To anyone worried about their emotional investment (and consequent grief/devastation/ongoing coping issues) with fictional material: Please consider sports fans and fannishness before you judge yourself too harshly. It is normal human behavior to have large emotional reactions to things you care about and even more so when it's bigger than your own life (in the way sports and tv shows can be.)
We all know sports fan activities tend to be masculine-coded and therefore socially acceptable while story fan activities are coded feminine/queer and therefore looked down on.
So don't worry about it. It would be nice if we could all meet around the water cooler and chat openly about our feelings without censoring ourselves or fearing judgement from those who don't necessarily understand. But that's why we have cons and tumblr etc.
Take care of yourselves. Be gentle with yourself. Who you are is okay. You don't need to be different. Know that time will pass and you will feel better.
















