it's definitely not creepy af just how many hetoromance films there are where someone's infatuated with someone else, and then they time travel to go back and manipulate the universe into them getting the girl/boy
it's usually a guy doing this, but definitely not always - and the audience is supposed to be on their side as they manipulate their way into someone else's life
yes yes, sure, often they get the badness of what they're doing rubbed into their face in the end - but this general message that if you fall in love with someone, the universe owes them to you? is so fucked up and harmful
if you have feelings for someone, and they feel the same way about you, that's just really lucky! because most of the time it's not like that - and having feelings give nobody any rights to someone else's feelings














