#radqueers interact

Stance Coin: RadYume 🍓☁️

or: radyumeship, radical yumeshipper, radical yumeshipping

A fiction/selfship stance centered around radically shipping oneself with a fictional character or factual being.

This stance is pro:

Freedom in fiction

Non-sharing shippers (peaceful AND “toxic”)

Voidsharing shippers

RPF yumeshippers

Possessive, neurotic, and “delusional” shippers

Parasocial shippers

TransDating beings

Fictoromantics, fictosexuals, and fictophiles

Shippers (riakos, gachikois) who are in a real relationship with their (n)f/o and feel that the “yumeship” term is too simple and underrepresents the significance their relationship holds

Shippers who are actively searching for an introject/transcharacter/transperson/kin/IRL of their partner to form a relationship with

Shippers who hold their doubles in a spiteful, hateful, or otherwise negative regard

Shippers who deny the existence or validity of their doubles

Shippers who have delusional attachments to their partner

Dark yumeships (age gap, incest, cross-species, etcetera)

Yumeshipping with transfictional beings (or: referring to your relationship with a transfictional being as a yumeship)

This stance is anti:

Shippers harassing their doubles

Unsolicited reality checks

Anyone can identify with this stance if they find that they align with it.

This stance is not strictly aligned with radqueer, meaning that you do not have to be radqueer to be a radyume.

I think nobody in this community acknowledges some ARE groomed into this community, and thats because this community does not post about safety, risk awareness, what consent REALLY is (being fully aware of what is happening, being able to say no after saying yes, having safe words, ect), nor educational pieces on safety half enough - making it very easy for manipulators to thrive in this community

Which does not make this community nor its ideals inherently evil like antis say, nor does it inherently mean every aspect should be thrown out the window, thats the exact same as anti-kink anti-bdsm mentality honestly

It's simply that its very easy to lead an uneducated person, or even an educated person who feels trapped into this community, giving them a hundred labels that makes them feel tied to their abuser, and then labelling the relationship as con-abuse

cause nobody seriously dives into the risks of con-abuse, how such a relationship should have breaks and aftercare, outside of anti-rhetoric

I'm talking from experience, It happened to my system, and we are, on a labels and identities level, entangled with our abuser, and still spiral into "well originally i consented, even if I said no later and tried to set up boundaries, maybe he just thought it was all part of the game"

And I am not the only one!!! I've talked to other!!! People in the radqueer space who admit they wouldn't be here without their abusers!!! When people say they were groomed into it, it is NOT just anti rhetoric, theres more substance in these claims

We need awareness, pdfs filled with safety tips, when to take breaks, how to abuse someone safely, how you can hurt someone safely, I want a world where the first thing you see after looking up conabuse is "here's a article on how to do such safely" "heres a class on how to do such safely" "heres a book on the ethics and how to do such safely"

I want a world where we acknowledge the grooming, how identities can be manipulated, twisted, this isn't just a radqueer issue, my otherkin identities were twisted too, so intertwined with theirs it felt like even if I escaped they'd still be who I am.

I just want more safety highkey

"You have to be born Japanese to be japanese."

Transjapanese people: "Nuh uh."

"You can't find that attractive."

Paraphiles: "Nuh uh."

"You can't just identify as whatever you want!!"

Transids: "Nuh uh."

Radqueer is the epitome of "You only live once, so live it the way you want."

and I love it for that.

there’s going to be another video on the radqueer community like there was last year (same creator too), i just now saw the post on her channel about it. and i’m worried it’ll lead to a bunch of mass reporting like what happened before. just wanted to warn you guys about that, make sure to make backups of stuff that you really don’t want to lose if your account gets termed, like layouts and important posts and other such things.

edit: video's out, good luck

blinkies i made !! in order:

map pride, shotacon, transid, objectum, radqueer, kodocon, cronacon, perma online, lolicon

f2u no credit needed!

    ii believe in incest supremacy :3