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ohhh noooo someone thinks its sexy to be a woman god forbidddddd!!! /sarc 😰

like im sorry but instead of saying "people with autogynephilia should NEVER be trans women or transfems!! Thats JUST a stereotype, nobody like that ACTUALLY exists!! 😡" how about we like...idk deconstruct the idea that there's something immoral about being a paraphile??? 🤔

And then there's the really STUPID argument of "well then they're non-consensually involving me in their kink by making me call them a woman." Babe, I hate to break it to you thats like saying to person who is fat due to their feederism "they're non-consensually involving me in their kink by making me acknowledge them as fat." Like, they ARE fat - you're just lying if you say they aren't.

+ more information & statistics from this article!

“"It is very important for the public to understand that most child molesters are not pedophiles, [Many people] have the impression, when you talk about someone being a pedophile, that they have a permanent and unalterable sexual interest in children and, therefore, they are going to be dangerous under any circumstances and under any form of management—and that’s not true,"”

-David Finkelhor , professor of sociology and the director of the Crimes Against Children Research Center at the University of New Hampshire.

"While pedophiles are, specifically, primarily attracted to prepubescent children, the majority of child molesters need not be."

[see source linked above]

""When asked about methods to help pedophiles cope with their desires, Finkelhor said that the subject of treatment is hindered by the “tremendous stigma” against the sexual attraction to children. “A lot of people who have those kinds of impulses don’t refer themselves for treatment, but some do,” he says. Finkelhor adds that stigma isn’t the only factor that can discourage treatment, saying that “[the US has] very strong reporting laws [that] require that any clinician who knows of someone who’s committed an offense is required to report that.”

^ those contributing social stigma towards paraphiles, specifically pedophiles, are what directly causes them not to seek help and treatment, even if, or especially if, they feel they have dangerous impulses

According to Finkelhor, one may be a pedophile with the absence of trauma; likewise, many of the people who do have such trauma don’t end up there, so “there has to be something else besides that.”

^ paraphilia isn't inherently caused by trauma

“I do think that there is a need for more understanding,” Finkelhor said. If, for instance, the group of pedophiles who do not act on their desire is large, then it may be a promising impication for the treatment of pedophilia. “But, as you might imagine,” Finkelhor said, “it’s relatively hard to get people to admit to that kind of interest.”

^ everybody show love to pedophiles NOW!! yes you heard me!!! decreasing social stigma will DIRECTLY lower the amount of child sexual abuse!!!!!

Uhm.. Actually, you can be. There's a lot of people who are honest when answering that question. They just do it in ways that don't come across so upsetting or depressing.

Many people sugarcoat their answers to be more palatable for a greeting, or for a start of a conversation. It can also just be a polite way of giving others an out for a potential depressing conversation they may not want to be a part of.

These responses usually come in forms like, - "How are you?/How's it going?" - "Could be better." "It's definitely going." "I'm still alive." "I'm getting there." "New day, new problems." "Well, I'm still here." "Same old." "It's not all sunshine." "It's moving along". "It is what it is." "Not great but I'll survive." "Hoping tomorrow comes quickly." And many more responses like this. These are all ways of basically saying "Things are kinda/very shit at the moment for me". But they just don't go into detail about it. They are being honest, without the extra information.

If the other person doesn't want to go further into this then they may just responed with something like "I feel you", or "That's relatable", or "Yeh, that's life". Which are basically ways of saying "I acknowledge things aren't easy right now", without having to go into a conversation about it. Not everyone has the emotional energy to deal with conversations like that in that moment and that's okay.

🎮NOSTALGIC GAMES BLINKIES

Shout out to that one tumblr post that was like: "You know it's not just trans people who ponder their gender, it's healthy for cis people to take a look inside and be like! Yep that's all good!" And I read this post and was like.... like what do you look at inside though T O T??? I asked my boyfriend how he knew he was a boy and he said he just felt this unexplainable intrinsic feeling he was a boy... and I'm like... I HAVE GENUINELY NO IDEA WHAT YOU'RE TALKING ABOUT WTF 😭😭😭!!!!!!!! So apparently its like. Normal for people to feel this inexplicable 'Gender' feeling or whatever,,, I feel like how asexual people feel when they discover people around them aren't making up the fact they experience sexual arousal T O T

Obviously all my sciency stuff is just speculation! But I'm the type of person who believe that everything has a rationale behind it, and like an adopted child who is curious about their biological parents, I am just interested in my origins! The field of genetics still is mostly just like,,,, hmmm we think this whatever MIGHT be a contributing factor to a person turning out this way... maybe. If you are more interested in the topic I discussed, just look up 'epigenetics' and there should be some more stuff OuO!

Btw cisgender ness doesn't have to be completely binary and strict either.

same mfs when an enby calls themselves straight: 😱😱😱😱