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this post will be edited and expanded at times :)
Links to different topics based on my personal opinions:
General
Radical feminist resources
Radical feminist tumblr masterpost sources
What is a woman
Sex binary & intersex masterpost
Radical feminism & Radfem beliefs & illustrated
Why feminism's goal is not achieving "equality"
Why I am critical of gender & trans ideology
My thoughts on female seperatism
Why TRAs compare radical feminism to conservatism
"Radfems are gender essentialists" approach refuted
A glance at women's oppression
The origin of the patriarchy
Why women's opression is sex-based
Gender equality isn't the goal of feminism &
equity over equality
Why we should abolish gender / gender criticism
Dissecting gender / arguing with a TRA
Non binary is invalid
Why systemic misandry does not exist
Why you should be anti porn & more sources
Porn forged the trans movement
Appropriation of Indigenous “Two Spirit” People in Trans Politics
Why gender disphoria does not exist
Agender identity
Transgender VS Transsexual & The issue with the "true trans"
Men cannot be feminists but they *can* be allies
Why anti drag queens
"But women NEED men to protect them!!" - statistics
#Radblr Discourse
Yes, men need to change
Dissecting 'feminist' blackpill ideology & another elaboration on blackpill feminism
Receipts of blackpill misogyny
Political lesbianism, are lesbians better feminists?
Criticizing lesbians who police osa women on separatism
Advice for women who date men
no separatism = more patriarchy??
Bisexuality / Biphobia in radfem spaces
Biphobia on radblr
Analysis on general biphobia
Another one on biphobia
Why "febfem" can be seen as a biphobic term
Am I not a radfem if I desire romantic love with a man?
The flaws of tumblr separatism
"Why I am not a separatist"
Does radfem mean female separatist?
Would separatists accept osa women dating men if men suddenly ceased to be a collective danger
Radfems can't be male partnered, what other solutions than separatism are there? + another one on that
Another take on the separatist discourse
Rad-aligned misogyny receipts:
(idk I have too many atp... might stop adding...)
Semen change a woman's brain
Osa women are at fault for men invading female spaces
Anon receipts
TRA receipts
Receipts on autogynephilic statements
Crimes of trans identified males against women in female sex spaces
Receipts of trans violence
Terfbreaking receipts
Other topics:
The wizard liz: Spiritual narcissism
Why do men grow resentful of women who love them
Should the government be able to police pronouns
Criticizing immigration in Europe & elaboration & more elaboration
Arguments for pro choice VS pro forced birth
Book recommendations:
Princess: A true story of a life behind the veil in Saudi Arabia
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The irreverence of Jesus Christ by unbelievers! Don't worry, I'll pray for you to turn back to him. Please read up on evidences that the Bible is real via The Shroud of Turin, Dead Sea Scroll, Tel Dan Stele, testimonies of children saying they met Jesus and said he'll come back soon, etc. Honestly, I don't believe radical feminists care about me as a a Catholic woman when I notice how they commit sins found in the Bible, and even encourage other women to follow such sins. None of you care about my my spiritual needs, and you're just bringing other women toward the path of Hell with you all. That's the deception beneath all your claim of "helping women". I guess that's one of the consequences of being worldly
Your god doesn't exist and we don't respect your patriarchal religion as we reject all things that harm women. Your "spiritual needs" being a desire for all women to act according to the misogynistic rulebook that you call the bible is not a "need" but pure entitlement. You can restrict yourself according to your belief, you don't get to do that with other women. Your freedom ends where the freedom of someone else is being infringed upon.
So you only listen to and care about other women you agree with. Thanks for showing me the fruits of your movement and showing me signs that my time to meet Jesus Christ is becoming nearer. I believe I should show you my gratitude. The scripture also states that I must kick the dust beneath my feet and move on from someone like you. So I swear to God I'll move on from you from now on
’Thanks for showing me the fruits of your movement and showing me signs that my time to meet Jesus Christ is becoming nearer.’ makes it sound like they’re killing themself 😭
Really gonna need other women to quit with the security theater which isn’t even security theater it’s just them being afraid to go outside and live their lives bc of male violence. THIS IS HOW THEY WIN… they can control us without having to actually act. The thought that they might act keeps us trapped within narrow parameters of conduct and exploration. I’m so tired of seeing the sentiment “wish I was a dude so I could walk outside at night” or “wish men didn’t exist so I could walk around at night.” Esp when you know plenty of those posters live in the suburbs. I think we need to shift from the extreme focus on avoidance strategies — avoidance informs the vast majority of female protective behaviors — and concentrate more on what our response will be when we INEVITABLY experience (attempts at) male violence. The claim that if you stay guarded and careful within narrow parameters, you will avoid male violence, is a lie. So stop functionally believing it lol
I see your point to some extent but we also need to respect other women’s risk tolerance even if it’s not the same as ours, there is a risk to a lot of these behaviors and everyone needs to seriously assess it and decide for herself whether it’s one she wants to take. I wouldn’t feel comfortable pressuring another woman to start walking alone at night because that’s a choice only she can make for herself. I’m saying this as someone who’s done these “risky” things my entire life and never gotten hurt as a result. I think extreme avoidance can be a rational response to a threat as real as male violence. It’s not the one I choose, but it’s not one I can write off as irrational.
You’re right though, being prepared for male violence if you do encounter it is at least as important as trying to avoid it
Ayoo just to preempt the inevitable dumb takes we’re about to start seeing;
I am PRO-WOOL
I am PRO-LEATHER
I am PRO-BEES
Fuck the idea of replacing durable, sustainable animal products with cheap, flimsy plastic that doesn’t bio-degrade. Agave nectar and other artificial sweeteners are expensive, labor-intensive, and destroy the environment to be farmed.
Do not buy into pernicious marketing campaigns pushed by dickhead organizations trying to stay relevant, like PETA.
listen there is a huge difference between an industry with problems that can be made sustainable and more humane, and an industry that cannot, given current technology, continue to the present degree without destroying our planet
Wool - Contrary to what bullshit mongers like PETA would have you believe, wool is one of the most ethical materials humans have ever worked with. Happy sheep make better wool, experienced shearers seldom nick their sheep, and older sheep produce more wool, meaning its best to keep them alive and treat them well for many years.
Leather - one cow makes SO MUCH leather. One deer makes SO MUCH leather. Well-treated leather lasts almost FOREVER. Even animals with small skins like rabbits, a pair of well oiled rabbit leather gloves will last decades. Every animal usually made into leather is also a meat animal, so it’s more sustainable to get more than one product from a single ethically butchered animal (humane kills make less punctures in the hide!) Leather can be tanned with natural resources like brains and doesn’t require treatment with chemicals that seep into the groundwater!
Cotton: Cotton is a fucking plant, it burns. The growing and harvesting of cotton is rather water intensive but it IS possible to sustainably harvest and reuse the water spent in the cleaning process to reduce the ecological footprint of the crop. It burns clean, it cuts clean, it’s sturdy, and there are 1000 ways to weave it to change its properties.
Bees & Honey: yes yes, the european honey bee is an invasive species, we know that. But honey has been cultivated by humans for just about as long as there have been humans, and they 100% choose to be cultivated. Like bees can and will leave if they’re not treated and maintained well. They understand that humans protect and clean the hives, and often become familiar with their keepers, choosing to walk on and investigate them instead of acting defensive. If animal welfare and consent are your concerns, honeybees aren’t the animals to worry about. If you, like me, are worried about native bee species, instead of creating hives you can strip an area of grass and leave an open area of clay and sandy soil to attract mason and digger bees to nest in the spring. They will happily coexist with honey bees as long as you plant the native keystone species the native bees rely on (like indian blanket flower, partridge pea, native violets in my area) as well as the high nectar plants that honeybees prefer (like roses, sunflowers, bee balm and cone flowers). Nature is actually really adaptable and accommodating of the human urge to cultivate plants and animals, and the idea that nature is ‘dead’ rather than ‘neglected’ is something that corporations want you to believe so you don’t oppose them spraying pesticides every 15 feet.
No, Becky, we’re killing animals for food. What do you want us to do with the skin after wards? Throw it away? Do you think planting dead animal skins in the ground grows new animals?
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Just wondering why it's a felony to buy an organ from a living donor or give them a financial, career-related, or other type of gift in exchange for them donating an organ (a law that was set up to protect people from being coerced into donating their organs), but surrogacy does not yet have the same regulation. In case anyone wanted to know
"Being hetero you don't have women as a dating option and if you're bisexual you will still suffer from the lack of lesbian representation that makes it hard for you to imagine a relationship with a female partner - additionally the dating pool of potential male partner is much bigger + more socially acceptable and the easier option if you family was for example homophobic."
I am quoting you. You said :"if you're bisexual you will still suffer from the lack of lesbian representation that makes it hard for you to imagine a relationship with a female partner", I am asking how would seeing two women together make bisexual women find women more appealing over the men she wants?
Thanks for providing the link. I of course don't remember every post I've ever written. That particular one is from February 2025, about 1½ yrs ago and I don't stand behind the message and the wording I have used in this post anymore.
For one, as I have explained in my previous response to your ask; Bisexuals need bisexual representation and not every female x female relationship is a lesbian one and it is important to underline that by not simply labeling every relationship between two women as a lesbian relationship.
Secondly, me writing that it is "hard" for women to imagine having a relationship with a female partner without proper representation was worded poorly. What is certainly true, is that said representation shows us what is an option for us and might make us realize that we are same sex attracted sooner. We are living in a heteronormative society after all, where you are assumed and treated as straight unless proven or visible otherwise and that might make it hard for bisexual women who might already be aware of their opposite sex attraction to identify their feelings towards other women as being romantic ones. I hope I managed to get my point across better this time.
At the same time, I can see that you still use a certain framing as I have not used the term "appealing". Female x female relationship representation doesn't change your sexuality or "help you find something appealing", it merely could help you discover the sexuality that is already there. It is also not about making female x female relationship to "look appealing to female bisexuals" it's about to create representations that fellow bisexual women can relate to.
All of this because you were (rightfully!) removed from a groupchat. Good to know you still haven't gotten a life more than a whole year later. Keep proving me right, cheers.
"if you're bisexual you will still suffer from the lack of lesbian representation that makes it hard for you to imagine a relationship with a female partner"
How would the representation of women dating make bisexual women find dating another woman more appealing?
your most obvious mistake here is assuming that bisexual women need lesbian representation. we need bisexual representation first and foremost. secondly, you're going off of an assumption here - which seems to be that bisexual women can't imagine dating or finding other women appealing, unless they've been inspired by lesbian relationship representations - that I'm not even going to entertain because it reeks of biphobia. I don't think i have to explain this any further but you're basically insinuating that bisexual women cannot experience genuine attraction to other women and will not consider dating them, unless of course they're imitating lesbians, wow.
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I was tagged in a post mrs-radfem made about their "favorite radfem blogs" and I got so excited before I looked at their account and realized they were a troll :( Like come the fuck on het-partnered radfems aren't the end of the world :(
girl I JUST saw that! I'm so sorry. 🥲 I saw their reblog on my post 5mins ago & found their reply suspicious so I went on their blog to check... Just another troll - seems blackpill inspired this time around though. But honestly, what in the chronically online fuck is that 😂
I hate how much radfems don't even bother to understand nuance when it comes to hetero and bi women's experiences or life choices. Like they instantly jump to them being male obsessed or pick me or weak minded or evil.
Trust me - I get you.
Some of them aren't better than ordinary male misogynists, going around and calling women cum-brained, cum-bucket or dick-lovers. I can promise, you will never find this shit on my blog. I don't care if you date a man or don't date a man, I will be here for you regardless because that is true female support.
Being hetero you don't have women as a dating option and if you're bisexual you will still suffer from the lack of lesbian representation that makes it hard for you to imagine a relationship with a female partner - additionally the dating pool of potential male partner is much bigger + more socially acceptable and the easier option if you family was for example homophobic.
It's just so hypocritical of them to pretend that they simply "don't want you to get killed" by a male partner and are therefore giving you "tough love" whenever you mention being in a het relationship or even slightly mention your male partner in a positive light. But they are not helping though, they genuinly aren't. By opposing the woman they supposedly want to help and insulting not only her but also the people she loves - let's take her boyfriend for an example - she will only be more likely to steep her feet into the ground. Tough "love" gets us nowhere. Acting like they're on some moral highground and a better person for being a seperatist also doesn't get us anywhere. It's just disgusting behavior.
I also feel like so many of those radfems fail to recognize/consider environmental influences that other women base their decisions on. I think that a large majority of radfems on tumblr are US citizens and i think we all know what's going on down there regarding women's rights.
For example, I am not a US citizen. I live in Europe but I feel like a lot of american radfems when engaging in a discourse with other radfems are often automatically assuming that the other woman is also american and therefore might be quicker to judge when they learn that she isn't seperatist for example. And I tell you, if I weren't living in a country that was allowing me to get an abortion when I needed, or was stripping me of my rights, I wouldn't engage in sexual relations with my male partner due to my own safety and if I hadn't met him years ago and was single - I wouldn't date a man either.
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These all are responses I got when I criticized this issue regarding radfems bashing other radfems for being in het relationships and/or even slightly mentioning their male relatives or partners in a positive light.
They come to eat you alive, simply for stating your subjective reality. It doesn't matter that you are talking about it on your own, personal blog, detached from everything else - not a reblog where you are trying to take the focus off of someone else's rant about males - not intending to argue with other radfems meaning to disregard their negative experiences - simply by stating your subjective reality.
Then they go off with their assumptions, instantly telling you that for saying such things you must be throwing all other women under the bus for your 1st priority, your owner "Jakey" who is a walking UTI dispenser and because they know your relationship so well they also add on that you treat him like he's the best thing that ever happened to you while at the same time he doesn't care about you as a person. Since they also know very well about your finances and took a good, thorough look into the fortune telling ball, they are also able to point out that he's going to be unemployed in a month's time, which will pull you down alongside him.
And there we have it again, the "tough love" and "i know i am insulting you right now but trust and believe, we only want the best for you!"
Oh, shut up. You're not helping at all with your hateful rhetorics. If we are being completely honest to each other, we both know that what you are doing is not helping women at all and might even make them abandon radical feminist theory altogether.
Because honestly it's insane projection. There is no middle ground for some radfems, no layers to non existing differentiating opinion, it's either the one or other extreme. Either you are a cum-brained incompetent slut that loves her jakey and would immediately sacrifice all her fellow women for a drop of his attention or you are a good, celibate seperatist that would never touch a man and regularly blogs about #killallmen.
They say love women more than you hate men. These radfems still haven't gotten the message.
as a bisexual women, i would never date a woman ever. is that wrong? no. i have a preference for men bc they are much more enjoyable to convert into radical feminism
This Doonesbury abortion cartoon was originally written by Gary Trudeau in 2012, in response to a Texas law requiring women to have an ultrasound before an abortion. It was banned from many major newspapers, and they ran syndicated cartoons in its place.
Now seems like an appropriate time to bring these cartoons back, with the passing of Texas’ new law requiring the burial or cremation of miscarried or aborted fetal remains. I guess we’ll have to wait and see if Trudeau decides to write the sequel.
Exhausted of online spaces if I'm completely honest. I still owe answers to like.. hundreds of anons and frankly, idk if I missed anything on radblr? Lmk if I did. But yeah, I've been doing some soul searching, connected with nature and it made me feel a lot better. There have been some changes in my life and realizations I've come to (nothing too drastic but I'd like to keep the details personal). I'm still here but I can't really promise that I'm going to be super active again.
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Girl, pride month hasn't even begun, yet bisexuals and lesbians have have been debating on Twitter for a week straight now. This is gonna be the worst pride month.
I just can't be bothered anymore, most of these arguments are so senseless... Everyone can fuck off already.
