you guys need to be kinder to people you donāt find attractive. itās getting ridiculous.
iām fat, intersex, and disabled. so many times if i hung out with someone, their outfit gets complimented but not mine (even if i that person literally picked out my outfit so its not a matter of me just not having a good fashion taste). so many times have people treated other people around me kind but their attitude changes immediately if they have the misfortune to interact with me. i donāt do anything to warant this besides looking different. i get treated like iām not there or not human. it sucks.
i know this affects more than just fat intersex disabled people. trans people, people of color, women in general, but especially those who have any of these traits or even just donāt wear makeup. dehumanization can be subtle. but we noticeā¤ļø























