it’s rotten work. to me if it’s me.

for me to be known is to be humiliated Lowkey

free yourself. accept liking and doing “cringy” things if they’re things you like.

google used to know what i was talking about

(nods sagely) (nods basily) (nods rosemarily) (nods saltly) (nods star anisely)

The OBSESSION with identity is so crazy like the view that when you do something it immediately becomes part of your identity and all the parts of you have to click together to become “person who wakes up early” or “person who reads” no you can literally just do something without restructuring your whole performance of personhood around it. I don’t know what to tell you except that you will never be able to have an entirely unfractured view of yourself or that you will be able to rationalize all the complex parts of yourself into the phrase “person who x” like you should just be doing things without performing them. Or aestheticizing them. Just try different things on and keep what works for you. Otherwise you will never learn and grow!

i think when u clean your house it should stay clean forever. what do u mean i have to do it again