "often retired after dinner." It's believed the model depicted may have been his mistress.
In the political climate in which it was made, depicting a fully nude woman was extremely controversial (in fact it's considered one of the earliest western works to depict a woman's pubic hair without obvious negative connotations) especially because Goya painted her looking directly at the viewer, making her an active participant in an exchange of desire, rather than a passive object.
Eight years after it was finished, the Spanish Inquisition raided the Prime Minister's home, stole The Nude Maja and all his other paintings, and put Goya on trial for "moral depravity."
Goya, who had by then been rendered deaf by an unknown illness that may have been cumulative lead poisoning and was already sinking into the deep depression that marked his later years, escaped prosecution only by arguing that The Nude Maja followed in the "respectable" tradition of the classical nude [^^] , despite the fact that the full frontal nudity, pubic hair, direct stare, and the details that established the subject as a modern, living, literal woman, not a mythological figure or allegory-- the very features for which it was considered problematic-- were substantial departures from that tradition.
He could draw enough connections between it and a "respectable" painting in that genre by another lauded Spanish artist, appeasing nationalist egos and satisfying people that he was suitably reverent of the idealized past. Therefore, it wasn't porn. It was valuable, it was a classical nude.
To a modern viewer, it is in fact, more or less indistinguishable from any classical nude, despite the fact that when it was painted, anyone who saw it could have told you it was porn.
Today, The Clothed Maja, an almost identical but less risque painting which he created directly after The Nude Maja [^^^] is one of the paintings included in Animal Crossing: New Leaf.
Another painting included in New Leaf is Beauty Looking Back by Hishikawa Moronobu. It's an arch-typical example of the ukiyo-e genre. While far from all ukiyo-e art was erotic, it's not an exaggeration to say the overwhelming majority of it was, at the very least, intended to titillate.
The very name ukiyo-e associates the genre with hedonism, courtesans, brothels and pleasure districts. Beautiful courtesans were the most common subject. Nearly every ukiyo-e master produced explicitly pornographic work at some point in their careers. [^^^^] Beauty Looking Back is a pin up. It would have been recognized in the time it was created as something inherently sensual and referential towards sex, despite not being explicit.
And yet, it's "artistic value" (I do not like this term. The value of art is not and should not be quantifiable) is so unquestionable that Nintendo included it in arguably one of the most family friendly games in their notoriously, stringently family friendly catalog.
What is a fetish, if not a non-sexual element that inspires sexual desire?
What is fetish art, if not a depiction of these non-sexual elements intended, whether explicit or not, to arouse that same desire in the viewer?
What defines something as being outside the boundaries of "normal" sexual desire? Breasts aren't a reproductive organ, they're not inherently sexual. Neither is the ass. But they do inspire sexual desire, at least in those whose cultural back ground has taught them to associate those body parts with sex.
If feeling sexual desire because of anything that isn't genitalia is a fetish, then all erotic art-- from the most explicit adult films to those Levi's billboard ads where the models are doing their best not to wear the jeans they are advertising-- is fetish art.
So when did The Nude Maja and Beauty Looking Back stop being fetish art, and become art?
When does it stop being shameful to admire the beauty and technical skill of a creative work just because it's sexual in nature?
Is it just time? Or have we let ourselves be led into imagining the past was a land of chastity and virtue, its art inherently more valuable and firmly divorced from physical desire-- where men could paint tits all day and other men pay small fortunes to commission and purchase those tit paintings all without a single impure thought-- compared to which our modern age is debauched, immoral, deviant, degenerate?
If that Minotaur was hanging in a museum with a placard that said it was painted in the 1700's, would you, or your friend, still assume it was fetish art?
If you'd come across it in a context where you knew it was sexual, would you still have stopped to notice and appreciate the skill and the research put into the details?
This was a hell of a tangent, and if OP is the kind of person who notices period accurate historical details at a glance and the particulars of bovine anatomy to the degree of being able to make an educated statement about how well someone has accounted for the musculature whilst attaching a cow head to a human body-- probably none of this art history trivia is news to you.
The point is just this. Maybe you weren't "tricked" into seeing the art before the porn.
Maybe your friend was tricked by our deeply sex negative culture into only seeing the porn and missing the art entirely.
[^]: Though he's better known on tumblr for Saturn Devouring His Son, which I'm always delighted to remind people is not a name he gave it. It wasn't discovered until after his death, so we can't know for certain what he intended to depict. The greek myth of Zeus's father eating his children was a best guess and, imo, a way of sanitizing the disturbing nature of the image by framing it as part of the classical tradition of mythological art, rendering it allegorical and academic instead of horrifying and unexplained. It was not the first time Goya's work would rendered more palatable to conservative audiences by claiming it was part of classical tradition, which brings me back to Maja.
[^^]: Physically fighting the urge to add a rant here about fascism and "degenerate" art. Just go watch Jacob Gellar's "Who's Afraid Of Modern Art." He does a better job of it than I would anyway.
[^^^]: presumably also at the Prime Minister's request, with the intention they be displayed together and not, as urban legend likes to say, because the Inquisition forced him to. The concept of creating a clothed and a naked version of the subject so that the viewer can imagine undressing them is a tradition well preserved in commissioned pornographic art today.
[^^^^]: and I do not mean ~artistic nudes~ here. I mean fully explicit art created with the specific intention of being porn. Like I could not post them on tumblr without them being immediately taken down for violating community guidelines, regardless of their "artistic value" as historical works by globally recognized masters of the genre whose non explicit works are so well known and well loved they ended up in ANIMAL CROSSING.
Reposting this quote (originally from @apricops) because this is honestly the main type of art that I care about:
I just don't know how to explain it properly in a way that doesn't make me sound insane.
I don't like it when some story or artwork was made to be palatable to the public in order to be sold and make money.
I like stories and artwork that were made and released publicly because the creator is fucking PASSIONATE about some insane niche fetish. I want to read stories written by someone with a fully deranged autistic fascination with basset hounds or children's feet or farting zombies or getting stung on the dick by wasps or whatever.
Even when I'm not into it, even when kind of upsets me, I love to see the sincere, authentic enthusiasm behind these sorts of creative works and I am not joking.
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by the way it's fine to like sexual content just for the sake of it. "we can't ban porn because other stuff will get banned" "sometimes nude art has value" "the government will classify queer people as sexual" this is all true but it's okay to just like porn. its okay to not want porn to be banned because you like it.

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