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hi! I’m a trans+nonbinary aro ace, they/them or any neutral pronoun is fine!. I’m Queer, white, autistic, disabled, and I live in the US. I’m 27, and at this time I’m not comfortable with those under 16 following me.

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deltaomicronfive

Homeless friend in need of food

Hey yall. I have discussed my homeless friend Dan sensitively on all 3 pages before. But he's not just an experiment on this page to extend the kind of help I offer to others. He's a 20 year old I regard as a kid in need of an olive branch from safe community. I had the power to feed him when we met. And so I consider my obligation to try for someone I care for.

After I stopped moving money for others in my personal accounts, we fell out over the boundary.

But Dan has no stability, a small network and often no food. He's a human being I care for deeply who deserves to eat. If mutual aid is for anything, it's this.

I am setting a small goal of 200 usd for him. To make sure he is fed over the next few weeks. And lucky for Americans in some ways because I'm certain I can point him to more resources, personally.

His cashapp is $fqyn

And I appreciate your faith and trust and me on this matter. Thank you for feeding my friends.

0/200

tamamoland-of-the-whatever

the thing is i'm not sure either of us would be able to tell whether the love potion you spiked me with was actually working i think i would act more or less exactly the same as usual due to my inability to initiate and would not register that i was feeling any different due to the autism and social anxiety

tamamoland-of-the-whatever

gets spiked with love potion and goes from being too nervous to initiate anything and thinking "yeah this is probably the normal way to feel about friends which i am 70% certain is what we are" to being too nervous to initiate anything and thinking "yeah this is probably the normal way to feel about friends which i am 70% certain is what we are"

datadegroove-deactivated2026042

stop deactivating

datadegroove-deactivated2026042

i thought we all agreed we were here forever

#posts whose value went up after op deactivated

ampervadasz

loth-catgirl

peac & love on planet earth

astalkingirin

So this is interesting because entire thing is communication, and it also shows how important different threat/aggression postures are.

The first cat comes in ready for a fight. Low down, trying not to be seen, stalking/wary posture.

Second cat jumps in the air and then does the exaggerated arch. That's an absolutely terrified cat. No cool, no chill. A cat willing to fight would not have gone full arch because it's moving them out of a position where they could launch themselves at the other cat. However, a scared cat can move from this to a preemptive attack if they think the other cat is going to attack them and just moving slowly.

Realizing the second cat doesn't want a fight, the first cat comes out of the low, threatening slink quickly to roll around to say hey, whoops, they weren't here to attack, they don't want to fight either.

With similar speed and exaggeration as the arch, the second cat does the same wiggle that yes, I too have no desire to fight, look at me doing the same thing and conspicuously not attacking when you're vulnerable.

To function as a social species, you need checks and deescalation. Both cats don't have perfect information about the other cat, and they need to know that they could misread or be misread, and then adjust their behavior to fix the problem.

#these cats have better deescalation skills than most usamerican cops #like it’s not even a competition