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her skills are abysmal = she is unskilled

This film is a biopic following a single day in the life of Peter Hujar in 1974. It premiered at last year's Sundance. Hujar was a photographer whose black and white portraits went largely unrecognized during his life but have since made him recognized as one of the great queer photographers of the 70s and 80s. Hujar died of AIDS in 1987.

After hundreds of hours of reading and research, my 2025 Starter Guide to transfeminine literature is finally live!

No matter your experience level, there's a book for you 🏳️‍⚧️📚 The list covers a vast range of genres. There are 78 handcrafted recs on this list, and I've read all but two.

The major addition to the 2025 list is an International section offering titles from over a dozen countries around the globe. That includes titles translated from eight different languages, and work from Anglosphere countries beyond the US, UK, and Canada. The Genre section has also been expanded.

a neophallus can get erect with an implant (this will either be a bendable rod or a device that inflates with saline at the press of a button, usually in the testicles)

both can feel sexual pleasure and experience orgasm

most neovaginas will be able to tolerate larger insertions with enough dilating/training

the nerves in neophalluses take a while to regrow but it is incredibly rare to experience no sexual nerve growth

both can look and feel "normal" if that's what you want, just take good care of your scars and look at your surgeons' results portfolio (and don't be afraid to be picky! its your genitals, you get to decide!)

in fact it's possible for many people to stealth and for their sexual partners to never know. even for phallo, some people with natal penises have erectile implants too, ED is common. neocaginas are often indistinguishable from natal vaginas

many surgeons are starting to offer preservation options for patients who want a more mixed look/don't want to lose what they have

I Will Not Apologize

Happy Pride, ya'll.

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Prints: https://www.inprnt.com/gallery/mxmorgan/

I get wet when I'm horny, I have a vaginal microbiome, it feels like a cis vagina to partners who've been with cis women, and it can take a whole fucking HAND.

I just want to remind folks that the medical technology we have available is amazing, and that there are people and groups out there that have a vested interest in making sure you don't know that.

If you're on the fence don't listen to the propaganda. At the very least talk to a post op transfem before you decide.

mark my words

This is part of why gender, like, persists as a concept.

A lot of people (particularly people who don't realize they're trans, and also TERFs) think that most people (especially women) HATE their genders and HATE their experience with gender.

That's really far from true. Most women like being women (cis or trans). They hate sexism for sure (unless they're a tradwife or antifeminist and don't believe it exists ig), they may have suffered tremendously due to sexism, but like. They generally do like being women.

Similarly, most men, like. Generally like being men and enjoy that they are men and enjoy being a man.

Three months later she told me she was trans, and three days ago, she told me she's now out as trans femme everywhere except at work <3

Think about it. It actually might change your life

If you are absolutely miserable being a man, you can just...stop being a man. Or realize you weren't ever actually one in the first place

A lot of trans people are absolutely SUFFOCATING under how much they hate being/"being" their assigned gender

So, reason for hope:

If "being a man" or "being a woman" is something you hate, or makes you feel miserable, or makes you hate yourself, or makes you feel like you're suffocating under the weight of it, you can literally just nope out of that

(This also absolutely applies if you read that paragraph and went "Okay I don't like it but it's not THAT bad." That's a level of feeling a lot of trans people experience but it is in no way necessary to be trans, and also the impulse to minimize things can be so strong)

Also reblogging to add that I'm so busy being nonbinary that I forgot to actually specify that this includes nonbinary people/identities and agender people, obviously. Whoops.

I added this to the original post an hour later but it didn't get included in all the versions going around:

You can say “Actually I’m a man” or “Actually I’m a woman.” You can say “Actually I’m neither of those.” You can say “Actually I’m both of those and more.” You can say “Actually I don’t have a gender.” You can say “Actually I’m some other gender entirely.” You can say “Actually fuck off with this entire concept of gender and get it away from me please.” You can say whatever feels most right.