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I think the thing about establishing a healthy habit is so many people sabotage themselves by going into preparation overload. When you’re first starting out your goal should be reducing friction as much as possible, not adding to it. Like if you want to work out more your first order of business shouldn’t be going to the store and buying fancy workout equipment fits etc. That just adds friction. You want it to be as simple as possible because establishing a new habit is already uncomfortable. We should be reducing friction from habits we want to establish and adding friction to things we want to drop, like our phone use. This is literally how they design phones btw. They make it incredibly easy to check your phone by reducing friction with how they design their apps. So to combat that we need to introduce friction back into those harmful habits

You - white queer person who goes on and on about protecting black trans fems - Do you have black trans fem friends? What about black nonbinary friends or black trans masculine friends? Do you have any black friends? If you live in a predominantly white area and feel like you don't have many chances to build community with black people offline do you still engage with black art, even when no one's looking? Do you read black literature for your own enjoyment? Do you actively engage with anti-racist politics and challenge your fellow white people? Do you see black trans fems as human beings that you share community with or are they an abstract concept that exist at an arms length away from you? Because it's good to say you care but are your words aligning with your actions off the internet and outside of online public scrutiny where no one is watching you perform or is it all just lip service?

You should loudly boo every Democrat who attacks Trump’s deal with Iran for being too Iran-friendly. Any deal to end this war is a good deal. I do not care that we are returning the assets we stole from them. Cry about it. If you don’t want to make concessions to a country you consider an adversary, don’t start pointless wars with them and kill schools full of their children

Not to be that guy but I don’t love the like post draft media / photo shoot stuff for players being them pretending to put on makeup for most of them

Like idk man it’s crazy I’m looking at every PWHL teams instagram and I don’t see a single highlight reel for any of the players picked including first round players but I do see them pretending to put on lip gloss and mascara. Now that I’m not hyperfocusing on what picks are coming up next this is pissing me off more. What the hell

Also crazy that Kyle Cushman has several minute long highlight packages for every player drafted including the ones he didn’t have ranked ready to go but the pwhl social media team didn’t. How is one guy running circles around you

Look, when I've been doing my Red Riding Hood asks, I've kept coming across the fourth and fifth one and I just had to find out where it was from, because that wolf is terrifying. Sooo cool.