tyler / stella

3833 < join radyume discord servfur today!!

hi! i am an obligatory user of forearm crutches.

i love everyone who either wants or uses disability aids, even if it's for transID reasons. you are literally normalizing accomodations. you are uplifting and supporting other aid users, like me.

i have been babied, mocked, and very blatantly treated differently(/neg) for my crutches- because disabilities (and aids for such) are seen as something rare, something to be avoided or cringed at.

you are helping get us equal treatment!!!

we need more people with wheelchairs. we need more people with crutches. we need more people with braces & hearing aids & everything else. this would, in turn, encourage more disability-friendly buildings & such btw!

you are not selfish or any less valid for wanting a disability aid for transID reasons!!!

Stance Coin: RadYume 🍓☁️

or: radyumeship, radical yumeshipper, radical yumeshipping

A fiction/selfship stance centered around radically shipping oneself with a fictional character or factual being.

This stance is pro:

Freedom in fiction

Non-sharing shippers (peaceful AND “toxic”)

Voidsharing shippers

RPF yumeshippers

Possessive, neurotic, and “delusional” shippers

Parasocial shippers

TransDating beings

Fictoromantics, fictosexuals, and fictophiles

Shippers (riakos, gachikois) who are in a real relationship with their (n)f/o and feel that the “yumeship” term is too simple and underrepresents the significance their relationship holds

Shippers who are actively searching for an introject/transcharacter/transperson/kin/IRL of their partner to form a relationship with

Shippers who hold their doubles in a spiteful, hateful, or otherwise negative regard

Shippers who deny the existence or validity of their doubles

Shippers who have delusional attachments to their partner

Dark yumeships (age gap, incest, cross-species, etcetera)

Yumeshipping with transfictional beings (or: referring to your relationship with a transfictional being as a yumeship)

This stance is anti:

Shippers harassing their doubles

Unsolicited reality checks

Anyone can identify with this stance if they find that they align with it.

This stance is not strictly aligned with radqueer, meaning that you do not have to be radqueer to be a radyume.

Minor revisions made to the RadYume stance. Consider this a partial recoin.

I’ll be updating the TransID page for my term shortly.

Changes made:

3833 < nullsharing/hypervoidsharing

3833 < being hyper voidsharing, this flag is for beings who feel often "extreme" emotions/reactions to seeing doubles (which can be but not limited to, severe discomfort or visceral reactions such as crying or nausea) and asks all doubles to dni at all costs. its also the beliefs doubles do not exist / arent valid. (this stance is NOT in support of harassing doubles)

this can be for both yumeships/transcharacterdating/soulbonds/DA OR kins/irls

anyone can use this term!!

already coined? consider this an alt term

of course i cant get every species of dragon in one post, but i got a few!

TransNightFury — A term for those who feel as if they should be a Night Fury.

TransLightFury — A term for those who feel as if they should be a Light Fury.

TransNightLight — A term for those who feel as if they should be a Night Light.

TransDeadlyNadder — A term for those who feel as if they should be a Deadly Nadder.

TransMonstrousNightmare — A term for those who feel as if they should be a Monstrous Nightmare.

TransHideousZippleback — A term for those who feel as if they should be a Hideous Zippleback.

TransGronckle — A term for those who feel as if they should be a Gronckle.

i'd like to say that veryweirddino is in fact racist and does need to seek help for other things. if you'd like photo evidence of racist and concerning posts from their twitter, discord, AND tumblr, feel free to message me.

I won't be taking the vagueposting lightly anymore. If I'm sensitive for banning a racist person from a server, please tell me directly, Dino.

Transfamousradqueer

𓉸ྀི 🖤🦄 a transexperience id for those who feel as though they should be a famous radqueer (this includes being infamous as well) pictured above are the trans, tris, and cis versions respectively

ᯠྀི 𓇮 ᯄ. . . × there is no wrong way to use this id! if reposting please give creds + archiving ok. already coined? consider this an alt!

I think nobody in this community acknowledges some ARE groomed into this community, and thats because this community does not post about safety, risk awareness, what consent REALLY is (being fully aware of what is happening, being able to say no after saying yes, having safe words, ect), nor educational pieces on safety half enough - making it very easy for manipulators to thrive in this community

Which does not make this community nor its ideals inherently evil like antis say, nor does it inherently mean every aspect should be thrown out the window, thats the exact same as anti-kink anti-bdsm mentality honestly

It's simply that its very easy to lead an uneducated person, or even an educated person who feels trapped into this community, giving them a hundred labels that makes them feel tied to their abuser, and then labelling the relationship as con-abuse

cause nobody seriously dives into the risks of con-abuse, how such a relationship should have breaks and aftercare, outside of anti-rhetoric

I'm talking from experience, It happened to my system, and we are, on a labels and identities level, entangled with our abuser, and still spiral into "well originally i consented, even if I said no later and tried to set up boundaries, maybe he just thought it was all part of the game"

And I am not the only one!!! I've talked to other!!! People in the radqueer space who admit they wouldn't be here without their abusers!!! When people say they were groomed into it, it is NOT just anti rhetoric, theres more substance in these claims

We need awareness, pdfs filled with safety tips, when to take breaks, how to abuse someone safely, how you can hurt someone safely, I want a world where the first thing you see after looking up conabuse is "here's a article on how to do such safely" "heres a class on how to do such safely" "heres a book on the ethics and how to do such safely"

I want a world where we acknowledge the grooming, how identities can be manipulated, twisted, this isn't just a radqueer issue, my otherkin identities were twisted too, so intertwined with theirs it felt like even if I escaped they'd still be who I am.

I just want more safety highkey