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You have to accept it. I know that can feel like a lot, but it's not impossible.

But what if simply dropping our fears doesn’t make them untrue?

Situations like these where I give one of my followers an answer telling them their fear isn’t real because it’s self imposed and then I’m hit with an insistent “what if” I feel like we’re in front of a whiteboard and I keep erasing it and you keep writing on it.

maybe is dumb but i just don’t understand how to accept it? is there anything specific i have to do?

Think about it this way: do you question the color of your eyes? Your own name? 2 + 2? You could question these things but you don't. You just accept them. My eyes are a certain color - I don't lie awake at night ruminating and worrying and trying to force them to look a certain way. I just accept the color. And if I really wanted to, I could accept a different color and they would appear that way.

If I accept that I have $5 in my bank account, that's the amount I would have. If I accept that I have $5 million in my bank account, that's what I would have. There's no difference.

Think about the things in your life that you just blindly accept. You don't question them or constantly swirl them in your mind. You accept that you have to breathe and eat food to live. You accept your native language. You accept the color of the sky and the feel of your sheets and the smell of the ocean.

I have been far too lenient as far as some of my rules and guidelines are and moving forward, I will not hesitate to delete or even block the questions and DMs I receive. If I receive a query that I have already expressed a response on in my pinned post, your question will not be answered. I’m updating it currently and will not repeat myself to someone who can’t be bothered for a little mindfulness when entering my (our) space. It gets tiring and a little annoying.

humbly taking lashings now

I was going to post a sappy little post wishing all of you a happy new year and to set the tone for the next few months, warmly remind you that time isn’t important despite the importance imposed onto it on a global scale and you don’t need to abide by it, and overall to express my desire to see you all thriving, happy and fulfilled, and maybe mention a few plans I have for future postsddhxgszzs just my usual little toast if you will. so yes, happy new year, sending you all so so many hugs and wishing that it is the best one yet 🤍

all THAT said, you guys are owed an explanation regarding what happened since my last last login and to keep it short I got sick and then I partied until the end of the year and it got crazy on one occasion I went to bed at 6am and woke up at 5pm♥️ anyway I went such a long time without touching the doc (I’m talking like two weeks) and then I started crunching it during the few days left of the year whenever I could and made some creative decisions to optimize time all the way to nye and I was like, “you know what? I’m not into this because you cannot and should not rush excellence let me have a talk with my followers” which was when I gave you guys the heads up then the year came I got busy handling some matters… that actually have inspired me to provide a few more inclusions I previously had no intention on providing. and yes I am getting on it I am adding more and doing more to compensate which means you can still drop your suggestions and requests and I can still take them into consideration ♡ 

I cannot provide a set release date though because I do not want another case of not meeting the deadline and I also do not want to godspeed but I do want this out ASAP!!!! as in THIS MONTH ASAP!!!! just not to the point where if you read it you can tell I only invested 12% of my efforts and was running on red bull and a dream because that would be a waste of your time and mine, but I will say I do intend on splitting it a little for the following reasons: 

1. the release date would arrive sooner since I’d have less to work on 

2. because it makes sense (I’ll include the FAQ layer on in case there are still more questions once the deluxe has been read)

3. comeback announcements have multiple dates that lead up to the final release (except we’re going backwards: main release [deluxe ver.] first, then the additionals. 

I believe this covers everything for now and I will continue to update should anything else come up. I kept passing on dropping this PSA because I was like omg my followers are going to KILL MEEEEEEEE (you guys can kill me) but at least know what happened/is happening first </3 i hope you all have it in your big beautiful forgiving benevolent hedonistic hearts to forgive me 🤍

I’ll respond to some of the lashings later so they don’t bury this little update, luv luv luv you! 

My loves,

As I have already mentioned, I plan to update Dream of Love very soon and would love to hear from those of you who have had the chance to read it for ideas and suggestions. If I could have a couple of minutes of your time to provide opinions and critiques, please do so in the link above. I will take the responses I receive into consideration when adjusting my doc in whatever ways my readers deem necessary.

Mes anges, if you care about me, Dream of Love, the Amazon rainforest or the alarming demographic of people who have never read Neville Goddard or tried xiao long bao, please please please (no Sabrina) fill out the form linked. These questions are a little more extensive, so please take your time writing out your answers.

Thought I'd keep these two forms linked in the same post because I felt compelled to ask some of the questions I had already asked in my previous doc, so if you haven't filled out that one please do <3

For the time being, these are all the questions I deemed important to ask my readers, but please stay tuned for further discussions I may encourage on my blog in the near future as we approach the anticipated publish date for Dream of Love (Deluxe Ver.)

"But only when he-in-you resurrects as you, will you leave this world of Caesar. But while you are in it, why not learn his law, because the blows are inevitable. Learn the law, that you may cushion the blows. -Neville Goddard (Imagination)

Save yourself, soothe yourself, please yourself, fulfill yourself in your inner world, so that it may be done unto you in the outer world.

You're just switching states, just moving from one state to another just like we move through rooms, like we change clothes.

You are NOT trying to fix your current state or trying to alter it but moving into a completely new, already created, already minutely detailed state.

My loves,

As I have already mentioned, I plan to update Dream of Love very soon and would love to hear from those of you who have had the chance to read it for ideas and suggestions. If I could have a couple of minutes of your time to provide opinions and critiques, please do so in the link above. I will take the responses I receive into consideration when adjusting my doc in whatever ways my readers deem necessary.

Mes anges, if you care about me, Dream of Love, the Amazon rainforest or the alarming demographic of people who have never read Neville Goddard or tried xiao long bao, please. please please (no Sabrina) fill out the form linked. These questions are a little more extensive, so please take your time writing out your answers.

Thought I'd keep these two forms linked in the same post because I felt compelled to ask some of the questions I had already asked in my previous doc, so if you haven't filled out that one please do <3

For the time being, these are all the questions I deemed important to ask my readers, but please stay tuned for further discussions I may encourage on my blog in the near future as we approach the anticipated publish date for Dream of Love (Deluxe Ver.)

thank you for your continued support of sexydreamgirl!