"I didn't feel like a man/boy"
"I didn't feel like a woman/girl"
You can't feel like a sex because they're not emotions or sensations. It's just a state of being. You're just uncomfortable and unhappy with gender roles forced unto you.
I can assure you most people, especially women, aren't happy with these roles either.
Not feeling "feminine" or not subscribing to sexist gender roles doesn't make you not a woman.
Same how not feeling "masculine" or "manly" doesn't mean that you're not a man.























