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Bruh every time someone tells me to meditate i start dissociating.
this is the funniest tweet iāve seen in months bye
these are all the geek equivalents of Lovecraftās Catās Name
his cats name couldnāt be that bad!!!! itās a cat, whatās the worst name?
i am wrong, what the fuck
Me every time this post comes back
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But seriously, please vote. Many states are not accepting ballots that arrive past November 3rd, and the postal service isnāt guaranteed to deliver on time now that itās less than a week out. Hereās a fun article giving the lowdown on ballot deadlines! Whether itās in person (with a mask!) or by absentee ballot, please make your voice heard! My website ā My Instagram
Do you think most asexual people understand how awful it is to date a sexual person without disclosing beforehand? It makes me wonder if a lot of asexual people understand how powerful sexuality is for sexual people. Most of us don't want relationships with people who just put up with sex. We want passionately enthusiastic sex partners. Being allowed to develop feelings for someone only to be told after the fact that sex is off the table is awful, it feels like being tricked.
are you seriously under the impression that ace ppl dont know that others prioritize sex
why do you think we struggle with trusting our autonomy, why do you think we hesitate to date others and come out to allo partners
and no, you are not being ~tricked~. you developed feelings for an ace person that doesnāt view sex the same way you do, thats part of them as a person, the same person you had feelings for in the first place, and if you actually respected them as a person thatās not a trick.Ā ābeing allowed to develop feelingsā are you kidding me what entitlement is this
yeah yeah passionate sex is what you want. but us ace people will stay concerned about our own safety and sexual rights before we begin to worry about your dating preferences. itd be nice if you people began meeting us in the middle :)
āTrickedā.
Holy shit thatās some grade A entitlement. Sure, itās disappointing to know youāre not compatible with someone, but they didnāt trick you by not telling you something intimidate about themselves.
As an allo partner to an asexual man - the kind of perspective that this anon is claiming to speak for - all I can add is that if your feelings for an asexual person vanish the second they wonāt fuck you in the exact way you want them to? If you feel ātrickedā or ālied toā because their sexual feelings arenāt up to your standards, or may not be compatible with yours?
You donāt love them. Not only do you not love them, but you never did.
If itās true love, then you will be able to talk about what to do next. If you honestly care about their sexual autonomy, then you will listen to them and take what they suggest on board and you will meet them in the middle, just like you would for any allosexual partner. You will check up with them regularly to see if things are still comfortable and okay in that area, you will respect their boundaries (and stand up for them if you see other people disrespecting them), and you will not hurt them over who they are. Discuss with them what you would like, yes, but do not force or pressure or manipulate.Ā
I hate that these are simple,Ā ādonāt abuse your fucking partnerā statements but it apparently, sadly, bears reminding for some people.
If they donāt want to have sex with you then of course itās up for you to decide if you still want to continue a relationship with them - you donāt have to remain in a relationship that doesnāt fulfil you or makes you unhappy. I understand the fear that it can cause - am I going over a boundary? Are they being honest about being okay with this? What if Iām hurting them and theyāre just not telling me? - and if youāre not used to the idea of someone having love but no desire, then it can certainly fuel some insecurities. If you really just canāt match well with an asexual person, then fair enoughā¦
ā¦But thatās not actually what anon is saying here - what theyāre saying is theyāre not only sad that an asexual person might not want to have sex with them despite them at least believing that thereās shared romantic feelings involved (which is honestly where thisĀ ātrickingā shit comes from, because creepers gonna creep apparently), but theyāre sad that any sex they might have with that asexual person wonāt be enthusiastic enough for their standards.
Thatās the sentence here that truly, deeply disgusts me:Ā āMost of us donāt want relationships with people who just put up with sex. We want passionately enthusiastic sex partners.ā I mean yeah, Iām disgusted by all of it, but people have noted above why theĀ ātrickingā comment smacks of entitlement - I want to really emphasise this sentence here aboutĀ āenthusiasmā andĀ āputting up with sexā because itās not just entitlement to a sexual act, itās entitlement to a specific sexual performance.
This person doesnāt just want sex with an asexual person, they want their ace partner to fake enthusiasm and sexual passion that they might not even have - during an act that they might not even enjoy. What the actual fuck is wrong with you, anon?
As I said, Iām dating an asexual man, and having discussed it - and weāve discussed it a lot over the years - weāve reached the compromise in which we do have sex. He is not passionately sexual, heās described it as being like folding laundry in terms of interestĀ - but he makes me laugh and he makes sure Iām feeling good, and he does it because he loves me. Why in the fuck would I complain about that? If he told me tomorrow that he never wants to touch me again then I will fucking deal with it because fucking him - much less trying to convince myself that he isnāt asexual - means so much less to me than loving him does, and I have done my best to let him know that.
Fuck off back to space, you absolute cock - you do not speak for me, or anyone else; just because you donāt understand or respect asexual people doesnāt mean they have to pretend to be someone else for you.
If not having hot, passionate sex with your partner is a deal breaker for you, then you should be the one to bring that up when you start dating someone. If you get to the point where you feel like youāre so attached to someone that breaking up with them over preferences in bed would break your heart, they didnāt trick you. You messed up by not having that conversation earlier. The only way they could possibly have tricked you is if they outright lied to you in that conversation (and note that thinking they were okay with something then realizing they werenāt is not lying).

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This is such an important and genuinely terrifying post. I could completely go off on the rise of anti-science, but for now Iāll just add: it isnāt just boomers that get deceived. This is a warning to all of us.
Pay ATTENTION to what you are being told. If you think you cannot be deceived, you leave yourself open to deception. Question, doubt, research research research. Learn about your personal biases, dig up any subconscious cognitive dissonance. Keep an eye on your mind.
It needs to be stressed that biases, not a lack of intelligence, is very much the issue here. Being aware of the need to fact check yourself is key: Intelligence wonāt protect you from bad or unhealthy mental states, or keep you safe from cults of any sort. Intelligence will just make it easier for you to rationalize and attempt to justify the malformed tools youāve taken/been given to yourself and others. You need to be wise enough to challenge yourself.
As a cult survivor, this is lethally accurate.
āThatās why high school, or a crappy job, or any other restrictive circumstance can be dangerous: They make dreams too painful to bear. To avoid longing, we hunker down, wait, and resolve to just survive. Great art becomes a reminder of the art you want to be making, and of the gigantic world outside of your small, seemingly inescapable one. We hide from great things because they inspire us, and in this state, inspiration hurts.ā
ā One of the best articles Iāve ever read. Rookie Mag. By Spencer Tweedy. (via wildyork)
pretty fucked up that cold drinks get hot while hot drinks get cold.. bitch stay at the temperature i put u at
The people in the notes whoāre insulting OP donāt understand introversion and feel offended by somebody suggesting being alone could be more interesting than being in their company.
*learns basic social skills well into my 20s that most people know by the time theyre like 11*
having strict parents will do that to you
Having autism will do that
Having ADHD will do that to you
Being a gifted (TM) kid isolated from your peers to Study At A Higher Level will do that to you
All of the above will do that to you

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I always love seeing this comic because it interprets Tumblr as a gigantic theater ruled by absolute chaos where sometimes somebody just stands up on their chair and shouts and we all pay attention