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when a trans man dies because his murderer wanted him to be a woman and his masculinity defied that, regardless of how much misogyny motivated his murder, that man still died because he was a man. because he refused to call himself woman when he was told that was his place.
many men would not be dead if we could simply hold our tongue and our breath and our life closed by continuing to be woman. but many men can’t. trying to do that kills us slowly. when we shed off that lie we can instead, at least, die violently, quickly, brutally, and then have our murder counted in femicide statistics without anyone recognizing that a man died because he dared to be a man
systemic or nonsystemic, the personal prejudices people have against trans masculinity and female masculinity is ultimately for their masculinity and not for their “failure to perform femininity”. we can perform femininity as much as we want and transphobes will still kill us because we dared grasp for a label they do not want us to have.
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Alright, so I'm finally making the post that I originally created this blog to make after reading this excellent post on @waterlilyworld's blog, and that I changed my mind about making almost immediately. This post will constitute in some thoughts I have about the whole "klansfem" phenomenon, even in its less extreme manifestations when the white trans woman in question was just a regular chud before transitioning, and not outright a nazi.
First of all, a select few screenshots from LBR, the post that finally made me decide to actually write this after all. I think it was finally a sign, after people have been yelling in my askbox for days about the whole "chud to transfem" phenomenon.
It's abundantly clear to me that these women were somewhere on the spectrum from casual chud to full on white supremacist before transitioning and went directly into "leftist politics" without an inbetween step, which is why they'll use words like "privilege" and "intersectionality" and "oppressor" but have absolutely zero feminist or antiracist beliefs behind that extremely flimsy posturing.
I believe we are now at a secondary stage of "4chan to transfem pipeline" pipeline. Before 2020-ish, even the white, previously-straight transfems who had no female, queer or non white friends and potentially edgy politics used to have to pass through the gauntlet of resocializing in LGBT+, feminist and generally progressive spaces, where if they were sexist, racist, homophobic etc. they would have to learn to, pardon my French, tone that shit down, at least to a mildly tolerable level.
It seems that in recent years a small faction of white transfems have finally rebelled to this situation, which they view as an intolerable humiliation of the transfeminine psyche at the hands of the sadistic "minorities" or "straggots" or "TERF-socialized foids" or whatnot, and sought to reform the trans community, and ultimately the LGBT+ community and feminism as a whole, according to a politic that embraces (and imposes on the rest of us to embrace) the "transfeminine chud" instead of seeking to change her, as changing her is doing her violence.
Essentially, it is trying - and to a certain extent it has succeeded! - to create a new type of (white) transfeminine subjectivity, one that does not need to pass through the indignity of admitting past faults and harmful beliefs, and is even free to continue engaging in toxic, racist, misogynistic, homophobic, in some cases outright fascistic behaviors, beliefs, and aesthetics, now re-semantized as "(t)girl-ness". The irony is that the incel-to-tgirl pipeline is something that many of these women will openly discuss explicitly as a means of recruiting more "eggs" who are exactly like them and are specifically chosen for their ability to turn into such a "tgirl". The goal seems to be to "make" so many of these girls that they end up being correct in asserting that this is intrinsically what transfemininity *is*, in a sort of self-fulfilling prophecy, so as to retroactively render all criticism of their behavior a criticism of transfemininity itself.
Ten years ago, a Warhammer 40K obsessed gun and military uniform nerd with an anime loli icon would get instantly recognized by most women, people of color, and queer people online as someone to block immediately and steer well clear of. In 2026, that describes a good 2/3rd of this website's most prominent voices on "feminism" and "anti-imperialism".
Final note: I want to make it clear that I myself am white and I do not consider white transmasculine people, or indeed white trans/non binary people of any other type, to hold any less white privilege than white transfems. We absolutely do, we should be taken to task when we are racist in words or deed, and we oppress people of color no less than white transfems do. That includes cis people of color, to be quite frank, though some fellow white trans people might take offens with me saying this. In fact, while we're stating things frankly, I sincerely believe that most white trans people are more privileged by whiteness than we are oppressed by transness (though of course in the real world it's hard to mathematically quantify things like that - this is more of a belief I have based on general observation.) I have said it before and I'll say it again, the most accurate prescriptor for negative outcomes as a trans person isn't being transmasc, transfem, or nonbinary, it's being racialized, by several orders of magnitude.
My reason for focusing on a specific phenomenon of white transfemininity in this post isn't to imply that white transmascs or other kinds of white trans people are better or less intrinsically racist or whatever. It's to describe a specific phenomenon that is, to the best of the evidence that has presented itself to me, almost entirely exclusive to white transfeminine people. This can be, I believe, summarily proven by the fact that the original sign (whose message I agree with for the record) said "White trans people are oppressors too!", and yet the absurdly racist, at times outright fascistic outraged response has been almost exclusively done by white transfems. Forgive me for not beating around the bush about this. After seeing a white trans woman and self admitted actual real life former Gamergater trigger a mutual of mine temporarily off the site by accusing him of being a bloodthirsty violent man looking to gun trans women down in the street, I'm not feeling particularly diplomatic.
i was recently reminded of this woman i saw on tiktok sometime in this last year or so who was talking about how she had heard from other trans women how wonderful it is to date trans men, she goes on to express her upset because we’re never interested in her, and she asks where are the trans men who want to date the dolls. her comments were flooded with hundreds of trans men talking about how much they adore trans women and love to date trans women. she makes a follow up video. she says you misunderstand me, i am looking for a real man. all of you are nice but you’re all too feminine. where are the trans men who look like real men.
and yet she wonders why we have no interest in her, it must be because trans men don’t want to date trans women, the fault must be with us. the concept that it could be because of her doesn’t even cross her mind.
she was not asking for trans men who love trans women, she was asking for a completely cis passing, patriarchal man, who happened to share transsexuality with her.
and this thought has bumped into another thought in my head, about these trans women who say they are simply women asking for support from the men in their community. a deeply understandable request that i see trans men meet with joy on the regular, gusto even. and yet, they look around and go, no trans man is supporting us, no trans man is supporting me. and i’ve stopped in my tracks in this moment because, support isn’t whats being asked, is it. that’s why the support given is dismissed entirely. what’s being really asked for is worship. it’s servitude. and anything less is seen as a failure at our social duties of chivalry. a failure of our manhood. a failure to uphold our side of the patriarchal bargain it has been implicitly assumed we must have agreed to in the first place.
a third thought has been bumped into. the few trans men these women do surround themselves with, are without a doubt, in every instance i have seen, viscously misogynistic towards other trans men and transmasculine people, and deeply benevolently sexist towards trans women. that is what is given the seal of approval. that is what is required. anything less than looking up, anything less than that high pedestal that unconditional worship guarantees will never crack and fall, anything less than feet kissed and sexual favors freely given, anything less than a doormat, a punching bag, a sex toy, is akin to community abandonment to them.
these are not feminists. these are patriarchal trans people who believe that their transsexuality inherently makes the misogynistic structures they partake in progressive and radical. but they are nothing more than dime store lackeys to the patriarchy, and frankly, should be dismissed accordingly.
I have a theory about this, actually, at least when it comes to white trans women (who by and large seem to be the biggest offenders when it comes to this type of behavior). It's something that's very difficult to put to words without sounding like a raging asshole but I do think there's some merit to it. My theory is that the reason so many white trans women—particularly young, freshly out of the closet, chronically online trans women—are Like That™ is because they are scrambling to regain the protection of white maleness they weren't aware they were forfeiting by transitioning.
The protection whiteness provides to a cisgender white man is fundamentally different from the protection whiteness provides to a cisgender white woman. This isn't to say that the protection of white maleness is unconditional, because it isn't. But the fundamental difference is that, at the end of the day, white AMAB people are born with the protection of whiteness. They can lose that protection by failing to comply with societal expectations, but it is still something they lose. And, a white cisgender man will never lose all of the protections of being a white cisgender man, despite what many white cis gay and neurodivergent men will tell you.
On the other hand, white AFAB people are not automatically born with the protection of whiteness. Instead, white AFAB people have to earn the protection of whiteness by complying with their own oppression through gender-conforming behavior (IE Not Being Queer Or Trans Or Fat Or.........) and, critically, by wielding the power of white supremacy and patriarchy against others, primarily queer people and people of color. But because white women are by and large conditioned from birth to earn that protection, you never see a white cisgender woman in the wild who doesn't have it, at least to some extent.
What that means is that your average white trans woman in all likelihood has no idea that the white cisgender women around her are playing a completely different game. The white trans woman has been raised to believe that the game is simple: comply with your gender role, and you'll be fine. She doesn't want to comply with the white male gender role anymore, but that's okay; if she sinks all of her time and energy and resources into transitioning into a perfect example of the white female gender role, she will be treated just like a cisgender white woman, with all of the power and privilege of whiteness that cis men have (except, y'know, the normal misogyny that white women willingly endure day to day in order to hold onto white privilege).
The problem is that that's not how it works. For trans people, once the cat's out of the closet, there's no reversing it. White supremacy and patriarchy will never accept a trans person, no matter how perfectly they comply with their gender role, because that's not how the game works. A trans woman will always be seen as a man who forfeited manhood, and a trans man will always be seen as a woman who failed at womanhood. (Note the use of forfeited vs. failed; that matters.)
So now you have a bunch of white trans women who are realizing that transitioning isn't all it was cracked up to be in the sense that they aren't being accepted as white women, no matter how hard they try to play the role, and they're all finding each other online and sharing their experiences. And because they're white, they think that being denied all of the power and privileges they think other white women have as their birthright is the highest form of oppression a human can experience. When in reality, those white cis women were always in a much more precarious situation than white cis men and are just collectively really really good at not rocking the boat, a boat the white trans woman will never be able to board to begin with.
And, because compliance isn't working for these white trans women the way they thought, they move right along to step 2, which is to wield the white privilege that they do still have (because they do still have some! just not as much as they thought they would, which to a white person is the same thing as being oppressed!) against other queer people and people of color. The end result: a generation of chronically online white trans women who think and act like tradwife mean girls.
Since razortouched, scourgefell, and transandrogorgon have gotten deleted in the span of a week or two, I'd advise everyone to start archiving your post to a dedicated blog just in case, or otherwise make sure you can track them down on other people's blogs. Especially if you have longer, more researched posts or otherwise "resource" posts (including screenshots/receipts - these seem to be targeted these specifically.)
Also, double check if any posts on your blog (even non original posts i.e. reblogs) have been spuriously reported as mature content and contest the claim. This has happened to a couple of my posts, I noticed entirely by accident that they had been classified as mature content (even if they contained only texts and screenshots of text posts) and have contested the claim (Tumblr is now evaluating my counter-claims.) I suspect marking a high enough number of posts on a certain blog as mature and then reporting the entire blog for violating standards might be the course of action that is being taken to taking blogs in the "transandrophobia" sphere down, though this is only my supposition and I could be wrong.
If anyone has any information or has had something like this happen to them, please comment or send me a DM/ask (I would prefer non-anonymous asks in this case, you can ask me to not publish or keep you anonymous. Or use anon if you must but I'll take you with a grain of salt in that case.)
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amazing how we are to understand that the transfeminists face an undue amount of criticism and struggle to get traction and are eternally silenced meanwhile there's like four blogs that i know of with single digit notes posting about transandrophobia that have been nuked in the last four days after they got the ire of twitter transfeminists screenshotting them. it's all a numbers game when it comes to reporting and granted there are dynamics there re: how easy it is to mobilise numbers against certain groups but safe to say if you're trans, period, and express an opinion sufficiently divergent from the community overton window you'll get mass reported into oblivion no matter how obscure you are; we are to understand that transfems are uniquely vulnerable to tumblr staff nuking them as opposed to it being blanketwide trans people, but i don't really see any noted transfeminists having to worry about groups on twitter mobilising against them like this over single digit note posts that get crossposted to transandrophobia groups on twitter constantly combing the tags for targets! the transandrophobia corpus is so atomised that you can do single target elimination shit like this and have it hurt. there's so many 'transfeminists' now that if they lose a blog then they can pretty quickly recover their posts and get back to it, and they have a lot of shared reference material maintained on big blogs that simply isn't at risk in the same way that posts here are. the people doing this understand this and are consciously exploiting it
the transandrophobia corpus is so atomised that you can do single target elimination shit like this and have it hurt. The people doing this understand this and are consciously exploiting it
amazing how we are to understand that the transfeminists face an undue amount of criticism and struggle to get traction and are eternally silenced meanwhile there's like four blogs that i know of with single digit notes posting about transandrophobia that have been nuked in the last four days after they got the ire of twitter transfeminists screenshotting them. it's all a numbers game when it comes to reporting and granted there are dynamics there re: how easy it is to mobilise numbers against certain groups but safe to say if you're trans, period, and express an opinion sufficiently divergent from the community overton window you'll get mass reported into oblivion no matter how obscure you are; we are to understand that transfems are uniquely vulnerable to tumblr staff nuking them as opposed to it being blanketwide trans people, but i don't really see any noted transfeminists having to worry about groups on twitter mobilising against them like this over single digit note posts that get crossposted to transandrophobia groups on twitter constantly combing the tags for targets! the transandrophobia corpus is so atomised that you can do single target elimination shit like this and have it hurt. there's so many 'transfeminists' now that if they lose a blog then they can pretty quickly recover their posts and get back to it, and they have a lot of shared reference material maintained on big blogs that simply isn't at risk in the same way that posts here are. the people doing this understand this and are consciously exploiting it
Reminded that “socialization” theory, or whichever name you want to call it by, is the way the modern feminist movement managed to argue (for the first time in human history) that the oppression of women was not rooted in nature but in nurture in a misogynisitic culture.
Like I cannot stress enough how being asked to drop the idea that being assigned and raised female socializes you in a certain way is not just to ask people to close an eye and say a small white lie in order to spare people’s feelings, it is to drop a bomb that has the power to undo all of feminism on a molecular level.
From the comments: “the resistance towards socialization as a theory is so bizarre to me because saying you don't believe it's real is basically admitting to being a bioessentialist. It's literally the ONE thing that is NOT bioessentialism! Plus it's frustrating to read so many posts positing their main argument as: ‘Socialization doesn't exist, because instead of being rewarded for fitting the gender roles expected of me specifically because of my body, I was PUNISHED for NOT fitting them!’ Like, being punished for NOT following a rule is a pretty solid way of admitting the rule exists. Because. Not following the rule incurs social punishment...”
I desperately need trans people whose only engagement with other trans people comes from Tumblr to understand that yes, actually, the shitty people on this website are a vocal minority because so many trans people — ESPECIALLY trans people over the age of 30 — ARE SIMPLY NOT ON TUMBLR DOT COM AND ARE NOT ENGAGING WITH ANY OF THIS PERPETUALLY ONLINE RAGE BAIT!!!!!!
I can't even count the number of times I have explained this discourse to other trans people who are not on Tumblr or not online really at all and they've gone "Oh. that's stupid. we're supposed to be a unified community, that sounds like unnecessary division".
You're on the mentally ill inflammatory queer young person website. I promise there's more to the trans community than a bunch of people who are predominantly under 30 yelling at each other all the time. You are experiencing the minority. It just seems bigger than it is because you're in a space where it is concentrated.
Not even over the age of forty. In terms of geo location, the harder the trans people have it, the more united they are (I say this not out of malice, but genuine belief. I live in an conservative African country - we don't do that here)
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a lot of these sexist tgirls seem to have heavily bought into the radfeminist idea that one cannot have a male socially-imposed-sex without also being a sex pest and instead of trying to combat the idea that being born with a penis, testes makes someone ontologically selfish, cruel, and evil, they’ve decided instead that they’re Fundamentally Different from cis men, who are unrepentant predators, unlike the pure and uncontaminated tgirls who never benefited from any of the privileges of their birth sex and could never be sexist because there is no institutionally oppressed sex, there is only Transmisogyny.
personally speaking im extremely sick of it all
yeah and then the next step is that they deflect the idea of the Biologically Evil Male onto trans mascs via like brain sex or some concept of divine gender identity. which is how you get them making up fantasies about a trans man husband watching football while his trans woman wife cooks a 3 course meal and cleans up afterwards lmao.
How it feels to be red on "Disobedient Bitch Detector" for mentioning how being ushered into the Domestic Rape Servant category immediately upon birth makes life a bit difficult for you
ntm the benevolently misogynistic role of men as the defenders of poor helpless women whose role is solely to be vulnerable victims in society... women and men are subject to different versions of putting aside their own needs for others, and trans men are hit by them both in this way
transmisogyny isn't 'girl transphobia' but also transmascs can't use that term ever. transfems are hypervisible but also transmascs are the 'default' trans. transmascs are lazy whining children but they're also running every lgbtq+ society on earth. society is systematically transphobic but also sees trans men as men and gives them male privilege. people afab can fall back on their agab for privilege but people amab never can.
and transmascs dominate trans and queer culture because of their male privilege but also they have contributed absolutely nothing to any culture ever because they're inherently worse and less creative than cis people and transfems
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Listen idk if this is some type of kink shit but this is absurdly insensitive, considering the state of the fucking world
Type of shit they say to us down at the asylum ('Correctional Women's Facility') while pumping electric shocks.
'the shocks aren't going to stop till you're in a dress with your nails painted'. For fucks sake this is a real method of conversion therapy, not your fucking haha moment.
theres definitely an idea in the trans community that trans men are uniquely privileged in both their ability to access transition and to pass as cis men with "less" treatments (hormones, surgery, voice training, ect) than trans women, and thats not true. in fact a lot of trans men end up never transitioning for one reason or another. id like to take a moment to acknowledge and remember all the trans men who never transitioned due to transphobia, transandrophobia, misogyny, financial underprivilege, or otherwise never having or seeing it as an option in the first place. including my biological mother apparently
preface: I'm not saying this all to compare struggles but to show that the assertion that our transition is "less" is just untrue.
- breast growth is a natural consequence of estrogen therapy. when trans women get top surgery at all, it is usually augmentation, which is generally minimally invasive and produces minimal scarring due to small incision size, depending on the procedure the patient chooses.
- in contrast, most trans men are not good candidates for minimal-scarring top surgery techniques and the most common procedure (double incision) involves two 6"+ incisions which usually require drains afterwards, and grafts or more complex incisions if the patient wants to keep their nipples.
- neovaginaplasty is generally a one- or two-stage operation which does not necessarily require flaps/grafts (for penile inversion, though other methods can be more complex).
- phalloplasty almost always requires at least two and possibly 3 or more staged operations, meaning the timeline can be a year or longer from the first procedure to the finished result to allow for healing between stages, and RFF (most common donor graft site) requires physical therapy to regain circulatory and motor function in the arm the graft came from. complications can involve loss of motor function or sensation of the hand.
- orchiectomy is an outpatient office procedure that only requires local anaesthetic and has a low rate of complications.
- hysterectomy is a major surgery requiring general anaesthesia or spinal nerve block and can result in complications such as significant blood loss, damage to nerves controlling urinary function, bowel perforation, etc.
- freezing sperm for future use is fairly straightforward, painless, and does not involve exogenous hormones if the patient has not already undergone HRT for an extended period. this can then be used to artificially inseminate a partner or surrogate at a later date, a process with a high success rate and low risk.
- freezing eggs for future use involves the administration of large doses of FSH and LH which in turn causes estrogens to spike in the patient, which may cause mood changes, cramps, and dysphoria. then a needle is inserted via the vaginal wall to harvest the eggs. lastly, actually reproducing using those frozen eggs requires IVF, which is considerably more expensive and complex than artificial insemination.
again, there are plenty of things about trans women's transition healthcare that are harder, and I'm not going to pretend it's as simple as one or the other group having an objectively worse time, but it's really easy to cherry pick if your agenda is to play oppression olympics.
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