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when someone dislikes an acclaimed movie i love: you just enjoy being a contrarian
when i dislike an acclaimed movie: i'm the only one who can see the truth
Last week, the High Court of England and Wales ruled against a mother's appeal against a decision not allowing her to change the surname of her child. The child bears the surname of the father. The father raped and abused the mother, and threatened the child, the mother, and the child's grandparents. The child, who is 5, has not seen the father since late 2021, 4 years ago. The initial trial judge ruled that changing the child's surname would âconstitute a further rupture in the link she has to her father in a way that is not justified or proportionateâ (!) and that the surname "is a part of her identity and provides an important connection to her father and paternal heritage." The court refused to overturn this, arguing "no real prospect of success" in challenging the decision. What about the connection to the mother and her maternal heritage? The mother who is actually involved in raising her? The mother with whom she has an actual ongoing relationship and against whom no abuse is alleged? Rather than an abusive man she last saw as an infant? Charlotte Proudman, who represented the mother, said, "This is abusive, state-sanctioned harm. You are forcing a child to bear or to continue to retain the fatherâs surname, the man who raped her mother. That is abuse facilitated by the court."
âIn what world would a child want to have the name of a man who raped and abused the mother? How is that upholding important identity and links? Itâs really harmful. It just shows that a rapistâs rights are more important than [the] victim and a childâs right to freedom.â (Article in the Times on this, archived here)
Yes, it's very important to girls to maintain their identity as the product of rape. This has no negative impact on their psychological health whatsoever.
The expected experience of a woman (not being able to pass your surname onto your children) is considered irreparable harm and betrayal if done to a man.

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women: h-
men: she's clearly flirting with me, she's teasing me, she's inviting me
women: no-
men: you complete bitch i hate women i hope you die
society: i feel like she deserved this
i think a lot of younger teenagers who are against sex-based sports leagues haven't really grasped the strength difference yet. it's not a comfortable thing to understand, and its very tempting to deny it as long as you can.
Also, if they start questioning the difference in strength and bodies regarding sports then they also have to start questioning the difference in strength and bodies when it comes to dating and marriages and they're not ready to question the problems of hetero partnerships.
I always wonder if the people who refuse to acknowledge the strength gap between men and women are also in denial about rates of domestic violence? Do they know that DV is a mostly male-on-female issue? Because I knew that instinctively by the time I was in middle school, if not earlier.
And if they do--do they not wonder why women are so ill equipped to defend themselves when their male partners physically abuse them if male and female bodies are exactly the same?
Same with rape. Do they not wonder why women don't just easily fight off their male rapists, if they're just as strong as men? Do they think rape victims just didn't try hard enough?
In fact, why do they think men were able to oppress women at all? How do they think men established patriarichal rule at all if not with physical force? Do they think men are smarter than women? Or that women just wanted to be subjugated?
Idk I suppose the younger teenagers maybe haven't thought that deeply about this. But I've seen hundreds of adults making the same arguments for why women's sports shouldn't exist too and I always wonder what their explanation for these things are.
they don't consider this a problem because many of them genuinely believe that women and men abuse each other at similar rates. Despite this not being backed up by police, shelter or medical statistics, it has removed the need for critical thought, so they continue to spout it. Any time I put my foot down, I am told that my statistics are inaccurate and based on "a system where men cannot talk openly about the abuse they suffer".
There is no evidence for this, but the imaginary ranks of abused men are apparently a good enough argument.
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reminds me of a dateline episode i was listening to - they were trying to talk about a young girl who had been prostituted as a teenager, and despite her being a minor they still said that she was a "sex worker"
it's not *destigmatizing* to use language that actively harms victims. "work" implies that it's a choice, that it's a necessary thing happening to these girls/women that society just needs to accept. it completely erases the reality of what happens to women stuck in prostitution and how devastating and destructive it is to their lives
Itâs language that intentionally covers up and sanitizes the ugliness and the cruelty and the abuse and the crimes. Itâs a thought-terminating clichĂŠ, designed to be an easily repeatable slogan that makes you stop thinking critically and examining the subject further.
If youâre trying to talk about trafficked girls and your audience has someone in it who has been conditioned to believe the only morally upright and correct way to refer to any position in the sex trade is specifically as a âsex workerâ, then theyâre going to get up in arms about you referring to them as prostitutes or sex slaves, and youâre going to get derailed every time before you ever manage get to your point
That person is never going to hear about the child sex slaves, either because they interrupted the person trying to tell them about them to correct them on the terminology or because they were so steamed about it they stopped listening and labeled them a swerf, as if that actually means anything at all
Meanwhile theyâre literally serving pimps and traffickers agendas with the language theyâre choosing to use, simply because they like the sound of it better

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oh my fucking god doechii
lmao look at this Bad Woman being mocked and humiliated by liberal men. thank god that i, a Morally Good Woman with Correct Opinions, will never be in her place!
But just to make sure, Iâd better agree with everything liberal men say, even when they say âI really fucking love committing violence against womenâ
Men can not be rehabilitated, as psychologist Rebecca Myers found out after many years of hard work.
Rebecca Myers has dedicated her life to trying to change the most brutal of Britainâs serial rapists and abusers. When people hear that, they always want her to reveal the âworstâ thing she has heard.
Go on, they say, as though itâs an episode of The Killing or CSI. Myers, who is a forensic psychologist working with deviant criminals, will give away a few things, such as the fact that she canât look at a table knife casually left in the butter over breakfast after her prison housed a man who stabbed his girlfriend in the bath and left the knife behind, stuck in. Or that the theme tune to Coronation Street gives her chills. One of her first cases was a man who went on a three-year raping spree, breaking into the homes of single women while wearing an animal mask. On one occasion he hid behind the sofa of his next victim in his terrifying costume as she, oblivious and happy, watched her favourite soap opera.
The actual worst thing? She wonât tell me that â she is scared it will contaminate me too. âI have never told a soul, and never will.â Thatâs her job, to suffer so that others donât, to save other women.
One of the worst things she has heard wasnât exactly a crime. It was after a lifetime of getting into the heads of these men through a gruelling and expensive rehabilitation programme for sex offenders that thousands of male prisoners in this country undertook over a two-decade period, at a taxpayer cost of an estimated ÂŁ100 million. She personally started working with the Sex Offender Treatment Programme (SOTP) when she was 22, soon after she joined one of Britainâs most notorious prisons, known for the number of inmates convicted for sexual or violent offences. She worked with them, including the mask-wearing rapist, out of idealism and trust.
Then, in 2017, after Myers had spent 16 years on the front line of the SOTP, the results of a national evaluation came in. The SOTP didnât work. It was abruptly abandoned. She had spent so long attempting to change people who had done horrible things, and when they were released they went out and did them again at just the same rate as the men who hadnât attempted any change.
âIt was gutting,â Myers, now 49, says to me. âJust shocking. A massive disappointment to so many people that had invested decades of their lives, totally and utterly driven by wanting to stop these people from doing it again.â
has anybody else noticed how weird it is that psychology courses assume all of their students are 100% neurotypical and cannot possibly be diagnosed with any of the disorders they describe and by "weird" i mean extremely telling of the way the mentally ill are categorized as the other
The same way that education courses assume that everyone who is a teacher or wants to be one is 100% non-disabled and would NEVER understand what itâs like to be a special education student. And then, in the professional world, the same adults who work as special education teachers and admin aggressively bully and shame disabled/neurodiverse adults out of the industry for being too âdifficultâ to work with.
[zero drinks in on a Wednesday night] Do you think the shame and fear ever go away . Would yuo like to kill me

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Sorry but I will no longer get mad at female celebrities unless theyâve done something that I know for sure would get a man in an equal amount of trouble. Popular culture is nothing less than the public arena for female humiliation and Iâm not participating anymore.
Here are just a FEW of the things I am not going to be mad at female celebrities about! <3
- Being rich
- Being out of touch
- Dating someone who I would not date
- Being rude
- Saying something a little stupid
- Not being properly media trained or behaving badly in an interview
- Making a bad album, having a bad performance, no longer being at her creative peak, or generally just not being my personal cup of tea in terms of artistry
- Aging
- Getting plastic surgery
- Being in a feud with a different celebrity who I happen to like better than her
- Seeming like someone I wouldnât personally want to hang out with
- Having bad taste
Show me a male artist who has gotten an equal amount of vitriol and dehumanizing insults for these things and Iâll take it off the listâ¤ď¸â¤ď¸