very abnormal about dimitri fire emblem

not to be a killjoy but it's still crazy to me that it's considered mean to be like "maybe you should read / play / watch the source material before creating fanworks and diving into the fandom" bc every time i see somebody going "i havent played disco elysium or know anything about it tbh but uwu here's harry and kim kissing" idk maybe you should engage with it. maybe you should play the anti-capitalist surrealist game where you investigate the murder of a mercenary who led the gang rape of a foreign girl and process that for a bit? and then you can do cutesy mlm or whatever idc. but like at the absolute bare minimum you should understand what the source material involves otherwise we get the phenomenon of people joining a dragon age server and wanting content warnings for like, mage racism. like it's fine to ship and transform the genre into whatever but if you arent comfortable with discussions of the actual source content itself then maybe the fandom isnt for you and a different one is. peace and love.

I've written at length about the inherently performative and neo-puritanical nature of DNI culture and the stigma and vitriol around the term "proship", including their ties to fascist dogma, historical violence, and anti-queer sentiment but none of it sums up the issue better than this one line written without a drop of irony. "I don't know what this is and openly admit the definition is purposefully so vague that anyone can fall under it when necessary, but it's required that I loudly and even violently condemn it or else I will be labeled as part of the morally degenerate" It's not about safety. It's not even about telling anyone that they shouldn't interact with you. It truly, truly, just exists to loudly exclaim "I AM PART OF THE CORRECT MORAL GROUP BY DECRYING THE INCORRECT MORAL GROUP". You don't need to know what "the incorrect moral group is". In fact, trying to find out is taboo in and of itself. You just have to hate it.

The DNI mindset of "curating my experience is everybody else's problem, not mine; it's not my job to avoid or block things that upset me but their job to take care to never interact with me in the first place" is certainly not a great mindset to start from.

We all need to get a LOT more comfortable doing this.

i love writing porn and i wont feel bad about it. understanding the eroticism of a character is character analysis if u are enlightened.

i love you porn i love you smut i love you intricacies of human sexuality i love erotica i love you freak nasty walls of texts i love you analyzing the subconscious through the lens of sexuality i love you bdsm i love you weird fetishes . u move me

everyone get less afraid of disabled people + nudity 2025

proship community reblog if you hate AI

idk how much of a hot take this is, but porn artists dont make fandom look bad. If you think porn makes something bad that’s something for you to unpack.

Begging some proshippers to understand that just because they're a stupid anti, it doesn't excuse you to be fatphobic/be an asshole because of things caused by mental disorders/etc towards them. I saw a post on twt about a 13 yo anti complaining about proshippers being on the selfship community, and yeah, that's beyond stupid. I know. Yeah. But I saw some people who were mad commenting on their s/i with stuff like "does the ground shake when you walk." You have all the right to be angry, but by doing that you're no different from antis who say stuff like "l0licons are fat balding men who live on their mothers basement and dont shower". You're nothing but a pathetic performative activist.