Since I was 8 and found out about this for the first time my family has always followed up on someone saying “I don’t know,” with shouting “THIRD BASE”
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My sister was in a car accident last weekend. Brought in unconscious, bleeding, with head trauma. She'd been awake in the critical care unit for about a half hour when they started intake, and as part of that the doctor NEEDED to ask her, "are you aware you're overweight?"
Literally so unreal that that would even cross their minds to bring up. It didn't affect her care, wasn't answering a question she had asked or anything like that. The ER is not at all the appropriate place for that [if anywhere even is! But that's another point.]
This really is a fatphobic world when you can't even avoid medical fatphobia while in the ER for a car accident. I've heard and studied so many horrific instances of medical fatphobia, including doctors and nurses intentionally murdering their fat patients (and I mean that as literally as possible). I sadly shouldn't even be surprised at this point.
fatphobia and ableism is so insidious. You can look up like, food, and it'll say "eating a lot of food causes diabetes" and you're like oh dang what? I thought we didn't know the cause of diabetes. So you look up what causes diabetes and it says "we still don't know what causes diabetes" bruh they're just making shit up to give people eating disorders
it’s becoming clearer that “being fat makes you diabetic” is actually misapplied observation and like, backwards cause and effect. insulin resistance is the main factor in type 2 diabetes. it was thought being fat made you insulin resistant. turns out it’s the other way round; insulin resistance causes the body to store fat at a greater rate. like yes, once the weight is gained it can then contribute more to resistance and things can snowball, but the initiating factor is not being fat.
#type 1 is caused by no insulin production type 2 is caused by insulin resistance #and what causes the resistance or pancreatic damage is often uncertain #absolutely poor diet and lack of exercise can EXACERBATE EXISTING TYPE 2 DIABETES #but eating carbs and eating sugar will not give you diabetes; neither t1 or t2 #also keto is a fucking scam and a lie and puts people in the hospital on a regular basis
Also worth mentioning how hard it is to find good advice around healthy eating or exercise because almost all of the information available assumes your goal is to lose weight. So you'll find a hundred articles for how you can reduce calories, but nothing about how you can eat more vegetables while managing a budget and still feeling satiated. Because professionals assume your goal is to lose weight, not to feel better in your body. It's so incredibly frustrating.
Also the lack of exercise equipment rated for larger people to use it safely, as well as how much harder it is to find adaptive information on how to do some exercises as a larger person.
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It's okay to want to be androgynous as a non-binary person
It's okay to like androgyny as a non-binary person
It's okay to owe yourself androgyny as a non-binary person
It's okay to transition to androgyny as a non-binary person
It's okay to be transandrogynous
It's okay to love mixing masculinity and femininity into androgyny as a non-binary person
It's okay for your enbiness to be androgynous
It's okay to love being androgynous as a non-binary person
It's okay to want to have a mixed hormonal profile as a non-binary person
It's okay to want salmactive bottom surgery procedures a non-binary person
It's okay to not be white, or assigned a certain gender at birth and want to be androgynous as a non-binary person
If anything it's beautiful. It's wonderful. It's awesome.
You are not doing the community a disservice. You are making waves, when the world tells you to look more binary, you are choosing to subvert that because that's what is right for you. In the slew of "you don't HAVE to be androgynous" (look different, stand out, be visibly nonbinary in society), you are not dragging the community down by wanting to be different to the status quo. You deserve representation, you deserve to feel safe, you deserve to feel love, both self love and any other love you desire in life. Your androgyny, your striving for it, your androgynous desire is important and should not be ignored. It should be celebrated as part of your enbiness, as part of you 💛🤍💜🖤
HAPPY PRIDE MONTH EVERYBODY!!! I recently finished this pride flag quilt top, which I'll be displaying at my local pride event next week!
I wanted each block to be different and eye catching in its own way, so that you don't get bored looking at bland stripes. This project is a labor of love. I did the math on piecing nearly every block, save for the house block on the bottom right corner. That came from a book. I went through quite a struggle doing all the math to make the blocks that are split diagonally by color. Those were the ones that took me the longest to get through. The regular solid color rainbow blocks? I flew through those in two days, lol!
I'll share closeups below the cut:
I do have a favorite block, but I'll keep it a secret for now. Which one is yours?
couldn’t this be used against literally any gender presentation at all? like being a woman is torture for some people being male is torture for some people being androgynous is torture for some people this just makes Existing Evil. unless someone’s specifically like, idk, going up to a trans woman and going “wow I love looking like a man why don’t you” or something I don’t see the issue. which is very different to experiencing gender euphoria in general!
This is literally just "secondhand dysphoria" all over again. If somebody else's presentation and the things that give them gender euphoria make you uncomfortable, that's a 'you' problem. Go sit with that discomfort and figure out what it's telling you about your needs instead of trying to make it other people's problem, fucking hell.
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[image description: image of an Aardvark with grey, yellow and white in the background. Text says “Parents say they just want you to be happy and get married” at the top and “Oxymoron” at the bottom.]
Here’s an old aro meme from 2011, which was before the rise of the “Ace Discourse” around 2015 (which may have started out as backlash in response to The Trevor Project deciding to include asexual people around that time). This meme format uses an aardvark to represent aromantic people. At the time, axolotls were often used in similar memes to represent asexuals, so the aromantic aardvark was chosen as the aromantic equivalent of the asexual axolotl. Aardvarks were considered to be somewhat of a mascot for the aromantic community for some time, though they have become less popular as a symbol in recent years.
Venture will do anything to make you smile or laugh, and it helps that they're naturally corny. Expect more rock related jokes than you knew possible.
Venture doesn't mind being called Sloan, but absolutely melts when you call them by a pet name or a new nickname. If you give them a nickname, nobody else is allowed to use it for them ever again.
Most of the time, you call Venture "pretty baby" and they absolutely melt every single time.
Venture doesn't like going out to fancy restaurants for dates, and prefers to go on walks to places where they can find cool rocks.
You know Venture doesn't really go to the gym, but they are ripped beneath their layers. Definition of a sleeper build, and it catches you off guard when you first see them in just a pair of shorts and a tank top.
Venture gives sloppy kisses, but that's just because they're excited. They always feel like they haven't seen you in forever, so they're always super affectionate.
Lifts you off the ground with most of their hugs, and just generally enjoys holding you in their arms. Venture is the big spoon, and it doesn't matter how you fall asleep, they're waking up in that position.
NSFW
Venture loves putting things in their mouth, and you're no exception to that. Their favorite kind of sex is oral, and they are a giver.
Venture was a lot better in bed than you had expected. They claimed not to really know what they were doing, and yet, your legs were still shaking the next day.
They hate playing a passive role in sex, but also don't want you just laying there and taking it. The only way Venture is okay with you just laying back is if they've been making you cum all night and you're almost ready to call it quits.
Venture is a big fan of toys because they know it makes everything easier and more fun. Toys aren't an every time thing, but you're definitely used to seeing them.
Venture makes the most adorable faces and noises during sex. Sometimes you ask to pleasure them just so that you can watch their brow furrow or listen to the little moans they let out.
Venture likes things loud, and has volume control issues, so most of your neighbors know when the two of you are getting busy.
They know that they can't take you on every trip with them, and so Venture makes sure that the two of you have marathons of sex before and after they leave for any occasion. It doesn't matter if it's five days or six months, they don't want to risk letting you forget how good they make you feel.
Heya, I really enjoyed your last venture drabble.😋😋
I was wondering if you could do a venture x afab reader in which the reader also identifies as non binary but struggles with gender dysphoria. Maybe even an unsupportive family for extra angst, but venture is super supportive and understanding.
Sloane watches from the bed as you throw yet another set of clothes on the floor with some form of growing irritation. They smirk, knowing the feeling all too well.
"That one will look good on you-" Sloane tries to speak but you're already tossing the shirt away.
"Nothing looks good on me. None of this, anyway." You speak through gritted teeth.
With a small laugh, your partner tosses their bag at you. A bag full of their clothes. "Here, try one of these."
You stare at the bag at the edge of the bed and then back to Sloane.
"Why does nothing fit right?" You ask, rummaging through Sloane's bag and pulling out a shirt. Something instantly clicks as you grab a pair of pants from your closet.
"It doesn't feel like you." They speak from experience, leaning back against the headboard and watching you change. "I bet your parents had you dress a certain way as well."
"Yes!" You exclaim, pulling the shirt on and straightening it out. "Always dresses or long sleeves or pants, nothing too dark or too revealing- ugh! I hated it!"
Sloane laughs, nodding in agreement. "Been there. But, you know what? You are your own person. Dress how you wanna dress. Ain't no one gonna control your life. 'Specially not your parents."
The moment you look in the mirror, seeing who you want to be, how you want to dress, your shoulders slump. You just stand there and stare for a moment.
"You can wear my clothes whenever you need to." Sloan speaks out from behind you, smiling at the way you're now holding yourself. Something more confident.
"I could never truly be myself. It was hard getting to this point..." You admit, turning to look back at your partner. "How did you do it?"
Sloane shrugs. "Came to a realisation that nobody controls me. I do what I want when I want. I be myself."
"Even when you didn't know who you were?"
"Even then." Sloane sits up, patting the empty space behind them. "You just gotta be true to yourself and not let those assholes say otherwise."
You sit down beside them, internally thinking who you are. But also, the way Sloane speaks from experience, the seriousness in their voice, in their words.
"Doesn't happen overnight. Nothing ever does. But, don't let the hateful words of your parents or those around you, tell you to be something you're not."
I am fully serious about this btw. not "pro sex work" as in "there are no issues whatsoever within the industry", but "pro sex work" as in "these are jobs and the workers should be a) allowed to work and b) protected from their customers by the law"
people responding to this with stuff like "but that would just put sex workers in the same exploited position as uber drivers, cleaners, migrant workers, etc" and yes! good point! reform all of it! keep going!
(if sex work was legal sex workers could seek protection (or protect one another) from violence and horrific exploitation without fear of deportation or arrest.)
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Summary: Three times Copia finished faster than he wanted to, and one time it worked in his favor, while falling for you on tour.
A/N: This wasn’t even on my list of fics to finish this week, but here we are.
This thing between you has had to bloom in shadowy corners and fragmented moments. Stealing away to get takeout together in one city, making out on the bus on the way to another. It’s like being a teenager again, Copia thinks, except teenage him would never have pulled someone as gorgeous as you.
Even now, even as Cardinal Copia, leader of the Ghost project, he can’t help but feel a bit like the rug is going to get pulled out from under him. Surely he’s going to screw this up somehow.
Tonight you were there when he got to his dressing room after the ritual, and now the door is locked and you’re in his lap. Your hands tangle into his hair. “Fucking amazing, C.”
“We are pretty good, huh?” he says with a grin.
“Literally, you’re a rock star.” You lean in to kiss him, and oh your kisses are unholy. He feels them in his chest, as if with every kiss you’re pulling his heart closer and closer to you.
He feels them further down, too. Or maybe that’s just your thigh, pressed against his aching cock. He’s been hard since halfway through the show, ever since he looked over at the wings and saw you dancing in the shadows. He’s sure you could see it. He has nowhere to hide in these pants, after all.
But you don’t seem to notice, or if you do you’re ignoring it. You’re not wiggling in his lap to tease, just to settle yourself more securely so you can focus all your attention on kissing him. He tries to focus all his attention on kissing you. He really tries.
It’s the little things that do him in. Your fingernails on the back of his neck, tracing up and down. Your lips and tongue, drinking him in. Your voice, in the softest, smallest moan. And your perfect thigh, pressed just so against his cock.
Copia groans into the kiss as he comes, the after-show adrenaline only heightening the rush. He tries to kiss you through it, tries not to give himself away, but he has to break away to breathe and you look down and he looks down and fuck, these pants really don’t hide anything.
“Oh!” You shift back in his lap, but press little kisses to his forehead. “Poor thing, too worked up huh?”
“I can—ngh.” He shudders. “I’ll rally, fuck, I can—”
“You don’t have to, it’s been a long night—”
There’s a knock at the door, and you both flinch. “Boss?” It’s Cumulus. “Change of plans, venue needs us out in twenty. You good?”
“Yes! Yes, thank you.”
You give him another kiss, but not one of the unholy ones, just a peck on the cheek. “Rain check?”
***
A few days later, the opportunity to cash that check arrives. There’s severe weather farther on down the route, so the caravan has pulled off the road for a couple of hours to wait out the storms and reroute if necessary. The ghouls are delightedly exploring a Buc-ee’s, and you and Copia have the tour bus completely to yourselves.
After making out for a while (in his bed! horizontally!), he’d gotten your pants off, and now he’s exactly where he wants to be, with his head between your legs. It’s the best sensory overload ever—the texture of skin and the taste of your arousal and the scent and the sounds and and and—
Focus. There are so many little places that need to be licked and sucked and stroked, and he intends to find them all. You’re trying to be quiet—the bus isn’t that soundproof—but you keep making sweet little sounds, whimpers and gasps that are like lightning bolts to his cock. Only the painful press of his zipper has saved him so far.
Something changes, your whole body pulls just a little tighter, and he knows. He pulls away just enough to growl, “Gonna come for me, baby?” You can only whimper in response, hands tugging at his hair. He redoubles his efforts, and in a moment you’re arching against him, your pleasure flooding over his tongue. You cry out, unable to hold back, and it’s the best sound he’s ever heard. His own pleasure flares within, but he keeps going, letting you coast to a gentle finish.
“Copia!” you whine. Scratch that, that’s the best sound he’s ever heard. He props himself up over you, and you pull him to your mouth. It’s barely even a kiss, just sloppy open mouths pressed together, your tastes above and below blended into a bewitching cocktail. Oh, he’s in danger.
You’re gazing up at him, your beautiful eyes sparkling, and he knows he’s never going to be able to say no to you when you look at him like this. “Fucking hell, Copia. Can I return the favor? Please?”
“If you want,” he says. “But… don’t feel like you have to.”
You nudge him to lay where you’ve been, the mattress warm from your body. “I want to,” you say. You kiss him again, and whisper “I want to taste you everywhere.” He shivers, and feels your smile against his lips.
He curls his fingers into the bedspread, clenching hard enough to hurt. If he lets himself touch you, he’s going to fall apart, he’s sure. You kiss down his neck, fingers trailing down his chest, and every single heartbeat throbs. It aches. It’s so good. He might die here.
You settle yourself between his legs, gently pressing your hand to the bulge in his jeans. “I’ve been looking forward to this,” you say, before you unzip and pull the fabric aside. “Oh!”
Copia chokes off a sound, the release of pressure making him arch his back and shift his hips. He needs, he needs you so badly, and now those sparkling eyes are roaming up and down his cock and he’ll do anything you ask, anything at all.
You lick your lips. “Look at you. Fuck…” You wrap your hand around him, your fingers not quite able to touch. “Oh Copia, when we get a night off…”
He squeezes his eyes shut. It’s too much, the warmth of your hand and the thought of the rest of you—the pressure is building, he can’t hold it back. Taxes. Venue contracts. Papa Nihil.
It’s no use. You slowly stroke your hand down to the base, and press the flat of your tongue to his head. He breaks, pleasure coursing through him like electricity, his own heartbeat drowning out everything else.
But then he realizes you’re coughing and spluttering, and his heart sinks. “What…?”
“Sorry!” You lean over to get a tissue, and blow your nose. “I got the angle just wrong, you shot straight up my nose there.”
“Fuck.” Copia would curl up and die if he could move. “I’m so sorry, baby.”
“No worries.” You gently clean him up and snuggle into his side. “I shouldn’t have let you spoil me so long. Next time, I’m taking care of you first.”
Next time. Oh thank Lucifer, there’ll be a next time.
***
You’re both riding the high of a ritual that went off without a hitch, and call time for the bus isn’t until noon tomorrow. When you arrive at his door Copia wants to say things that he shouldn’t, starting with “how about you room with me from now on?” But he just pulls you in for a kiss. “Well, the night is ours tesoro, what do you want to do?”
“You know damn well what I want to do.” Your hands are already creeping down his sides, hooking into the elastic of his post-show sweats to pull him against your body. “I want to ride your beautiful cock until neither of us can move.”
Every time you’ve tried you’ve been thwarted—a change of schedule, a bus breakdown, someone needing something from one of you. And while hands and mouths are wonderful (especially your hands and mouth) the anticipation of this thing not done has been gnawing at you both.
But he can’t let you get your hopes up. “Baby, I…I might not last that long.”
“I don’t care.” You nuzzle his neck, kissing just under his ear and something lurches in his belly. It’s like you’re trying to set him off. “I have wanted you inside me for fucking weeks, caro.”
“Oh.” He shouldn’t have taught you that word, it does something to him when you say it. He feels your grin against his neck. “We have to—to go slow, I don’t want to hurt you—”
“You won’t.” Your hand is suddenly right there, wrapping around his cock and his knees very nearly give out. “I want this, Copia.” You squeeze, and he’s already out of breath. “I want you, all of you.”
But he’s not about to let you dive straight in. He gets you undressed, licks and sucks and fingers you until you’re writhing beneath him on the bed. He has to try so hard not to listen to you, because every sound you make is a stab of pleasure that brings him dangerously closer.
“Copia please!” Your hands are tight on his wrists, trying to drag him up the bed. “Please, I’m so close, come on!”
Lucifer give me stamina. He relents, moves to kiss your forehead. “However fair and pure, you crave the wand, eh?” He rubs against you for a moment, but it feels too good, he has to move back.
You glare. “Don’t tease me right now, I crave you.”
“You’ve got me.” He barely touches you, lets your heat envelop the tip of him, and already he can feel himself about to boil over. “Tesoro…”
You take his face in both hands. “Copia. Please.”
Deep breaths. He can do this. He rocks his hips slowly, your perfect heat consuming more and more of him, and then his hips are flush with your body and everything just feels so much and he’s going to die here, his heart can’t take this. “Tesor—oh fuck!”
“Yes!” You wrap your arms around him, squeezing him so tight he thinks he might black out. “Yes, caro, just like that...”
Copia should try to distract himself, hold himself back, but he can’t think of anything but you. The way you feel inside and out, every heartbeat, every breath, the way your body clenches onto him like you never want him to leave, you are a gateway to the blessed Inferno and he is this close to falling in—
You cry his name.
He’s gone.
When he can think again, he’s face-down on your chest, moving up and down with your breath. It’s almost like being rocked to sleep, he thinks. Maybe he’s dreaming. Your hand is in his hair, petting him, and everything feels tingly. “You with me, caro?” you say, sounding a bit dreamy yourself.
“Si, amore.” Wait. Did I just say—
It’s like fast-forwarding through a tape, the last few minutes all catching up to him at once. Did I just—and you— He bolts upright, the pleasant tingles turning to cold shards of anxiety. He finds you gazing up at him all starry-eyed, and that calms the heart rate, a little. “Tesoro, I— Did I really finish that fast?”
“Yeah, you did.” You’re still gazing fondly. He’s not sure how. “That was so hot, caro.”
“Was it?”
“Are you kidding?” You arch and stretch before sitting up, and he still feels a twinge in his belly even if his cock is out of order for now. “The Cardinal Copia, who just had thousands of people screaming for him, who could have had any one of them he wanted, is so enamored with me that he comes just from being inside me for a minute?”
“I—was it only a minute?”
“Maybe less. I didn’t count.” He could die, but you just wrap yourself around him, nuzzling that damn spot under his ear. You know too much. “Do you know what a rush that is?”
“Amore, I can—” Too late to stop himself again, and this time he feels the burn of your gaze. You know. He’s too fast in every way, it seems.
“Amore,” you repeat, matching his intonation. “Do you mean it?”
“I…”
“Cause you’ve said it before, in the heat of the moment. I just wondered…”
You’re looking at him that particular way again. He could never deny you anything you want, and now you want an answer. “I do mean it.”
Before he can assure you that he understands if you don’t feel the same, you smile. “Oh, good. I was going to feel really awkward if it was just me.”
“Really?”
“Really, amore.”
***
Amore. You’ve learned to wield that word like a dagger, striking him in the heart and leaving him breathless.
It’s five minutes to show time, and you’re racing the clock trying to suck him off in the dressing room. It’s not professional, but it’s been days since you’ve had quality alone time and you’re both running low on professionalism right now.
You pull off of him, working him with your hands while you catch your breath. “Come on, babe.” Copia bites his lips together to keep from whining. “I know you’re close, I can feel it.”
And he can too, a wave rising in his body that he can’t quite give himself over to. The instinct to fight, to keep going, is too strong.
But you know him so well. You tease his most sensitive spot with just the tip of your tongue, staring up at him with those eyes that bewitched him. “Give it all to me, amore,” you say, and you only have seconds to swallow him down before he spills everything he has down your throat.
He makes it out the door with a minute to spare, knowing he’s going to spend the whole first half of the show plotting what to do to you at intermission...
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