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I am sure this is mostly the internet providing a warped and unrepresentative picture but the rule of thumb that any group organized exclusively on the principle of 'we're all [demographic], so clearly we should all be friends. Everyone who is [demographic] is welcome!' is going to be a miserable toxic snakepit so far remains entirely undefeated.
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Your uncle is caught up in a tradition that he was taught as an apprentice that he never questioned. Modern putty doesn't require phone, the formula has changed.
I use d&d group as an example in these posts so often because it is a good example of a situation where there is nothing in terms of material circumstances keeping you there, you are not dependent on the d&d group for money or safety or anything, the most you have to lose by walking away is a small group of friends who from your description are obnoxiously shitty people anyway, and yet I keep running into people in these groups who refuse to stop going to them for literally no reason whatsoever. just inertia. just some weird idea that "not hanging out with them" is not a thing they are capable of or have an option to do. or strings of invented excuses in the vein of english people and air conditioners
I think a lot of people have their learned helplessness and lack of agency taught from an early age or otherwise passively passed down to them in some way. I dunno. it continually baffles me as to how people get this idea that the first and only response they can have to adversity and social pressure regardless of circumstances is "do nothing and hope it goes away". sometimes I am outright confused at how unwilling people are to take an out that is right in front of them like "stop hanging out with your shitass d&d group that you hate every week, just leave".
my mom is a very measured and reasoned person but she is also the sort of person for whom killing a dog with her bare hands was on the table if the dog in question tried to bite one of her children.
Linus has always been very clear that what he values is technical merit, "how good is the Linux kernel", and for better or worse he doesn't give a fuck about social or philosophical issues around the technology. He rejected GPLv3 for Linux because all he cares about is the "share-back" nature of the GPLv2 improving Linux on a technical level; he doesn't care about Tivoization or any of the other social or legal priorities of the FSF.
This stance irks people who want software to be a philosophical or social battleground, and I won't offer a strong opinion on whether Linus is right or wrong, but it has firmly been his position for decades and he wasn't about to change it now.
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movies/tv are infinitely worse for endless and valueless padding than books are. especially in the era of straight-to-streaming video where there is no fucking editor forcing anyone to cut anything down to fit in a timeslot, you can just draw out individual shots where fucking nothing new happens as long as you like. not that long drawn-out shots don't serve a purpose, but you can really tell when one is going for tone or atmosphere or doing something meaningful with pacing vs there is no fucking reason for the camera to linger on this guy's unchanging expression for one full minute. netflix openly admits that one of the primary metrics they track is total amount of time watched, if you're curious.
books are forced at least to invent some kind of material to progress the clock at all, and if you're a transplant from the victorian era, you can accomplish this through some combination of purple prose, going off on absolutely random-ass tangents, belaboring a point redundantly, and so on, and it's very bad, but you are at least having to do something other than the equivalent of copypasting the same paragraph repeatedly for two pages.
hold on, the rats were a literal actual "collecting groupies for sex purposes" cult (eta: can't find the sex purposes part again) in the early 00s that only later expanded to a blogosphere and none of you are mentioning this? not even on the point of why rationalists might keep spawning little cults? also I trust the "everyone is vulnerable to cults" posters even less now. like god damn speak for yourselves. I was apparently able to correctly smell something rotten from reading approximately two paragraphs of Yud out of idle curiosity.
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This link floated across my dash but I can't seem to find who posted it
The inside story of Peter Thiel's MKUltra by someone who thinks it was kind of good, actually.
And man, I am just fascinated by the sheer number of cults that float around a movement called "rationalism".
Quick critical thinking lesson:
Then Geoff posed a thought experiment: What if Tyler took a pill, then started floating off the ground, and touched down five minutes later — then would Tyler feel that he needed to use a scientific tool in order to trust his own observations? What if Tyler took another pill from the same jar, and the second time he took the pill he floated off the ground, then touched down five minutes later? How long would it take for Tyler to conclude that each pill made him float for five minutes?
Anybody who says something like this is trying to recruit you to a cult, sell you snake oil, or both, 100% of the time no exceptions.
"If I keep proving that I can guess which card you picked out of the deck, why would you ever bother to examine the deck?"
I have a lot more to say, maybe, when I'm less tired. Lydia Laurensen is also a real odd duck.
Speaking of not being able to admit what your actual politics are, after skimming that incredibly long article Laurensen wrote about Leverage, I also somehow read this one as well.
And a few things that happened while I was there
It's paywalled now, so I don't know if it was previewed for a while, or if I accidentally pressed the button that gave me my one free article, or what, but I did read the whole thing.
The executive summary is that, like a truly surprising number of people the George Floyd riots broke her brain, and she gravitated towards a neoreactionary discord because they were actually willing to listen about her feelings of stress about living in the St Paul Minneapolis region and not really knowing how to deal with the riots without calling her a racist.
I don't really care about that part, riots are scary, I've often found that, especially back then left-wingers had a tendency to psychoanalyze you and explain why you were making an argument from internalized racism or whatever and right-wingers were often more able to argue directly which is, honestly, easier to deal with. "You're wrong" is a more respectful and less disorienting way to argue than, "I bet so-and-so only thinks this way because he's secretly a conservative."
The real question, which she not only never addresses and in fact seems totally unaware of, is what the fuck Curtis Yarvin was even doing there.
According to Laurensen, both now and at the time she was obsessed with the fear that increasing polarization would lead to a civil war and the final collapse of the American government, and she is intensely patriotic.
So when Yarvin sent a message to the group saying he was looking for a new fiancee (???) she thought, in her words, "What's the worst that could happen?"
So, like... Your mental health is suffering because you're afraid that increasing polarization will lead to the collapse of the government, and you're wondering what is the worst thing that could happen if you get engaged to a man who is funded by billionaires with the explicit project of increasing political polarization until the US government collapses and is replaced by an authoritarian government?
I mean... like, just off the top of my head...
It's so weird, she even brings up the leopards eating faces cliche, and like, she seems put out by it and thinks it's unfair, but she also wrote this whole article where in the middle she says, essentially, "I was having nightmares about face eating leopards, and the danger they posed to the country, so when the head of the Face Eating Leopards Party asked for a fiancee, I thought, hey, why not?"
She's a really overly wordy writer, but she is so accidentally revealing that it almost comes off as a bit.
We need some sort of "Horseshoe but rotated 90 degrees theory" for this kind of thing, where you continuously talk about your centrism and then read Yarvin and go, "Sure, can't see anything wrong with this!"
In these kind of narratives, it's always hard for me to tell what's genuine naivetee and what's self-aggrandizing lies.
One thing I noticed very early on as a child was the way that Christians who claimed to have converted from militant atheism often seemed to have pretty much no grasp of the most common atheist arguments or skeptical culture.
Took a lot longer for me to realize "Oh wait a lot of them are just liars".
Here's a free article which is different but goes over more or less the same territory, including the complete lack of explanation as to why someone who was so concerned with politics and polarization was hanging around with Yarvin.
What cancel culture reveals and conceals about redemption
someday someone will figure out what it is about being into rationalism that makes someone crazy. Like, even people who I like on this very website that are former LessWrong types will fall into these kinds of really really bizarre thoughtforms about AI where it's not clear why they're arguing against something because they don't actually hold the contrary position and aren't even playing devils advocate. There's just something about the failure to follow a certain script in other peoples arguments and logic that really grabs some people. idk. anyone ever done a survey of rationalism as a fertile substrate for cults in the same way the hippie movement was as well?
one time I decided I was going to sit down and read some Yudkowsky to see what all the fuss was about. I was immediately so put off by his writing style that I bounced off. It sounded like a guy trying to hype up an auditorium crowd in text format. Like, disturbingly nonclinical. Like, you could easily picture this guy slowly walking a stage back and forth while doing increasingly loud call-and-responses with his audience.
I think maybe there is a selection effect for people who get drawn in by that sort of thing or at least don't consciously pick up on it. The Brennan article in the reblogs briefly talks about people who seem to want to be in a cult.