The one thing about gender is that frankly my ideal gender situation has very little to do with me and infinitely more to do with everyone else on the earth who cannot be fuuuuuuuuucking cool about anything ever
As in, the ideas of social transition becomes completely meaningless when your preferred state would be to operate outside of the confines of sex and gender entirely, but no one else can get with the program so you are constantly put in some variety of box. I can wear whatever pronoun pin I want and change my presentation however I want but all it impacts is what box I'm categorized into. It does grate I must admit
All that said if I'm going to be in a box regardless I'm glad I have my trans siblings in it with me 🥂 I may be irritated by my circumstances, but I will never be alone













