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Whenever I think about the value of something being done by a person who really understands the job from a lifetime of experience, I think of my first restaurant job. My goal was to work every position, and I started with a year and a half in the dish pit at 16yo.
When i started as a dishwasher, i was trained by an old career dish pit man named Claudio. He'd spent his whole life washing dishes. It allowed him to move to just about any city in the world that he wanted to and get a job without having to deal with complex hiring processes or strict resumĂŠ requirements. Which was the main thing he wanted out of a career. I still think about him.
He'd seen a lot of people come through that station who either didn't consider it a real job or thought it was beneath them, on their way to "better" or "more important" things. And, in retrospect, those first two days he was sort of doing the minimum with me that he could do and still respect himself when he told the manager he'd trained me.
But, maybe it was because i was really interested in learning all the positions there were in a restaurant because i knew they were ALL important, or because i was a hard worker, or maybe it was because i tried to have real conversations with him in my broken spanish and did my best to not make him speak any english unless he wanted to, but after a couple days there was a big shift in the way he and i worked together, and he started to really teach me.
That place ran the dish pit with one dishwasher, so when he was done training me I was going to be doing the job on my own.
The thing that stuck with me the most, for the rest of my restaurant career, was this... and it wasn't just the actual things he was saying, but a completely new way of looking at what i was doing within the context of how the restaurant ran. I came in for my 3rd day and he said
"When you work alone, you want to go home by midnight?"
we clocked on at 3:30 and took a half hour lunch break and usually skipped our tens, so, yeah i absolutely did want to get off work by midnight
Then, even tho i already knew where most of everything was by that time, he took me around and showed me all the dishes, cups, pots and pans, spatulas, silverware, had me look at all of it. Then he told me to remember that almost every one of the dishes I was looking at would be used more than once by the end of our shift- we were clocking on to wash the entire building full of dishes multiple times.
Then he led me back over to the industrial dishwasher most restaurants have, which looks like this:
and then this 60 year old career dishwasher from Mexico City said the thing that changed how I looked at restaurant jobs forever
"This machine takes two full minutes to run a cycle. We are on the clock for 8 hours. That means we have a maximum of 240 times we can run this machine. If you want to wash all those dishes, clean your station, mop, and clock off by midnight? This machine has to be on and running every second of the shift.
If you don't have a full load of dishes collected, scraped, rinsed, stacked, and ready to go into the dishwasher the second it's done every single time? You can't do it. If, over the course of 8 hours, you let this machine lay idle for just one minute in between finishing each load and being turned on again? Instead of 240 loads, you'll do 160 loads.
[like, literally, he had done this math, he had these exact figures]
160 loads instead of 240 loads means you are doing 20 loads in an hour instead of 30 loads. That means the dishes are going to pile up. The cooks will run out of pots and pans and will have to stop and wait for you, the servers will run out of plates and cups and have to stop and wait for you, and your night is going to SUCK. Every part of how this restaurant works can grind to a halt because of that idle minute between dish loads, and if it does you'll have an entire building of people in a hurry and all waiting on you.
And it means you're going to be here until 2 am doing the 200+ loads of dishes this restaurant goes through every night.
For this to work, you MUST have this dishwasher on and running every minute of the shift. As soon as you turn it on you have two minutes to have the next load ready. See these large items i put to the side down here? One or two of them takes up all the space in the machine. I keep them here so that if the machine finishes and shuts off before i'm ready for it i can stick one of these in there and turn it on again immediately. You have to think like that to do this job without stress."
The way he was looking at how the whole restaurant ran, the way he was looking at how he'd spend each minute of the entire shift, the way he broke down what the physical limits were and how to max them out so he could do his job and go home on time without stressing out... The way this 60 year old guy, who had never had professional ambitions beyond being a dishwasher, was still such a competent and brilliant expert in his field.
It was all such an important lesson, and one that stayed with me through every position i went on to work in restaurants, dish pit, busser, server, cook, all the way up through manager before I finally got out of my restaurant career
Claudio never wanted to be anything but a dishwasher who didn't stay any later than he had to.
But he knew how that restaurant ran better than most of the other people in it. I never had a chance to truly thank him for the specific lesson he taught me, because while it had an immediate impact, I didn't really understand how valuable a lesson it was until much later.
But I've thought about Claudio and what i learned from him many MANY times in my life.
it's quite frankly unfair and insane that my expectations and anxieties for how my adult friends will respond to me is foundationally built upon the experience of how my middle school friends responded to me. can they not just be filed into two separate categories.
cracking myself up thinking about the movement towards simplified forms in cave paintings
grug: grug must paint every hair on buffalo in realistic detail
thog: grug can chill out, audience know what buffalo look like. just do one line like thog
thog: cave painting world no longer look for photorealism. expression of form and movement is new frontier
grug: but then how will grug demonstrate high level of skill? grug have art degree
thog: any caveman represent buffalo as it is. grug must represent what it means to grug
grug: hm. this will challenge grug. but grug enjoy rising to occasion
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The Grackle puff show offs have begun, and it is always a great time to watch the rivaling displays. They were good at hiding and getting out of frame today but they were so fun and active that I decided to make a video. The last piece is there because it contains the strangest noises. Maybe a Starling, maybe a camera mic malfunction, maybe both?
This update has utterly destroyed engagement with old content, too. I have one particular viral post (a selfie) that is years old now and still gets 100s of notes a month from people reblogging as they stumble across it in someone's archives.
I now won't see *any* of those interactions. Because of how the "long tail" of reblogging works on this site -- most of the reblogs come from *other* accounts' reblogs, not directly from the OP.
Now, I won't get the endorphins of seeing all the positive notes on my content, even stuff that's only days, or in the case of viral content, hours old.
And I won't have any visibility into people using my old posts for harassment/misinformation campaigns. I have a large manual block list to keep me and my followers safe, and now I've lost a major safety tool.
This is just utter dogshit for some attempt to fragment posts, likely for some new advertising model.
I've been here since 2013 and am starting to pack my bags. This is openly hostile to the majority of this site's users. Tumblr thrives on its massive backlog of old content and this change removes any incentive to create anything new now.
@changes
They did say nothing would change for the old posts.
Also, if someone else reblogs it and adds nothing (aka just passing it around) it'll be as if nothing had changed.
Now, im not saying this update is good, im just saying its bad in a different way then mentioned by OP.
My old posts are already bifurcated. On desktop, I cannot see recent tags on reblogs more than 1 degree of separation on even my old content. It is worse than what staff has said.
Here's an excerpt of an old post of mine from 2021 that still gets notes daily.
Left is a screencap from my outdated mobile app - 106.7k notes.
Right is a screencap from desktop with the new update- 102,252 notes.
When I click on the reblogs on desktop, I cannot see recent reblogs beyond 1 degree of separation. On desktop, from my perspective, it looks like the last reblog directly was late February. But I know for a fact people have been reblogging it as of 5hrs ago - the mobile app still gives me visibility. And those reblogs only had tags - no other content was added to the chain.
This has destroyed my ability to moderate my own content. Old posts are absolutely fucked up for any new notes on them that started even before today. (I am guessing this update has been cooking in the background since Feb 26 or 27.)
This old post gets regular notes, but today has not been a 4k notes kind of day. Which means this update has been cooking for at least a few weeks and somewhat applied retroactively.
If you're having problems finding fairly recent notes on posts you made prior to today, this is why.
Hi! I'm going to my first ever mineral expo soon (very excited), so I thought I'd ask the local Rock Expert what to look out for and what to avoid. Thank you!
Things to be aware of at a mineral expo! Here are some fakes and mislabeled stones I've see around lately.
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I'm not bailing on Tumblr just yet, but social media is inherently volatile and if you want to reliably find my work, I suggest bookmarking my website and subscribing to my RSS feed!
for years now i have been like "well i want to commit fully to the fediverse and leave all corporate social media, but tumblr is the only place with reblogs that work like that, even fedi platforms that let you make long posts only have twitter-style post threads which isn't the same" and now tumblr is like "good news! we have turned tumblr reblogs into a twitter-style post thread"
Who else thinks this is because the head honcho is still big mad about getting kung pow penised that one time?
you genuinely might be on to something. with the new update the OP only sees the K. i'm not saying they definitely broke the whole fucking website just because matt couldn't handle getting kung pow penised but i'm not not saying that.

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How is it is supposed to work: your emotions are a response to your situation and surroundings. It is OK to feel the emotion. Now take that emotion and use your logical brain to decide which parts of the emotion fit the facts of the situation and which do not and why, and how youâre going to respond to said emotions (which is what tweet said, and what therapists say)
How people seem to interpret it: any emotional reaction is perfectly fine and I am not responsible for what I do out of emotion.
The âHow it is supposed to workâ part is really great, took me long enough and a therapist to figure that.
Tumblr, like most tech software companies, utterly fails at "Should we investigate what other companies have done? Should we look at those who came before?"
Cohost still has a faithful user base even though the site has now been dead for longer than most of them were using it. Cohost died mostly because their plans for income involved helping users sell art that the credit card companies were tightening the screws on. That was this site's main problem as far as I can tell. Many other aspects were a success and were influenced by the best parts of Tumblr. People at Cohost definitely tried to ask, "What have other companies done and how can we make it better?" They didn't always succeed, but they were trying.
If people at Tumblr intentionally went the other direction, if they asked things like, "What can we do to not have an amazingly loyal community the way Cohost did? How can we take what Cohost liked enough to copy from us and make worse those things in particular?" their actions would look a lot like recent site changes.
UB faculty of biology, Barcelona, Spain, 1981, JA Ballesteros, JC Cardenal & F Guardia
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from Mindfulness: A critical perspective by Phil Arthington:
Psychological theories and practices often carry underlying assumptions that promote particular ways of being as moral or virtuous due to the historical and cultural context in which they are produced. Mainstream psychology tends to privilege a westernised worldview, which espouses individualising, Christian and capitalist values and marginalises communitarian perspectives (Fox, Prilleltensky, & Austin, 2009). Psychologists carry a social responsibility to recognise the influence of these values and belief systems upon peopleâs lives, particularly in terms of the reduction of the psyche to the individualâs freedom to choose and compete for material goods (Nafstad, Blakar, Carlquist, Phelps, & Rand-Hendriksen, 2007). As a technique drawn from Buddhist psychology, mindfulness could carry the potential to subvert dominant values of capitalism by emphasising an Eastern worldview promoting connectedness and community. However, it is this authorâs contention that the secular practice of mindfulness does not achieve this, and that its politics ought to be considered as distinct from the use of this technique within its traditional Buddhist context. This position follows Carrette and Kingâs (2005) historical account of the development of contemporary spiritual practices in Euro-American culture, in which psychology is seen as one mechanism in a process which has individualised religious experience and has minimised potentially socially transformative aspects of religion. The presence of mindfulness classes in executive boardrooms reflects the way that mindfulness not only leaves capitalism unchallenged, but how it can be used to reinforce the dominant ideologies associated with capitalism. ... The individualism inherent in secular mindfulness could be seen as reflecting the tendency of âpopular Buddhismâ to differ from âdoctrinal Buddhismâ in the degree to which practices are influenced by socio-historical and political factors, such that Western meditative practice is more likely to be shaped by a dominant individualist conception of selfhood (Jayasuriya, 2008). This distinction is useful in that it helps to account for the way certain aspects of the Buddhist philosophical system (e.g., those concerned with the individual) can flourish in Western secular practice while others (e.g., those concerned with promoting a freer and more equal society) are less prominent. For instance, Sangha, or community, is a central aspect of Buddhism and yet mindfulness programmes often involve private experiences using books and CDs, and classes tend to involve limited group interaction (Hickey, 2010). From a critical perspective, psychology can be seen as having placed an individualising filter upon Buddhism, with mindfulness emerging as the outcome.
more from the article:
When human suffering arises from inequalities such as those associated with poverty, race, gender, sexual orientation, disability or social class, it should be recognised as such. By importing a packaged set of concepts and techniques to be applied to all individuals as a panacea, secular mindfulness does not engage with liberation from oppressive circumstances in any meaningful way. Through its promotion of acceptance and its invitation to take personal responsibility for oneâs choices, secular mindfulness can instead be seen as functioning as a tool of oppression in which improved self-awareness is encouraged at the expense of the raising of critical consciousness (Freire, 1970)
People may seek greater autonomy through mindfulness but, by reducing the possibility of socio-political action in favour of individual self-discipline and self-improvement, they may find that such autonomy remains elusive. From a Foucauldian perspective, mindfulness may involve a friendly form of self-surveillance, but it is self-surveillance nonetheless.
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i wonder if i'll still have a blog tomorrow when i wake up!!!! it looks like posts are getting deleted right off my blog so idkkkkkkkkkkkk
well that didn't take long, less than an hour. @staff do you wonder why we loathe you?
please note that none of you would have seen this if I hadn't reblogged it because I believed her. can you please believe me that it happens so much more often than you hear about? the only rare thing here is that it's too obvious to miss.
This is one of the more ambitious pieces I've done for a bit, and I did it on an absurd deadline, but my trans dragon back patch is done! The project ended up taking 130 hours of working time to finish, using two strands of cotton floss for both fills and outlines. The base pattern was from my own collection and was originally from 1936.