For the 30 Uncommon Character Development questions (here):
For all four DA ladies AND Shepard! (I love the new choice!)
#21: Your character has been granted 3 wishes; what would they wish for and why?
Oh man, what a question to ask all of them! Granting my OCs three wishes can be dangerous. ;)
Okay, assuming that she doesn't feel the need to use one of the wishes to end the Fifth Blight...
Have her family alive and well again
Have a viable and trustworthy option for ruling Ferelden so she and Alistair don't have to do it (Anora only counts if the wish rewrites her trustworthiness as far as Castelin perceives it)
Have her own ship she can be captain of (with Alistair on her crew) and the freedom to be a sea raider like her mother, in service to Ferelden
The obvious first three for Aelinn are: get her sister back, get her father back, get her mother back, and if she can somehow finagle a fourth wish in there, have Carver unblighted. So if we skip past those options...
Freedom for mages without the baggage blowing up a chantry brings
And if someone pushes her to change her list to do more things for her, it looks more like this:
Retirement house in the countryside
Mage freedom still, thanks
Tyria doesn't have any "obvious" wishes (she can handle the Anchor and Breach and Corypheus stuff without having to spend a wish on it, thanks, her team's got this), so we've got...
Help fix the problems mages have by getting the Chantry to listen
Something complicated she spends time finding the perfect wording for (probably with Varric's help) to do kind/helpful things for each of her companions and advisors all rolled into one wish
No, none of the wishes are actually for her, except by extension. No, you can't convince her to change the list to make any of the options for her. Cullen's going to have to get three wishes of his own just to make sure Tyria gets something (she insists that helping her friends is reward enough).
Saadrah would wish for Varric back, but he'd probably complain about her "wasting" a wish and insist it was his time, his choice, and she shouldn't take it from him. So her wishes are (as written out by her)...
Separate Lucanis and Spite nevermind they say they're fine
Help Lucanis deal with Caterina don't need a wish for that one
Taash's mother back? Taash says no (very mature, rethinking first wish now)
Rebuild Minrathous might be more character-building for them to do it themselves
Stability for the eluvian network to make travel easier (wish PLEASE includes reasonable people in charge of managing it so there aren't fights THANKS)
Get Davrin and Assan back (could do it ourselves but this would make it easier)
Ask Tama* about opinions on first wish. Maybe replace it with new knives?
(* "Baba" is what she calls her father, and "Tama" her mother)
Shep is very responsible and would obviously wish for an end to the Reaper War with the minimal number of casualties. If we don't let her wish for that...
TIM (the Illusive Man) punted right out an airlock (Javik approves)
Honorable discharge with the Normandy as her severance pay
Retirement on a beach with Garrus raising whatever kids they choose to adopt with no paparazzi or reporters bothering them