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[PT: promo time? /end PT]

we'd like a promo for our archival blogs! @accessibility945 is dedicated to adding PTs and IDs to posts, and @pokemon-archival945 is dedicated to archiving pokémon liomogai terms. we may also reblog things onto this blog as a temporary space if we think it might go on another blog later. we'd appreciate a shoutout if possible, and everyone can feel free to tag either blog in posts that fit their scope!!

@/sillyjewishqueer, a member of the mogai community, has been posting awful transphobic garbage on a radfem sideblog for months, while simultaneously posting here in the mogai tag.

do NOT harass bug, just block and move on. i won't be sharing the sideblog because it is genuinely vile, but send me a dm or ask off-anon if you want proof/to block/etc.

i am staunchly anti-radqueer; i was a part of the early anti-radqueer community—when antiradqueer and other blogs were still active—and an archivist, one of the only active ones in the community then. i compiled so many posts explaining alternatives to being radqueer, help resources, why certain things were bad and the origins of some of the most infamous radqueer terms. i've helped victims out of the community. i've been harrassed by radqueers because of my being anti-radqueer (without having personally interacted with any). i've watched someone i love fall back under the control of their abuser because of the radqueer community.

i am also a paraphile. i'm the disgusting, vile, unforgivable paraphile that radnormalism condemns. i am not one of the big three, however, i do experience an attraction that would be harmful if acted on (you don't need to know what). i am this way as a result of trauma—being unable to tie my worth to anything besides what i could do for others and yet desiring some semblance of control at the same time.

and you know something?

the anti-radqueer community used to be much, much more accepting to paraphiles. because the goal was never to eradicate radqueers or push them off the internet entirely or isolate them from everyone else in the world or hate them; the goal was to help victims. we had problems, yes—we used to be so hateful—but we realized we weren't making a change that way. we realized that we weren't helping anyone that way.

do you hate radqueers because they're bad and evil and disgusting and immoral? even the victims who're radqueer because of their abusers? even the children who happen to be paraphiles that're radqueer because they're scared nobody else will accept them? do you hate the not-quite-ex radqueer who's scared to leave the community because what if they're not accepted anywhere else? what about the sexual assault victim who's transraped because they don't feel like their trauma was bad enough? what about them? do you hate them too? do you want them dead? do you want them to be isolated from any community ever? or do you hate radqueers because they're "bad" and you don't have repurcussions for hating them? do you hate radqueers more than you care about victims?

give me a good reason why you hate paraphiles that doesn't generalize all paraphiles (because what about kids who are paraphiles and disgusted by their own attraction? what about sexual assault victims who developed paraphilias as a result? what about plushophiles? how have they hurt anyone because of their paraphilias? we've not even gotten into the fact kinks are oftentimes counted as paraphilias); give me a good reason why you hate transids without saying they're all harmful or appropriation (because transspecies originated as an otherkin term and transabled was a medical diagnosis and transcute isn't hurting anyone); give me a good reason why you hate radqueers that isn't "they're all abusers" or "they're all disgusting" or "they're all bad" (because there are victims who are in the community, there are victims who don't know any better, there are victims who are being hurt by your actions and pushed away from being helped).

this isn't even getting into the fact that, regardless of what you think about radqueers as a whole, you should still fucking treat them like people. you never, ever dehumanize someone—that's fascist shit and you never use fascist tactics. why do so many of you feel like it's okay to treat radqueers like shit? is it because you hate them so much? because you don't see them as people? because you don't think they're deserving of basic decency? because congrats: fascist shit. that's also still pushing away people who might want to leave the community and/or who're actively victims in the community.

anti paras tend to hold the beliefs of ‘anti para unless anti contact’ in a guilty until proven innocent sense, the conflation of paraphile with predator is so deeply ingrained from decades of social stigma that it provides people with a safety net to acceptably say that we should kill and harm paraphiles.

as someone who has personality disorders, these disorders sometimes compel me or make me desire to harm people. acting upon my desires to hurt people around me would be physically and emotionally traumatic for strangers and even people I care about. why can you rationalise empathy for people like me, when this pertains to BPD, NPD, ASPD, schizophrenia, etc? if someone was to say ‘anti NPD, except anti abuse ones’ why is that unacceptable, but ‘anti para, except anti contact ones’ is acceptable?

do you understand that sexual taboo is affecting the way you treat and think about human beings? do you understand that sex being integrated into the conversation is what’s affecting your mental shift from ‘person with a condition’ to ‘predator’ as soon as the conversation moves to paraphiles? ‘narc abuse’ is a condemned term in these communities for conflating a condition with abuser. but conflate ‘paraphile’ with ‘predator’ and you very wilfully submit to a decades long psyop that has also been historically used to hurt the gay and trans community.

it’s frustrating that I try and keep this blog mogai focussed, but more and more violence and bullying is being incited towards various groups that already suffer from social stigma. you aren’t interested in protecting children if you can’t get over your own internal biases— who is going to protect the children who are paraphiles? who is going to protect the victims who are paraphiles?

[PT: Do you own a LIOMOQAI archival blog? Do you know of one, active or not? Please comment below!]

Hello all! I am compiling the List of LIOMOQAI Archives over on Notion, inspired by and heavily based off @archive-of-archives and @extinclypse. I am looking for:

Themed archival blogs

General archival blogs

Archives of user's terms

Off-site archives (e.g. the Neoumbrellas Notion)

It would be great if you could check if they're on the List before commenting/reblogging/sending an ask, however you don't have to and I can check myself!

The current count is now 470 blogs!

Updates:

I have begun tracking Carrds, Pinterest archives, wikis, other Notions, and more off-site resources

The general/specific theme tags are now better matched by color, which is mostly an aesthetic change but does help with searching

Off-site links now display their titles, not just a messy URL

Deactivated blogs have been pruned (tagged Deactivated and hidden in the filter), as well as a semi-recent update to Activity status

The "Established General Archive" filter has been added, which allows you to sort for large, unthemed archives to find terms

Searching “old” will pull up blogs with terms pre-2023-ish, with the specific years they feature

Tags like "Nonthemed Specific" and "Types of Posts/Users" have been cleaned up and made more consistent

Updates:

Added the Yet To Start tag to organise blogs that are starting up but haven't archived anything yet

Added the type of media to all media tags, leading to interesting classifications like "Five Nights at Freddy's (Franchise)", "SCP Foundation (Website/Universe)", "Toki Pona (Constructed Language)", and "World of Darkness (Tabletop Role-playing Game Series)" - the longest by far

Added the "Untagged" and "Minimal Tagging" tags to General archives without tag systems

Made sure all entries except general archives & accessibility blogs have General Themes

Added definitions where I could to blogs that archive certain umbrellas/identity systems

Currently working on updating the activity indicators, with the help of those on the LIOMOGAI Archivists server

mogaibased.⠀❥❥❥⠀a term for systems/plurals who are based in or around mogai, while not necessarily being an origin.

-based information (link). colors and symbols taken from crowdsourcedgender's mogai flag edits (link). you may repost my terms on pluralpedia as long as i am credited and informed. do not bring syscourse on this post, i am stanceless.