Ramone/Eden!

@/sillyjewishqueer, a member of the mogai community, has been posting awful transphobic garbage on a radfem sideblog for months, while simultaneously posting here in the mogai tag.

do NOT harass bug, just block and move on. i won't be sharing the sideblog because it is genuinely vile, but send me a dm or ask off-anon if you want proof/to block/etc.

☆⁠ SAVEDMENTED — the other side to the tormvaiour attraction! an attraction label where you desire to be tormented yet saved by your object of attraction! this can be being their victim, but them saving your, or being hurt yet helped by your object of attraction! this is attraction is pushed by your object of attraction having control over you! be careful with what you do, consensual stuff first etc

☆⁠ tormvaiour attraction from me! words combined are saved + tormented! for @kalliepride !

☆⁠ coined by your friend :-)

So. I (and many of my friends, acquaintances, and members of the LIOMOQAI communities) who are multipronominal have an issue. When I use multiple sets of pronouns, I struggle to find a way to show that I do not have a preference, because it is often assumed that sets are listed in order of preference. Others struggle to show that they prefer certain sets over others, because not everyone makes that assumption.

I thought of a way to circumvent this; instead of writing he/she/they (which is ambiguous in terms of preference), one could use the > symbol to indicate they prefer a set over another one and the = symbol to show they like two sets equally. This works with any pronoun sets, and more than two sets!

Here are some examples:

she=they (one likes she/her and they/them pronouns equally)

he>she (one prefers he/him over she/her)

he>she=they (one prefers he/him over she/her and they/them, but likes she/her and they/them equally)

he=she>they (one likes he/him and she/her pronouns equally, and prefers he/she over they/them)

he=she>they>ey (one likes he/him and she/her equally, but prefers he/she over they/them, which is preferred over ey/em.

Frithous - A genderfrith gender quality. Someone could be transfrithous, cisfrithous, etc. (I like it better than "frithine" but we'll see what sticks.)

Frithmel - A genderfrith sex term.

Flit - A genderfrith youth. A group of them could be "flits." It just sounds right to me.

Frithan - A genderfrith grownup. A group of them could be "frithen."

Frithous - A genderfrith gender quality. Someone could be transfrithous, cisfrithous, etc. (I like it better than "frithine" but we'll see what sticks.)

Frithmel - A genderfrith sex term.

Flit - A genderfrith youth. A group of them could be "flits." It just sounds right to me.

Frithan - A genderfrith grownup. A group of them could be "frithen."

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Phocinian / Aconitan / Acrouran

(cinhood / conhood / rouhood)

A term for those who have experienced girlhood, boyhood, or childhood that was neither, regardless of their current or assigned gender. Additionally, terms for these experiences that don't use gendered language, for those that would prefer not to use them.

Examples of ways someone might use this term.

A phocinian transmasc who experienced a girlhood (cinhood) as a result of their lived experiences, and considers it important to them.

An aconitan bxy who feels as though it was always its gender, and therefore experienced a boyhood (conhood) despite not being raised as one.

An acrouran trans woman who didn't fit into the norms for boyhood, but also didn't identify as a girl, so feels like she experienced neither a boyhood nor a girlhood (rouhood).

Note that rouhood is not synonymous with enbyhood: it just describes a childhood that was not a boy- or girlhood, and can be used for many different gender experiences.

Name sources (binomial or common name): [one] [two] [three]