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The problem with playing Deadlock with my girlfriend is whenever we lose she lets out the most plaintive mewling whine you've ever heard. It's so hot I can hardly stand it. If I'm not careful I'm going to condition myself to lose on purpose
Now, I do have the Good Girl mod installed, which praises me whenever I get a kill, so hopefully they'll just cancel each other out
I am a girl who will never suffer any consequences for my actions
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u can just do whatever at any age all of the time nobody cares except teenagers
teenager will be like ur 40 with a hobby ? đ thatâs sad <- nobody else thinks this way though they are just going through some stuff
my notifications are once again devolving into a spirited debate about the ethics of actions that could potentially make someone uncomfortable, and at risk of sounding like someone about to get a lot of irate anons I think we're frankly giving way too to much moral weight to hypothetical discomfort
the thing about discomfort is that it's an extremely nebulous category that can be triggered by virtually anything and that's far too broad a category to have any inherent moral quality to it. like. my mom was mad uncomfortable when I stopped shaving. that didn't mean I was doing violence against my mom it just meant she needed to get over herself. many such cases it must be said.
there's not a single example I could give that's better than this
I was once taken aside by my (female) boss and told that I sounded "too sure of (my)self." She recommended that I emulate the other female employees (who were engineers, btw) and start upspeaking? Like, making everything I said? Sound like a question? So that way, I wouldn't, like, sound too intimidating? Because the other women in our office? Felt threatened?
I just looked at her like she was a three-legged chicken who'd tried to burp the alphabet until she said, "Never mind."
Discomfort is fundamentally something that begins and ends inside the person feeling it. It may be based off of real, tangible, valid facts; or it may be based off of subjective opinions; or it may be based off of some kind of bias; or it may be based off of nothing at all. It is up to you, as someone feeling discomfort, to determine what caused it and if that thing is or needs to be actionable.
A good litmus test for me is saying out loud, "I am uncomfortable because _______."
If I fill in that blank with something actionable, such as, "I am uncomfortable working with this coworker because she informed me that autistic people do not deserve jobs," then that's something I can pursue with our employer, because it's discriminatory. But the thing is that the actionable part is the inappropriate thing she said, not my own discomfort.
Sometimes I fill in that blank with something that is a valid discomfort, but it's not actionable. "I am uncomfortable with this coworker because she is trying to lose weight for her own health and keeps making broad thoughtless generalizations about how everyone needs to lose weight for their health in a time when I'm trying to gain weight for my health." This is a valid discomfort, she shouldn't be doing that, but it's not actually hurting me and it's not coming from a place of malice. The solution to my discomfort is to take matters into my own hands and simply limit my contact with this person as much as possible. (If it was not the same person as in the first example I would say " or attempt to communicate with her and politely get her to be more thoughtful." But it is the same person as in the first example so like. There's other layers here.) If this is not possible then it may become actionable, but for the moment it's a personal issue.
Sometimes I fill in the blank with something incredibly stupid. "I am uncomfortable with this person because they wear tank tops." < This is stupid. This is not a valid discomfort. There may be a reason why I feel that way, but ultimately I need to self reflect and get over myself. Nobody is hurting me or potentially going to hurt me because they wear tank tops.
Discomfort is useful as a warning that something may be wrong, but it is not in and of itself a problem. When the smoke alarm goes off you don't get mad that it went off, you look to see if there's a fire, and you understand it might have gone off because you're boiling water
Today after about a week of confusion and asking people in real life if they've noticed anything, I discovered that there is, in fact, not a bizarre 2026 trend of "Mr Beast Pregnancy Memes" and it is all in fact just a series of tumblr posts from one Ukranian who I've never met named Petro and my two chaos incarnate tumblr mutuals who are so fascinated by the world he is conjuring that they have both been drip-feeding it onto my otherwise relatively normal tumblr dashboard.
accidentally sent a friend 1kg of starch for her birthday
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An ad for your deepest desires :)
You know what I just admire the graphic design on this
It FEELS so much like a real ad I expect to be sold some sort of car tyre or something but itâs just about biting
1000/10 excellent job
med people are so annoying "This family's 8 year old child who was about to go through a major surgery and kept crying that she was hungry so they pitied her and gave her food, she then had a heart attack in the surgery. They're so stupid đ" girl they didn't know that could happen or why it happens. it takes so little time to explain to them that will happen instead of telling them "no food" with no explanation 10 times
"Before surgery, your bodyâs reflexes that protect your airway are relaxed by anesthesia. If thereâs food or liquid in your stomach, it will near certainly come back up and go into your lungs, which can cause choking, a severe lung / heart infection or even a heart attack. Thatâs called aspiration, and it is life-threatening. It's hard, but it's only a single day to prevent near certain death. Not eating or drinking beforehand massively lowers the risk and helps prevent these life threatening situations under anesthesia." <- TIP: patients have brains which allows them to receive information just like you
I have four kids. Iâve had one or another of them need some kind of surgical procedure that requires anesthesia four or five times over the past 15 years.
This Tumblr post is the first time someone has explained to me *why* I couldnât feed them before those instances.
Iâm not stupid. I understood that just fine. Hell, my kids would have understood that just fine. But no one bothered to tell us.
i did know this before having kids (i have six). we have a kid that's needed multiple procedures requiring anesthesia. and every single time, i am asked multiple times if i'm sure he was not given any food or water after a certain point.
every single time i have had to say, "i understand that if he had food or water, he could aspirate it into his lungs under anesthesia. i am not lying to you." THEN someone would make a little note and i would stop being repeatedly asked.
not a single time was that risk explained to me. the only reason it came up was because i already knew. i still don't understand why it isn't standard pre-op counseling or pre-op check information, when me as a parent acknowledging the actual risk also put THE MEDICAL STAFF at ease because i conveyed that i had informed understanding as reason to not lie about giving my kid food.
"maybe some people will get nervous and refuse surgery" okay so they need more counseling about risks and anxiety, not less information in a way that actually does endanger their child or themselves!
Reblogging to save a life and teach medical professionals basic communication skills
in the Egyptian wing of the museum and my boyfriend is like "what are all the time periods of ancient Egypt" and I'm like predynastic, early dynastic, old kingdom which is when the pyramids were built, first intermediate, middle kingdom, second intermediate, new kingdom which includes amarna period and yugioh, third intermediate, and then all the late period stuff and macedonian and roman eras. and he's like run that by me one more time
Your post about people needing to be kind to those who Canât Leave abusive situations actuallyâĻ really reminded me of how a lot of people react to disabilities. Thereâs something about not being able to Stand being around a person while theyâre suffering, that masquerades as compassion, but is really just selfish and unwilling to put your own comfort on the backburner. Some people act like having to be aware of othersâ pain is somehow harming them instead of likeâĻ a vital part of caring about people. Just something that came to mind.
no you are totally right. being around someone whose suffering you cannot stop is like standing with your hand on a hot stove sometimes, and people often vent how much it hurts on the person who was suffering to begin with
ADVENTURE IS CALLING...
DO YOU PICK UP THA PHONE
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I think it's funny world-building how like, so at the center of Life we've got Water. Arguably The most important resource. Colorless transparent substance that molds to any container and we die without it and quickly. And all organic functions of society hinge on its availability. Could fight a ton of wars over this thing.
And well beyond organic life, modern society's great human invention is the Electronic Magic. Our greatest minds invented the Electronic Magic and it sends information around the world instantly. Our infrastructure our economy our modern life, minute by minute by minute, hinges on utilizing the great Lighting Technology.
BUT âī¸âī¸âī¸âī¸âī¸âī¸ DO NOT. DO NOT EVER. get the magical Elixir Substance of Life and Living and Healing, Water, IN the Electronic Device. The water keeps you alive critically but it KILLS the Electronic Device instantly and catastrophically. This Says something.
and this Says something...
Your heart is not true enough to enter the gates of Margaritaville
:33 < sighhhhh... is it pure enough for kokomo atleast? I need SOMETHING to look forward to....
Actually, Nepeta from Homestuck, you're good to come in
I'm going down a rabbit hole looking through this Thai cattery that breeds for white back-stripes
Starting a collection
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ever since i was a little girl i knew i wanted to deny location sharing and turn off personalized ads and reject all non-essential cookies and not set up siri and face ID
