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personally I think if your first response to "have you considered transitioning" is to list the ways women are expected to perform in society that you don't want to be expected to comply with, what you need is estrogen plus feminism, not more experience with makeup
like girl let's be be so for real right now none of the dykes I know are shaving for anybody. that is not a mandatory task. you could be so free all you have to do is reach out and take it my friend
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Thank you for standing by my family. I know I keep asking, but your donations are what keeps us alive, especially after the recent bombing that injured everyone. Our sole focus now is saving my brother Samer. Securing his vital medications and evacuating him for treatment is our only hope. Please share our story and encourage others to help @hazemsuhail
absolutely. if anyone has the means please help samer 🤲🏼 even £5 adds up
christ where can i find a "we hate the pigs" shirt around here
i just don’t think “is dude gender neutral” is that productive of a conversation because a word can be gendered and still used regardless of gender. i call my male friends girlypop and my female friends man but i don’t think anybody would agree that those are somehow not gendered terms.
the real question is just “would you be willing to apologize and stop using a word if somebody told you it made them uncomfortable?” the answer to which in a surprising number of cases is no mostly because it seems like overall ppl r more upset abt getting accused of transphobia than they are abt being transphobic
actually pigs shouldn't be at pride even outside of uniform. fuck those guys
if you decide to become a police officer then that outweighs any other marginalised identity you can rustle up like. not sorry, who asked you to willingly become a pig
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being disabled and lgbt is such a horrible curse because you will see the most ableist take on earth online and you're like "oh surely this is some right-wing fascist loser" and then you look at the person who said it and there's pronouns in their bio. and it's like, how did we get here? but the reality is that a lot of abled people (and often disabled people who are intolerant of different disabilities) are just not even willing to confront the idea that they are capable of punching down on other marginalized groups
like i don't know who needs to hear this but you are Not as progressive as you think you are if you're saying stuff like the R slur, "jobless behavior", making fun of nonverbal people, mocking physical differences, using psychotic as an insult, or calling people "lazy" for using disability aids. even if you're gay!
pspspsps other disabled people of colour can you reply or tag this with something so i can find yous to follow
happy pride month! remember to include intersex people in art, merch, and content! remember to include intersex people in talk of bodies and sex ed. remember to be open to adjusting your vocabulary if learning something you said is intersexist, try your best to communicate not simply shut down at anyone who educates you
and remember that perisex people can not "transition" or "become" intersex simply because they want to. transintersex is not pride, that is claiming a minorities trauma and discrimination as your own. to imply perisex people can transition into being intersex also implies that intersex people can become perisex. which makes medical intersexism, igm, forced horomones or other methods seem like they can "work". not a great look to, indirectly or directly, support the wrong belief of those situations
any i see using those tags that isn't specifically meaning an intersex person who happens to be trans as well will be blocked. yippeeeee 🎉🎉🎉 - ❔️
the ocd thing™ of wanting to say something but you refuse to because ur brain convinces you that someone is watching you closely and is waiting for the right moment to strike and somehow use whatever you wanted to say against you so you end up putting it into drafts
yall ever lose interest in something so you stop seeking out content for it and your brain will be like. wow its so crazy that that thing used to be everywhere and then everyone stopped talking about it. so crazy that it fell off like that because nobody is talking about it on my personal curated social media and youtube algorithms. surely no other factors here.
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forgotten middle child syndrome the number 68 stuck between her funny number siblings 67 and 69. is this anything.
im bad to argue with because i have jesters blood if you misintepret me i'll just go along with it. when i was a teenager i was trying to explain the concept of the heterosexual default to someone and they were like "so you think everyone should become bisexual?" and i was like. what the hell sure. lets have legally enforced bisexuality. i'll die on a hill for the bit dont fuck with me.
Amazing how the difference between having fancy culinary little treats and eating unhinged goblin bullshit is just having nice ingredients at hand. Like ooh look at me, I'm making myself porridge sweetened with brown sugar and raisins, with a dash of cinnamon and bit of vanilla in there, because I happened to have those around and was craving something sweet.
In different pantry circumstances, I'd be eating jam straight out of the jar with a spoon.
Having a bowl of frozen peach slices with a drizzle of honey on top. The peach slices were supposed to go into a sorbet making attempt that I gave up on. It may seem and feel like a fancy little treat, but I am straight-up eating ingredients.
hey. if you want to actually change minds, don't be unkind to the people you're trying to convince. or you CAN but in most scenarios you'll alienate a potential ally. what matters more to you? taking your anger out on someone? or helping them actually understand the situation at hand?
"wow you're fucking stupid OBVIOUSLY x isn't y. can you learn to read or something" <- changes no minds, the person you're talking to will struggle to agree with you because by extension they would have to agree that they're stupid for being wrong, total happiness for everyone involved is through the FLOOR. in the NEGATIVES. no one wins, even if you feel good in the moment.
but....
"hey there, I understand that you're very passionate about this, but the most recent studies out there show that x isn't y. I just wanted to let you know, because you clearly care a lot about the subject!" <- I have seen this change minds firsthand, it's easier for the person to agree with you because they're not feeling defensive over an insult, and total happiness for everyone involved either stays the same or goes UP. everyone wins. if they're still being silly about it, at least you can walk away knowing that you tried. and often times, even if they show no change in the moment, that kind of interaction stays with people. they'll ruminate on it. you might have helped incite a later change of heart.
all that being said, conserve your energy and efforts. if someone repeatedly shows that they have no intention of considering any of your words, disengage! walk away! you CAN change minds but you CAN'T change everyone. "is this a constructive use of my time?" is a question worth asking yourself when you catch yourself talking to someone who is attempting to animorph into a brick wall. patience and kindness are awesome weapons but you do have to pick your battles. [:
hot tip: when someone else makes a post about disability don't reblog it with an addition that boils down to "this makes me understand why people commit suicide". that's an inside thought, or a separate post even.
a friend of a friend died by suicide a few weeks ago. he was trans and homeless and the police had been relentlessly harassing him/his crew and then he died. the pigs harassed his funeral too with lights and sirens, and the people who went there for his funeral at their hotel. this sort of relentless legal harassment, denial of humanity and rights, and being at the mercy of people in power is, understandably extremely difficult to live with. but i can't be going around on other trans people's posts saying how i understand why people kill themselves because of their experiences. even if i'm also trans, even if they're talking about something really grim. it's just so insensitive and conveys the message that you really think they should die. it's like worse than straight up saying kys because it's working backwards from establishing the idea that it just makes perfect sense that they'd be dead. and that's such a fucking grim thing to say to someone.
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I don’t know who needs this sign: don’t kill yourself. I love you.
when people tag posts "unreality" it's a signal to people who struggle with discerning reality that a (likely scary if believed to be true) post is not real even though it's written as if it was. it's also a filter tag so those people can opt out of seeing posts like that entirely. many people who rely on the unreality tag are psychotic and struggle with paranoia alongside (or because of) the struggles discerning what's real. posts that these people interpret to be real can lead to incredible distress and compulsions.
when someone tags your post "#unreality" and you screenshot the tags and say "what are you talking about? this is real" because you consider the post easy to discern as not real and find this joke funny you're actually just causing paranoia for people who now feel like they can't trust the unreality tag. not everyone has the same reality discernment skills as you. what's "obviously" a fictional story to you may not be obvious to other people.
I don't think most people make this joke maliciously. I think most people making this joke don't even realize why the unreality tag exists. anyways, if you've made this joke or have the urge to make this joke then consider not doing that.
