and so an era comes to an end this December

Here’s an article about it:

[Trans ask game! What has been your gender journey?]

Feel free to reblog, all trans people are included, binary or non-binary! Send a few numbers to someone’s ask box! 

How did you choose your name?

What gives you the most dysphoria? (Acknowledging that not all trans people experience dysphoria)

Do you have more physical dysphoria or more social dysphoria?

What do you do to perform self-care when you’re feeling dysphoric?

What was the first time you suspected you were transgender?

When did you realize you were transgender?

What is your favorite part of being transgender?

How would you explain your gender identity to others?

How did you come out? If you didn’t come out, why do you stay in the closet? Or what happened when you were outed?

What have your experiences with packing or tucking?

What are your experiences with binding or wearing breast forms?

Do you pass?

What (if any) steps do you want to take to medically transition?

How long have you been out?

What labels have you used before you’ve settled on your current set?

Have you ever experienced transphobia?

What do you do when you have to go to the bathroom in public?

How does your family feel about your trans identity?

Would you ever go stealth, and if you are stealth, why do you choose to be stealth?

What do you wish you could have shared with your younger self about being trans?

Why do you use the pronouns you use?

Do your neurodivergencies and/or disabilities affect your gender?

What’s your biggest trans-related fear?

What medical, social, or personal steps have you already taken to start your transition?

What do you wish cis people understood?

What impact has being trans had on your life?

What do you do to validate yourself?

How do you feel about trans representation in media?

Who is your favorite trans celebrity?

Who is the transgender person who has influenced you the most?

How are you involved with the trans community, IRL or online?

How do you see yourself identifying and presenting in 5 years?

What trans issue are you most passionate about?

What advice would you give to other trans people, or what message would you like to share with them?

How do you feel your gender interacts with your race, disability, class, weight, etc. from the perspective of intersectionality?

What, if any, is the difference between your gender identity and your gender expression?

Do you feel more masculine, feminine, or neither?

What is your sexual and romantic orientation, and what are your thoughts on it?

Is your ideal partner also trans, or do you not have a preference?

How did/do you manage waiting to transition?

What is the place (blog, website, forum, IRL space) you get most of your info on being trans or on trans related things?

Do you interact with other trans people IRL?

Are you involved in any trans-related activism?

Anyone can wear the mask. You could wear the mask. If you didn’t know that before, I hope you do now.

Hey everyone, this is our final updated donation post on the status of our baby.

We are pregnant with a planned baby, and due to COVID getting so bad in our area, I am now working from home with cut hours on medical accommodations. You can read the details in these two posts [x] [x]

We got our sweet baby Sam’s diagnosis, and it is much more grim than the original speculation of spina bifida. They have multiple severe brain and heart defects. After several extensive medical consultations from fetal cardiologists and 3 perinatologists, we have determined that Sam is not compatible with life. We will be getting an induction of labor and an autopsy to find out exactly what was going on with our sweet baby. We also had amniocentesis done, so that should give us an idea of anything chromosomally or genetically that could be affecting Sam.

We will be inducing labor hopefully next week. I will be in recovery for 6-8 weeks after delivery. If my delivery is covered by insurance, my out of pocket costs will be around $3000. If it’s not, it will be much more expensive, and I will update this post with the final delivery cost. We don’t know if it will be covered until early next week because AZ is not good with these kind of things, but we’re hopeful.

Due to the sudden nature of Sam’s diagnosis and prognosis, we are definitely set back budget wise and could use some help. We did not expect my hours to be cut in exchange for a medical accommodation, and I’m about to be off work for 6-8 weeks before returning to campus full-time.

To everyone that has supported us so far, I am beyond grateful for everything you have given us. I promise the baby supplies you have donated will not go to waste. We will be trying again as soon as we get genetic testing done and I return to work full-time. Sam has been a blessing to us after years of infertility and several miscarriages. All we want is to have a family. Our nursery was almost finished.

Anything that y’all have sent on cash.app and PayPal has gone to food, gas, and bills.

If you would like to help us with hospital bills, postpartum costs, cremation costs, food, and house bills, my cash.app is $forcewielder, and you can DM me for PayPal

If you have any experience with something like this and would like to share your story, I would be happy to hear it. It’s nice knowing that we’re not alone. This is the hardest decision we’ve ever had to make, and I didn’t think that we would become parents in such a terrible way.

We are also looking for resources on clothes for babies smaller than micro preemies, as well as other memorabilia type things to help with Sam’s passing, as well as grief resources that are accessible during the pandemic. Meal train resources would also be a great resource as well, just so my husband can have a break from cooking while helping me recover from labor.

And, more than anything else, please be kind and keep our family in your hearts. We appreciate good vibes, prayers, rituals and anything else that your belief system does for loss of a child and grief.

Cash.app: $forcewielder

PayPal: DM me

/all pro-eugenics and anti-choice clowns will be blocked and reported for hate speech/

the other night my friends and i played around with phasmophobia’s local in game chat

Rio: …Tall

Aaron: …Miles…I love you, and I am proud of you…but you are somehow the smartest and dumbest boy I have ever known.

Miles: Says the man who used his big brain to become a criminal when he could’ve been a black Tony Stark with that gear he made. And thought working for the Kingpin, who everyone knows will throw his minions away like tissues, was a good idea!

Peter: He makes a good point, babe, you did kind of mess up first–