Horrorosa

My two youngest brothers are disabled, and my mother is their caretaker. She cannot work due to that, and the gov recognizes it (and that it costs them less than if she had put them in an institution), so she receives disability aid equating to a salary she can't make otherwise. So with my father's salary, that made two (low) incomes. I myself had to part with my previous online job that decided not to pay me (and still owe me 600€ since MARCH), and my online therapy appointments are currently extremely low due to mostly working with students who take (understandable) breaks during summer.

I am currently job hunting to make a more liveable income and move out of my parent's house for many reasons (some because it has become unliveable for me, psychologically, but also to lessen the load on the household), but so far it has been fruitless.

The problem: my brothers are reaching an age where the type of aid they can receive changes, and we had to renew everything. We did so in time (last december), but the administration has been awfully slow + we moved houses in the meantime. Now we're trying our best to have the situation taken care of, but since it's summer, most administrations are closed, or the person taking care of it is not here, etc. It's been a nightmare of calls, emails, letters, and we're still without news from some services. Some things should finally move towards the 18th of august, but the decision must be first favorable to us (since we need to give proof of disability all the time, even if it was proven again and again already), and then the time for the decision to be sent to the proper administration, processed, then in payment, it could be as far as at the end of September, to be back to normal.

On top of it, my father has had a good chunk of his salary taken off (500€), on top of some money off due to holidays (he's a teacher). Similarly, we won't have any answer as to why this money was taken off his salary until the national education administration is back from vacation.

So yeah, the situation is frustratingly stuck, but we know it's mostly temporary. But in the meantime, we need to survive. So I'm calling for help.

I have been avoiding taking comms to prevent an overload, but if push comes to shove, I'll open a few slots.