#gender expression

I was recently asked to explain to someone how gender has no physical appearance while also saying gender dysphoria is valid

So I figured I’d talk about it here, too

Here’s the thing. It’s not really ‘gender’ dysphoria. It’s more of Expression Dysphoria. You wish to express yourself and your identity in a certain way and be perceived in a certain way that aligns with how you internally perceived yourself. That internal expression may stereotypically line up with your identity or it may not, and that’s okay.

Stop painting with broad strokes. Don't make me defend men. Good hell.

by: Amari Murray The first time I noticed the change, it was in the mirror. Not my reflection – hers. We were getting ready to go out, Beyonce’s “Diva” spilling from a speaker on the dresser while the bass vibrated softly through the bedroom walls. Clothes covered nearly every inch of the bed: a black mesh top she already rejected, two pairs of jeans, one gold heel hiding beneath a denim jacket,…