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And by your definition of "tme" that would include every single person who isnt "amab"

Then you are calling for the death of every person who isnt "amab."

This is what I think about every time I see a trans femme claiming she was falsely accused, knowing how rare false accusations are, how likely is it that she was falsely accused VS she just doesn't realise what she did was abusive because she had that behaviour normalised to her as a child? 🤔

Abusers don't think they're abusers

Rapists don't think they're rapists

We understand that with cis men this is because they have been socialised to not understand consent and with entitlement to sex/other's bodies and so they often genuinely don't believe themselves to be engaging in abuse...this social conditioning and phenomenon just magically evaporates the second someone declares that they were raised under the wrong gender construct though??

This is why we have so many trans femmes on here engaging in outright sexual harrassment, violent threats/fantasies and rape apology without it being called out for the vile behaviour it is

Time to live in reality.

If you're a trans femme who genuinely worries about if you're a predator or not then this doesn't apply to you as you're not likely to be engaging in fucked behaviour since you actually introspect on your ability to do so

If you're a trans femme who believes trans femmes couldn't have possibly picked up any negative, patriarchal learned behaviours during their childhoods and are perfect angels incapable of harm and wrong doing...you should definitely have a think on this...all the trans femmes I've seen claiming to have been falsely accused (including one who raped and assaulted me multiple times) have fallen into this category and not the latter

All the trans femmes I've met who are well adjusted, safe and decent people have engaged with these topics and don't outright deny the influence of SIG childhoods on all people cis, trans, nb and intersex

These women also tend to actually be feminists with a grounding in general feminism and trans feminist theory, their feminist theory doesn't begin and end with trans femmes and transmisogyny

Funny how a well rounded, nuanced and reality based analysis of the world will produce a person whose actually socially safe and responsible

It is everyones duty under white supremacist, cisheteronormative, gender essentialist, patriarchal capitalism to unlearn the toxic beliefs we are taught in childhood...can someone explain to me why anyone thinks it's remotely normal to believe that a particular demographic, which is raised with some of the most toxic/unsafe SIG beliefs, should be exempt from that?

I've spent decades working to unlearn the societal misogyny and rape culture rhetoric I was taught through a socially imposed "girl" upbringing...trans femmes don't need to do the same because why? They're ethereal angels who as babies and children were magically immune to the entire social culture they lived in?

Give me a fucking break and take some responsibility for the toxicity of your community ladies and if you don't want to then stop crying about it when non trans femmes don't want to share spaces or be in community with you anymore.

That's what happens when you consistently treat other groups like shit while alienating, bullying and abusing them.

I feel uncomfortable around trans femmes because my experience of them has been consistently that of abuse, harm and bullying, both offline and in person so I don't feel that I can tell which ones are actively involved in the hate culture against non trans femmes and even if I do trust them and then end up being abused the same culture ensures I have no recourse in community to be heard or supported in the aftermath

Average trans femme critical post about trans mascs:

I hate trans men because they are men and men fucking suck and deserve to bow at the feet of the dolls who should rightfully spit on them for being yucky disgusting men. These birthdayboy pussyboy vaginaboy tranny theyfab littlegir-boys should all be raped and killed if you argue with me about this you're a transmisogynist. #feminism

Gee I wonder why trans mascs are pissed off and uncomfortable being in community with trans femmes, it couldn't at all be these behaviours and the culture they normalise, no it's because we hate trans women 🙄

Checks out

If this upsets you as a trans femme...GO FIX YOUR COMMUNITY

remember the other day when i was like "if i were a pedophile chud with no job id be on tumblr begging for donations dressed up to sound noble"?

first of all, her girlfriend isnt gonna go homeless, she's some 13 year old with a loving family

Every single person in the queer community who I've ever heard consider or support this (cis, trans and non binary) has said they are doing it because they have been victimised by a trans femme and had absolutely no power or recourse to address it due to the culture in community of enabling and protecting trans femmes from accountability.

I wouldn't outright veto any trans femme housemates but I would definitely deprioritise them and be weary of them for the exact same reason being that the demographic who have abused me and harmed me and my loved ones in violent ways the most, by a longshot, within the wider queer community has been trans femmes

The thing that sparks these conversations is usually a trans femme having been fucked to someone btw

Not it is not at all the majority of trans femmes but there is a sizeable chunk of trans femmes who are engaging in abusive behaviours within community, which are enabled and compounded by pop trans feminism pushing lack of personal and community accountability for trans femmes, to the point where people are clocking the pattern and speaking on it both publicly and behind closed doors.

lets see the checklist:

✓ calling trans men whiny for speaking about their issues

✓ use of stereotypically gendered insult

✓ implying trans mens issues are less important or don’t exist

Like why have we created an actual social stigma in loving and caring about trans men and transmascs, and/or nonbinary and intersex people

Why is it that it's seen as a red flag for someone to say "Hey, maybe we should care about all of our trans siblings that are being harmed/murdered/assaulted" and not "Kill all TMEs!!!! Let's make a bomb that kills all the TMEs!! The only ones that matter are the dolls!!!" like are we fucking serious here y'all.

How can this not be a major alarm for people that loving and caring for and respecting your fellow trans people who are not transfems and trans women be seen as a threat to them.

Every single hate message flooding this blog proves beyond a shadow of a doubt that the supposed "transmisogynist army" harrassing them is completely made up. None of it is real. It doesn't exist. Where is it? Why can't I see it? Where?? Where are these hypothetical transfem haters in the notes that are soo great in numbers?? Hundreds of hate comments, yet no backlash?

They actively gloat about creating blogs for the sole purpose of harrassment. They gleefully gloat about how they should be on the list because they told you to kill yourself so much, how lovely! They say things like "awww is the blog getting bullieed?? 😰😭" with no backlash." Because they know. They know they get to act like this in droves precisely because no one is actually doing ANYTHING to them.

Others may not actively participate. But they are watching. They are seeing your hate. They see which direction it pours from, and whom it is addressed to. They'll make their own conclusions about your behavior. Mark my words.