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hi! I’m a trans+nonbinary aro ace, they/them or any neutral pronoun is fine!. I’m Queer, white, autistic, disabled, and I live in the US. I’m 27, and at this time I’m not comfortable with those under 16 following me.

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my frustration with like, "look at how medically unsound and subjective the designation of 'drug-seeking' is" is you can point this out till you're blue in the face but it doesn't matter, as long as there is a mechanism for doctors and nurses to deny people pain meds that will affect people who ask for pain meds. i don't give a fuck if they asked because they have chronic pain or because they're in withdrawal or because they like doing drugs, or all fucking three. we either give people pain meds or we don't. you cannot defend your own interests here by casting 'recreational' users aside, and even if you could, you morally shouldn't.
clears throat. More characters with self harm scars that aren't plot relevant. characters with healed self harm scars that show their past and that they aren't harming any more. more stories that show people with self harm scars that are as common and normal as they really truly are that maybe don't even ever mention them. how about that?
reblog that post about Black people, whitey
i mean "posts about Black people" in a broad sense, that can mean anything from struggles to Black joy, and when you see the notes, most of the time it’s double digits, three if I'm being generous.
start being comfortable posting Black people's words in your blogs, the same way you'll reblog posts about transness, gayness, disability, because these specific topics can affect you
start actually giving a fuck about Black folks and reblogging our words is the barest minimum
Tomorrow evening i have to be at my church to meet with everyone to head to the therapy retreat this weekend. And i also wanted to purchase one the handmade windchimes from one of the women that will be attending if possible i sorta am looking to start a collection . I find them very peaceful. I just wanted to know if i could get help to get there tomorrow night and get the windchime if possible
$65 to get to retreat departure point and windchime
Cash app : daniellegrant64
Venmo: danielle-grant-131
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I haven't gotten any help as yet it's been a couple hours I just don't want to miss the retreat especially cause I already paid the church to go . Im feeling worried that I won't get there all I have it carfare to get to and from physical therapy tomorrow that's it I don't even care about the damn chime at this point just wanna be able to get there that's all. I'm trying to chill my anxiety because I still have tomorrow til about 5pm cause everyone has to be there by 6 and we are taking off by 6:15 . So Im trying to hold on to faith
I've had the post up for 6 hours so far praying that I could get there . I can't get a refund if I don't show up so that's a huge reason why im kinda antsy for the help . I'm trying to get some sleep but my brain won't let me cause I just keep feeling like I won't get to go to the retreat. I tried distracting myself but the more time passes the more worried I'm getting . Im sorry to bother you guys I just really need to go this woman's weekend for my mental health everything has been so shitty for me and I just really wanted a win please I don't wanna miss this opportunity

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Tomorrow evening i have to be at my church to meet with everyone to head to the therapy retreat this weekend. And i also wanted to purchase one the handmade windchimes from one of the women that will be attending if possible i sorta am looking to start a collection . I find them very peaceful. I just wanted to know if i could get help to get there tomorrow night and get the windchime if possible
$65 to get to retreat departure point and windchime
Cash app : daniellegrant64
Venmo: danielle-grant-131
Paypal: daniellegrant439
I haven't gotten any help as yet it's been a couple hours I just don't want to miss the retreat especially cause I already paid the church to go . Im feeling worried that I won't get there all I have it carfare to get to and from physical therapy tomorrow that's it I don't even care about the damn chime at this point just wanna be able to get there that's all. I'm trying to chill my anxiety because I still have tomorrow til about 5pm cause everyone has to be there by 6 and we are taking off by 6:15 . So Im trying to hold on to faith
I've had the post up for 6 hours so far praying that I could get there . I can't get a refund if I don't show up so that's a huge reason why im kinda antsy for the help . I'm trying to get some sleep but my brain won't let me cause I just keep feeling like I won't get to go to the retreat. I tried distracting myself but the more time passes the more worried I'm getting . Im sorry to bother you guys I just really need to go this woman's weekend for my mental health everything has been so shitty for me and I just really wanted a win please I don't wanna miss this opportunity
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The 13th annual international gender census, collecting information about the language we use to refer to ourselves and each other, is now open until 13th August 2026.
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After the survey is closed I’ll process the results and publish a spreadsheet of the data and a report summarising the main findings. Then anyone can use them for academic or business purposes, self-advocacy, tracking the popularity of language over time, and just feeling like we’re part of a huge and diverse community.
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But reylo really is the most heterosexual ship out there because the man’s violence and anger and general immaturity are taken to be romantic and the woman’s clear feelings of disgust/hatred/fear of the man are completely ignored.
to think they crucified me for this and acted like I was shitting on DV victims. I’ll add that reylo is white as FUCK.
t shirt that just says WHATEVER YOU’RE READING INTO MY FACIAL EXPRESSIONS AND BODY LANGUAGE YOU’RE MISINTERPRETING

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It's seriously fucked up that there's no way to speak frankly with a professional about suicidal thoughts without the looming threat of involuntary institutionalization and, by extension, psychiatric abuse. How, exactly, are suicidal people supposed to be aided in not feeling suicidal if they aren't allowed to safely express it through what are supposed to be the appropriate channels?
I made an automaton in the shape od a human from clockwork components and it sees with porcelain eyes and it feels with a cold and metallic touch and the only warmth it knows is when I'm welding it back together every time it falls or breaks itself but soon I'm going to show it how it feels to know love. And after that I'm going to make it understand how it feels to have your heart broken. I'm doing this because I'm crazy and have problems
She turned to me recently after everything was said and done and she caressed my cheek softly, wiping tears from my eyes, and she told me she forgives me. She forgives me and its okay. That she's glad she went through that and that she would have never known what it's like to love if I hadn't, that her body would have never known warmth and her heart would never have the spark I gave her, even if I took it away. And i cried. I cried a lot. Because I never meamt to do any of that. I only created her and did all of that because I wanted to hurt something. I wanted to create something beautiful and then make it feel the pain I know like a lover and I told her all of that and she told me she knows. And that she always knew. And she chose to love me anyways. And she told me she still loves me, even now. And I asked her why. I asked her why she loves me in spite of everything about me that's wrong and she said I was looking at it wrong. She said she didn't love me in spite of what I am. She said she loves me in my totality. For everything and everyone I am, even the me I've grown to loathe completely, and I cried. I cried because I made her and yet she's so much more than I will ever be. She's kind. She's caring. She's compassionate. She loves deeply even when she knows that love will never amount to anything because that's who she is. She's beautiful. And I made her. And I only made her to feel pain, but she feels so much more than that. I wish I was like her. I wish I had what she has. But I know deep down that I never will, and thats because I'm crazy and have problems
“One of the strongest feelings I remember from my childhood is, precisely, of being humiliated; of being knocked about by words, acts, or situations. Isn’t it a fact that children are always feeling deeply humiliated in their relations with grown-ups and each other? I have a feeling children spend a good deal of their time humiliating one another. Our whole education is just one long humiliation, and it was even more so when I was a child. One of the wounds I’ve found hardest to bear in my adult life has been the fear of humiliation, and the sense of being humiliated. Every time I read a review, for instance — whether laudatory or not — this feeling awakes. To humiliate and be humiliated, I think, is a crucial element in our whole social structure.”
— Ingmar Bergman; Interviews with Ingmar Bergman by Stig Bjorkman
truly one of the most upsetting things to hear in pretty much any context is "i'm used to it"
let's hear some flat affected cheers and listless applause from the anhedonic crowd
i do find the rules around clothes fascinating because of how made up it all is. we invented the idea of covering our bodies from the elements because we lack fur like other mammals and then made up all these rules around it and now people will unironically tell you "men cant wear skirts its unnatural" girl none of this is natural. we are born naked and made up the rest as we went along. hope this helps.

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It’s okay to not want to have sex ever. It’s okay to never even try it.
I was 23 before it even occurred to me that not starting with sex ever was an option. The feeling of relief was so great I actually cried.
You don’t have to if you don’t want to. You can have a fine live without ever having sex, I promise you.
Also, it’s okay to never date anyone ever. It’s okay to never even try it if you don’t want to.
I wrote a master’s thesis on intentionally single people, and the number of them that said in various ways, “I didn’t know not dating people was even an option at first” was absolutely tragic. They honestly thought they had no choice and it never occurred to them that opting out was even a possibility available to them.
People honestly believe these are life experience you are required to have AND THEY ARE NOT.
You can just not have sex. You can just not date people. You can completely by-pass one or both of those things. Neither of those things are required to be healthy, happy, normal, mature, fulfilled, or any of the other bullshit notions that get attached to these things.
Sex positivity is about bodily agency which includes the choice to NOT/NEVER have sex, so inclusion of asexual/celibate/sex repulsed people will always be a pillar of any real discussion of sex positivity and sexual freedom.
Finding out AI companies are chewing through - literally, they’re pulping and burning them as they go - millions of books often including 1/1s and old texts that cannot be reprinted
Meanwhile there’s always some dipshit telling me AI is the future and we’ve got to just let companies erase human history and literature so they can train their abomination machines to pretend to think like people because a judge said it’s fine
AI companies are buying and scanning printed books for training data, raising copyright and cultural preservation concerns as rare volumes a