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Oh that two year gap on my resume was when I was the architect of my own hell

Girl who's like "oh but I don't want to be the one who says no to everything all the time" vs environment that routinely asks for lots of her time to be spent on things she gets nothing out of when she's already struggling to keep up with the stuff she actually likes.

"Don't just say no to everything" is useful advice if you're missing out on new experiences and getting stuck in your comfort zone but it stops being useful when it results in a situation where you can reliably be talked into doing stuff you know you don't want to if someone just nags you about it

The little voice saying "just this one time can't hurt" is lying to you because it's not just going to be the one time, the one time is going to set a precedent that will lead to more times. The word no exists for a reason. Use it.

to whom am I squeaking

me to the accursed whispering amulet: hey can you speak up please i have an audio processing disorder

"why do you remember that?" did u know i love u

It's so funny to me that Mary Shelley, her husband, John Polidori, and Lord Byron had a competition to see who could write the best horror story and she wrote fucking Frankenstein. Imagine losing a competition that badly. Imagine just doing a silly little competition with your friend and she basically invents a new genre and creates one of the most famous characters in fiction. Imagine being proud of your little story and then she shares one that people will still read every day in 200 years. Imagine doing a writing competition with your wife and she becomes so recognizable that you'll always be known as Mary Shelley's husband