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straight up “drawing” it. and by “it” well haha. lets just say my Nothing
If you have ever known anyone with a kink for being hit, or beat up, or raped and you're okay with them, you also gotta be okay with the people who's kink it is to do the hitting, the beating, or the raping. At the end of the day, we're adults playing pretend, and that's it.
With every single sub i have the first thing we ever do is establish the safe word (stoplight system), and the non-verbal safe word in case they can't talk for any reason. If I can't tell where the sub is at, I will ask them point blank what is their color, and if they can't give a response, we stop. The goal is to make the other person feel good, including pain, and the most important part us knowing your subs limits and LISTENING to them. I will *never* hurt a sub in a way that they have not explicitly expresssed interest in.
Makes sense to me. The “getting hit” kink requires a “hitting” kink. It’s like Transformers. Megatron can’t exist without Optimus Prime.
yes Steve, its exactly like Megatron and Optimus Prime from Transformers
I wish kinky sex ed wasn't so stigmatized even among left-leaning "sex positive" circles. Everyone's all "uwu I'm a sub I'll do anything you ask" okay mommy wants you to read The New Bottoming Book so you learn how to sub without hurting yourself since your sex ed up to this point is porn and your ex boyfriend Jared who liked to choke you incorrectly
I’m so glad you asked! Let me list off what I’ve got for you:
Books I personally recommend:
- The New Topping Book and The New Bottoming Book, by Dossie Easton and Janet W. Hardy
If you’re having kinky sex at all, you need to read at least one of these two books. Point blank. They’ll teach you the very basics of negotiating properly (which is critical!), and help you identify what you are and aren’t into.
- Mindfucking Mindfully, by Sir Ezra Where this book really shines isn’t actually in helping you “mindfuck” people, it’s in taking a close look at how to do so ethically. It’s a great answer to the question “how do I get someone to consent to something and still surprise and shock them with it?”
- Real Service by Raven Kaldera and Joshua Tenpenny This is a slightly niche pick but there simply isn’t a better book on the subject. It’s written from a 24/7 M/s perspective, which is not what I do, but the book itself is an indispensable guide to giving and receiving service. The phrase “if the Master doesn’t want it, it isn’t service” will be burned into my psyche for quite some time. I love this book a lot. Maybe my favorite out of all of these.
- Enough To Make You Blush: Exploring Erotic Humiliation, by Princess Kali This one’s high on my reading list; I’ve heard it recommended by a number of people whose opinions on these things I trust.
- Pretty Much Anything Midori Has Ever Done Midori is a great resource for this stuff - I haven’t personally read much of her work, but she’s a well known sex educator and great at what she does. She’s known for bondage, but has a lot of range beyond that.
- This Negotiations Worksheet from Bex Talks Sex This is what I default to using a lot of the time for negotiations. Forget BDSMtest, you don’t need that, it’s no good. Just look through this worksheet’s wordbank with your partner. Big fan especially of the “how do you want to feel?” section.
Books I can kind of recommend:
- The Ultimate Guide to Kink, edited by Tristan Taormino This book is weird. There’s a lot of good info for experienced players, but some of what’s written here skeeves me out. I think if I had a top that thought the way some of the tops in here think, they would not be topping me for long. But there’s some good techniques and so on to pick up that I wouldn’t have otherwise. I liked the distinction one of the authors makes between being sadistic in the sense of inflicting pain and being sadistic in the sense of doing something your sub doesn’t “enjoy.”
- The Ritual of Dominance and Submission, by David English Man, this book fucking sucks. The writing and editing are garbage, and the fear and protocol play described need way more careful negotiation than he ever lets on, let alone recommends. This is some 50 Shades bullshit. The only time I recommend this book is to tops like me who tend to be very affirming to their partners and need a guide on how to really scare them - when their partner consents and when you negotiate it, which this book sucks at teaching you. Really good content on fear, punishment, and protocol play, really terrible presentation of the topic though. Don’t read this if you don’t already know what you’re doing.
- Paradigms of Power, by Raven Kaldera I love this book. Great book. Very focused on 24/7 M/s play though, and, being an anthology, some chapters are better than others. If you can’t read something and pick out what is and isn’t for you, don’t bother. But some really great inspiration, and generally pretty well written. Big fan of the discussion of leather throughout the book.
Hope some of these are helpful for people ^-^ for the average person reading this I recommend New Bottoming/Topping, but they’re all important parts of my library and I’ve recommended all of them to friends at some point or another.
May I also suggest Hell on Wheels and Kneeling in Spirit by Raven Kaldera, d/s companion books that address kink with a disability. They're a should read for everyone, imo. You never know when you or a partner are going to have changes in your body that affect what you can physically do. Temporary illness/injury and even just age can affect your sex life.
I'd like to suggest Better Bondage for Every Body! It goes really in depth on anatomy, pain processing, self-tying, and has chapters specifically focusing on how to do rope bondage on/for someone who is disabled or has chronic pain, which was really important to me.
reblogging specifically for these last additions bc I don't think I've ever seen resources for kink w/ disability
I am so ready to write a human hetalia au set in the early 2000s in California, the US. Because like-- man I hate the entire country stuff I just love their personalities as individuals (when you ignore the obvious, and rarely seen in actual individuals, stereotypes.) nobody can stop me?
(sorry that I spelt Quebec wrong, I'm sure all three of the people who live there can forgive me /j)

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i hate when i send someone a meme in another language and they're like "uhm... translate? 😒" fucker i sent you a meme where 90% of the words have an english cognate and/or you don't need to know what they're saying to find it funny. can you at least TRY
i sent this meme to 7 people, and 4 of them asked me to translate for them. i legitimately do not think that was necessary.
"careful what you wish for" is such a stupid moral. like every single story about that involves magical beings wilfully misinterpreting people, or the strings of fate pulling themselves to give someone an ironic comeuppance.
like this doesn't apply to the real world at all! we don't have magic! the cruel fates do whatever they please regardless of our desires!
i fucking WISH we lived in a world where this moral wasn't stupid
wuh oh
listen this moral is dumb as fuck because int eh real world, if somerthing or someone is msintrepreting what you said to the extent it goes in fiction about this, its full their fault idc. if something oes out of its way to twist what u said to make it awful or whatever, the fault is still in the hand of the higher being who lookedat someone on their last wish, with no other hope and said ''i need to show them that the world is always going to suck because i lobvwe misery'' peak liberal bullshit
I don't care if people don't like Hazbin, I really don't, it's just that 99% of the posts about it are so mean-spirited and rude for no reason and it's kinda exhausting when they're impossible to avoid.
Can we all just be like. Chill. And nice. For once. And not act like a cartoon is a plague on humanity. Please.
On the topic of white feminism
{begin transcript:
hijabi woman: "-why that care was limited. why it did not extend to palestinian women. there is nothing more selfish and self-absorbed than white woman feminism." billie eilish's song "what was i made for?", from the barbie movie, plays as the hijabi woman is speaking, but it cuts off once gaygtownbae starts to stitch her video.
gaygtownbae: "i can actually answer this question for you, and there's a word specifically for this issue; it's called femonationalism. hi! my name is evan, i'm a bioethicist, and i specialize in misinformation, disinformation, and conspiracy theory that's a threat to public health.
"so the term 'femonationalism' was coined by sarah r. farris who's a sociologist, and i believe she works at the university college of london-"
a red bubble with white text appears on the screen, titled "*goldsmith's university of london", then disappears.
"-but she's actually italian, and she came up with the term to describe feminism in far-right or extreme alt-right, far right movements, political movements specifically. so that is people who use feminist language used to describe themselves- particularly women- but champion things that were antithetical to the concepts of feminism, at least how they are promoted.
"now, amazingly, femonationalism is actually an ode to a palestinian scholar-"
instead of the word "palestinian", the caption bubble reads (watermelon emoji) (watermelon emoji) (watermelon emoji)
"-we're back to jasbir puar, my favorite- who came up with 'homonationalism' that kind of involved things like pink-washing, championing lgbtq rights, as reasoning to destroy whole communities- especially brown communities that don't agree or are painted as not being inclusive.
sarah farris borrows from this concept of homonationalism and says that the same is true for feminism, or feminist movements politically, especially in white feminist spaces-"
instead of the word "white", the caption bubble replaces it with a (glass of milk emoji).
"-so the reason that what's happening in gaza- particularly to the women- is not getting barbie girl energy is because that population- especially because it skews to islam and is brown- does not mirror or does not embody the type of feminism and the feminist points or doctrines that barbie girl energy does. so white, western, neo-liberal feminism requires that all people- to get support from it- have to ascribe to homogeny, right? and i think that this creator using this example of barbie is so apt because for those of us who saw barbie, one of the things that we saw is we saw all different types of people represented, but they all lived the same way. they all lived in barbieland. they all lived in pink playhouses. there was a lot of similarity, they weren't inherently different, they were wearing different outfits and they were different colors, but their world was homogeneous."
"but the world with which all of this is happening in- especially in the middle east- is an exotic and non-western place. the teachings, the underpinnings of this kind of feminism is that the people of this place are naturally to be seen and perceived as barbaric, particularly the men. any women ascribing to protecting or standing alongside the men are just seen as enablers and participants, and therefore undeserving of barbie-girl feminism."
"now, the way to acquire this particular group of feminist support is to, ostensible, completely relinquish culture and religion, and denounce the men of that community and culture as barbaric, and that your interest is to escape that space. if you were too deeply ascribed to embody western feminism, and western culture by proxy, then you would get that kind of support. think of folks like ayaan hirsi ali, who was able to, you know, she tells a very brutal story about her experience with islam, but she entirely aligns with this conceptualization to demonize that entire region and that entire community, or anybody who ascribes particularly to her whole focus, which is islam."
"so no, this particular brand of feminism is not moved by what's happening, because they still see women who are hijabed, particularly, or had their heads covered, who are standing by and still participating in this community and this culture with deep reverence and attachment- as they should, because it's their community, their culture, and their religion!- but it's not barbie girl, you know? and again, we see the same thing in LGBTQ rights movements- especially very white ones or very white centric ones- to basically be comfortable with- and promote demonization of- populations that are painted to be non-inclusive.
"so as long as you're able to say 'oh hey, this community, this populace, this region, this race, this culture, this religion does not treat or does not ascribe to- or does not think about- this other group, this marginalized group the same way we do, and give them all the same rights, and include them or believe in them or support them in the same exact ways, therefore, they cannot be human, they're barbaric and their destruction is for the betterment of the rest of us. and this form of feminism has that same conceptualization underneath it or throughout it, but for women.
"and this kind of feminism doesn't just say who gets to be human and not human; it also does a very weird thing where it also says 'who gets to be a woman? who doesn't get to be a woman?', right? who's deserving of feminism and who's not? because feminism only looks this way, and if you don't ascribe to it being this way, or if you don't look the way that we require feminism to look, then you're not a feminist, and you're helping evil, and you're collateral. this makes non-western women collateral damage simply by being attached to their culture and their community.
"it also creates weird rules for feminism. i know that sarah farris goes into more in-depth things like the misrepresentation of things like reproductive rights and access, and how this type of feminism- femonationalism- is also used in a really strange way in conservative spaces to promote tribalism and patriotism that again becomes very homogenous, right? you have to ascribe to this. if you do not perform your feminism in this exact way, you are not feminist, you are not deserving of feminist rights or women's rights, and therefore, you're actively working against it, and you should be destroyed. and i'm willing to destroy you, and i'm willing to support the destruction of you.
(two text bubbles appear in blue. the top one reads "femonationalism (like many other forms of western-centered political ideologies) inherently believes some communities deserve genocide by merely having different values and concepts of inclusion or societal status for marginalized groups." the second text bubble reads "but the central requisite point of human rights advocacy is being aware that there isn't any 'offense' that earns an entire community ethnic cleansing. genocide is never a reasonable response to ideology, action, or beliefs.")
"when we talk about supporting human rights, particularly for the most marginalized and for those that experience the most oppression globally, we have to get comfortable with supporting the rights of people that may or may not support similar groupings of rights that we support. i am a queer, non-binary trans person. i do not know what this creator that i have stitched and attached here believes about my identity, and honestly, i don't care because i do not think that the community that she comes from and the community that she's worried about and the community that is currently experiencing enormous violence at the hands of a homicidal state- i do not think any of that should be occurring, and i actively want that to stop, and i actively want that dismantled. regardless of whether or not i'm welcomed into the community. because they're humans, and humans living in their own ancestral lands, and the only thing that they want in this scenario is to live safely in their own ancestral lands without being threatened with annihilation. it doesn't involve me, it's not about me. see what i'm saying? that's barbie girl. because barbie land shouldn't just be for barbies and kens, blow it out further and think about any action figure as a doll, and should be allowed to live in a world and be seen as a doll, yeah? regardless of what the barbies think. that's it."
/end transcript}
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