Being a Severus Snape fan and a Remadora shipper is really the worst possible combination. I literally chose (well, actually, I didn't choose they chose me) the two things that the worst subgroup of the HP fandom hates the most.
The subgroup being the Marauders fandom (if this wasn't already clear) full of 1. horrible people who 2. don't respect any fandom etiquette. One of those things is already bad but combining both is just, I can't even put it into words.
They have horrible morals which leads them to having the worst possible takes (like threatening to kill a FICTIONAL animal is horrible but sending death threads to REAL humans because of a FICTIONAL character they like is a fun and heroic act). And if that wasn't already enough they think every post is made for them/should be made for them so now they comment those thoughts into communities that are clearly not made for them/their thoughts.Ā
They say they are the most open-minded and tolerant community creating a safe space but what they actually do is destroy the safe space of everyone who thinks just a bit different from them.
And let me tell you I used to be a Marauders fan and a Wolfstar shipper (even though I was always a Snape and Remadora fan first and foremost). And this is not supposed to be an anti Marauders/Wolfstar post (I do have my problems with both of them, but I couldn't care less what other people like/ship. I mean who am I to police other peoples love for FICTIONAL characters/ships?). This is only anti the Fandom that I used to be a part of but that was so toxic that I had to leave. Not only that but that also lead to me starting to question/dislike their favourite characters/ships. So all their "fandom/thoughts policing" ultimately lead to one of their own not only leaving them but also hating them. And I'm sure I'm not the only one who went through that. Especially in the last few years (since covid) they have become more and more toxic even starting to hate their own (like Jily shippers).
I have wanted to write this post for years, but I never got around to it. Until now where I am barely active in the HP fandom (on any social media platform) any more because the Marauders Fandom has infiltrated so many of those safe spaces that it's destroying my enjoyment of them. And I just needed to say this, so I finally can move on.
I don't know yet what I mean by moving on. I'm definitely not going to move on from being a Snape/Remadora fan but for now I simply can't be a (regularly) active member of those spaces or the Harry Potter Fandom in general. But I'm definitely moving on from the Marauders Fandom.Ā Both in the sense of finally "getting over" (for lack of a better word) that I once was a member of it and stopping all interactions with them (if possible).
It's also not just the fact that the hate from the Marauders Fandom is annoying/hurtful but that this has filled me myself with so much hate for them to a point where I just couldn't take it any longer. I never went as low as they do, like harassing threatening people in their safe spaces, but I did say some things that just are so not me. Granted they were not unprovoked (usually as a response to someone commenting some shit on my own posts) but I still didn't recognize myself any more. And while I do still think they deserved it I just can't do this any longer (at least right now). I have enough other things to worry about, and my mental health is already not the best but I found another Fandom that is currently helping me to heal at least somewhat (the res t of the healing I sadly have to do in the āreal worldā).























