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So.

in light of that.

Check the replies/notes of this post :)

I was informed that posts containing links in them aren't findable in the search so i'll just.... drop a link in a seperate reboot :)

first things first though, copy this key:

and also the Google drive link :

So.

in light of that.

Check the replies/notes of this post :)

I was informed that posts containing links in them aren't findable in the search so i'll just.... drop a link in a seperate reboot :)

first things first though, copy this key:

and also the Google drive link :

*At this stage in my work, I had already shared how in some relational dynamics, a father can lean more into feminine energy and mother can lean more into masculine energy. While this energetic structure is rarely done well and can be excruciatingly difficult on female physiology, it can also work out well if the mother is holistically supported in other ways like with cooking, childcare, cleaning, driving etc. I find that these dynamics work better in some African countries where families are resourced well enough to have drivers, chefs, nannies, etc. It's suicide on a female body when a woman works 40-50 hours a week then has to come home and tend to house and family. There has to be a balance in the relationship that favors the female's physiology receiving real care, the kind of regenerative sex that has tones of worship and honoring, and rest.

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A woman’s earliest experience of safety in her body and life is shaped by the relational atmosphere she witnessed in childhood between her mother and father, or the parental figures who raised her. In other words, her first understanding of feminine energy is not formed by what she was taught, but by what she observed with her own two eyes and absorbed through the emotional tone she heard with her ears in her childhood home. My first mentor Adama taught me this form of divine union 20 years ago.

She taught me that a woman learns from the way her mother received love, support, provision, affection, and care from her spouse, partner, father, and/or grandfather and from her divine manifestations. If her mother embodied grounded, gracious receptivity, she likely unconsciously absorbed that as a natural expression of her womanhood. Therefore being loved, cared for, and truly supported in her adult years would feel naturally safe to her nervous system. But if her mother appeared receptive and performative feminine while privately carrying the full restless weight of the household from a place of control, hypervigilance, exhaustion, trauma, self-sacrifice, fear of being supported, or the absence of her father or a a reliable masculine presence, that too becomes an inherited blueprint. Her nervous system likely becomes more attracted to unrequited love and lack of genuine care and real support due to her mother wounds. My love, this is NOT an invitation to blame mothers, fathers, or parental figures. It is, however, an invitation to understand where certain patterns may have begun, so a woman can liberate her mind and body from unconsciously repeating them. Some of the deepest healing occurs when we come into conscious relationship with our maternal lineage, not necessarily through confrontation, but through alchemy that transforms inherited patterns into embodied wisdom and even self-compassion and perhaps compassion for our parents. If your mother (and/or father) is still alive, this work can happen quietly even in her presence, without requiring her participation, agreement, or approval. A woman can begin reclaiming the feminine in deeply practical ways such as learning to receive without guilt, resting without fear, shame or feeling like life will fall apart, softening without feeling weak, honoring high standards of self-care and restorative sleep, or trusting herself and trusting life without needing to control everything around her. There is a parallel journey with the masculine, though it unfolds in a different way around father wounds. A woman’s body may continue expressing unresolved patterns through hormonal imbalance, relationship struggles, financial hardships, or a persistent sense of insecurity in the external world until she begins restoring a felt sense of safety with the masculine, including her father or father figures. This restoration can begin in small, grounded interactions with trustworthy men in her life, such as an uncle, friend, or even extend into her greater community like with her handyman, and ultimately move into her relationship with her solar plexus belly area (the primary home for active, dynamic, embodied masculine energy).

What we call "healing" can extend cosmically into your relationship with nature andlight biology, circadian rhythm, and connection to sunlight. A woman coming into a high-quality relationship with light, such as not using your phone for the first few hours of the morning or last few hours of the night not only makes her body healthier, but also brings a harmony into her life. Reducing bright light and screens at night supports melatonin production which allows her body to rest in greater harmony in a more yin/relaxed/parasympathetic state.

when you manifest on a time crunch, you're trying to bring logic into manifestation. logic doesn't exist, so neither does time.

the moment you manifest something, you're saying you already have it. you can't say you already have it two weeks from now, you can't say you already have it a month from now, you just already have it. it's instant.

when you manifest, you need to ignore time completely, because it doesn't exist. it doesn't matter how long it takes to get it, because the moment you start focusing on how much of it is passing, it will take longer. it's backwards, i know, but it truly is:

the more you keep looking at the clock = the less likely you are to get it.

lets just take a moment to observe her