Another advice for girls and young women: love and sex is supposed to be fun, happy and make your life better. If it’s not, if it’s making you miserable, if it’s making you love yourself less, if it’s making you doubt yourself, and if you feel like you have to sacrifice yourself or put up with things you don’t want to, you are absolutely entitled to throw it out from your life. In fact, you should, because your life is so, so valuable and you have the right to be happy. Being a girl does not mean having to accept misery and pain, even if that’s what we’re often taught. You are allowed to decide what comes into your life. Let it be happy and beautiful.

Pain is not a part of female sexuality.

It’s also a lie. I wear both the hijab and abaya and I got sexually harassed, felt up, and grabbed from behind while wearing it.

He didn't ’try to have sex with her’. He was going to RAPE her. Why do they not use the word rape once?

EXACTLY!!!!

He ran into her knife 11 times. He got what he deserved. I hope she's safe.

something i wish i had realized earlier: you can write poems on the same subject more than once. you can write, paint, draw the same thing over and over if you want to. you can spend your whole life making art about oranges. i think i always felt this pressure to get it right the first time like i couldn’t go back and use that inspiration again. but you can. you can go back and revisit it. you can pick up the conversation again and again if you have more to say.

i think high heeled winter boots are the cruelest trick played on women. here’s some footwear specifically designed for cold weather and rough, slick terrain, but we went ahead and made it less functional so you can look more fuckable. don’t slip baby! that’s it that’s womenswear distilled down to its purest core

my thoughts exactly but also about high-heeled hiking boots

high heeled WHAT NOWS

UM

What the fuck

just looking at these broke both my ankles

hello everyone, safewords are merely a reflection of rape culture and if your partner screaming "no" and "stop" turns you on you have the mentality of a rapist 🤫

The worst police and spies are those that you live with

Like, sorry, but lesbians have to be the subject of thinkpieces, essays, books, YouTube videos, Twitter threads, not to mention the harassment and interrogation on a personal level from individuals, demanding that WE “examine” our identities and WE “unpack” why we feel X or do Y, but the minute that WE say “examine,” the minute that WE try to apply a little analysis, suddenly everybody’s identities are sacred and untouchable and not to be critiqued?????? Hello?

Homophobes only care about lesbians “examining” our identities in the context of trying to convince us to like men. If we ever dare to examine things and reach the conclusion that lesbians exist, that we are indeed lesbians, that ftm can be lesbians and that women who like men (mtf are included in the “men” category) are either bisexual or heterosexual, they get big mad because they haven’t reached their goal of making lesbians feel ashamed of their sexuality/convince them to pretend to be attracted to men. That’s why they deem all the examining we did prior, back when we discovered we were homosexual, as “not valid”.

The whole article is worth reading.

Yes, TMI, skip if you want to: I had to have an exam with my GP, and he just pushed the speculum in as if it was not going inside of me? Rather almost like he was giving a handshake? With force? And it hurt?! And I was like “ooooww” and he was like; “oh yes its cold right?”, and i was shocked by the fact that he thought it was cold! The fact that it HURT didn’t even come to his mind. Then a year later or so I had to have an exam again and his female assistant did it and she was super gentle, and I told her that last time he just pushed it in and she sighed and said “yes men don’t know what they do...” and i was thinking like: wtf, he is not just a “man” he is a DOCTOR that does this FREQUENTLY. It’s really f-ed up.

Une raison de plus de détester Freud…

How can someone be this fucked up?🤢