"Lavender Cowboy" by Andrew Sa
DV:
Ever since reading about the growing queer country scene in Chicago (and elsewhere), I've been trying to find a way to reconnect with the genre. Unfortunately - and I fear this is outing myself as a fake country fan but I can't really help it - I kinda want all country songs to hit like Faith Hill in 1998. "Lavender Cowboy," for all its charms, most certainly does not. It's a lovely, heartstring-tweaking tribute to pioneering gay country icon Patrick Haggerty, but man does it have twang. Which is where a lot of queer country seems to fall - this is the kind of music that gets played on NPR and categorized under "Americana" at most record shops that carry it, not the kind that aspires to compete with Morgan Wallen on the charts. Which is probably for the best! But it does mean that while I can appreciate "Lavender Cowboy", I'm not really feeling it the way I thought I might. And that part's a shame, because mainstream country hasn't really been hitting like anything lately. It could really use a shakeup, even if it's impossible to fault Sa and his peers for building their own universe elsewhere.
MG:
And on the opposite end of the spectrum, this is exactly what I've been trying to hear all year. Faith Hill simply doesn't ache the way a pedal steel aches. You can't wear "ragged angel wings" and be wrapped up in love. "Lavender Cowboy" might err on the side of preciousness, ceding a little raw power or a bit of grit to pure, tender loveliness, but that's what suckers me. I didn't watch Heated Rivalry but I did listen to a lot of podcasts discussing the relationship between the gay hockey romance show and its straight women fans and I'd venture what I like about "Lavender Cowboy" is operating within a similar dynamic. It sounds vulnerable and emotional in a way men often aren't -- more boyish and open-hearted. And yet, still lusty! It's "Desperado" made both explicit and delicate.



















