it's 2021

unhealthy relationship means just that. a relationship that is unhealthy. whether because a party is uninterested, both parties bring out the worst in eachother, theres just no more spark, etc

just stop using “unhealthy relationship” as if its perfectly synonymous with “abusive relationship”

just because a relationship didn’t go the way you hoped it would or wanted it to, you don’t get to call attack a person for years / get your friends to / coordinate bullying / wage a campaign of ‘let’s ruin this person’s life’ a person “an abuser”. or, worse.

because you know what that also does? it undermines and causes harm to actual abuse victims/survivors, and the irony and unselfawareness of those who perpetrate the shit OP is talking about isn’t lost on me. and that is the most important part of all of this.

I had a "friend" who started dating another one of my friends. They seemed so perfect for each other because they were both independent. But as time went on, she wanted more of his time. And he just didn't want to give it to her. He was busy and needed more alone time. So what did he do? He broke up with her, saying exactly that. He couldn't give her what she wanted, and if hendidnt want to try, why should he stay with her?

She ended up telling everyone how abusive he was, how he refused to spend time with her or work on their relationship. They dated for 4 months! If he didn't want too, he didn't have too!

- Has been sued for copyright infringement for a ‘blasphemous’ musical rendition of a monologue from the 1950s

- He was on a plane with U2′s Bono and his family, and the plane was shot by the Jamaican police, who believed they were smuggling marijuana. He wrote a song about the incident.

- He’s actually a singer, and his better known song in called MARGARITAVILLE. He also owns the Margaritaville Cafe restaurant chain. And has licensed Margaritaville Tequila, Margaritaville Footwear, and a Margaritaville Foods. He owns the Margaritaville Casino, has released a “Margaritaville Online” game, and he wrote and starred in a musical called “Escape to Margaritaville”

- He also wrote a song called “Math Suks”, which was condemned by the US National Council of Teachers of Mathematics for its alleged negative effect on children’s education. 

- He was thrown out of a basketball game he was watching for using blasphemous language in front of kids.

- And he was detained by French customs for allegedly carrying over 100 pills of ecstasy. Although he was released after paying a fine, and, according to him, the pills were a B-vitamin supplement.

I keep seeing youtubers talking about how the new algorithm on their creative dash is so detrimental to their mental health, both in terms of how they feel about themselves as creators and the content they make—dreading to find out their performance rating, regardless of whether they enjoyed it or not. And it’s the same across multiple other platforms, TickTock, Facebook, Instagram. Fuck, I’ve even seen people with business accounts complaining on Twitter.

Serious complaining can mean “this upsets me, I want it to change” or “this upsets me, and I just want to get it off my chest and be heard” or simply “I am frustrated and want to vent until I feel better”.