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I just realized me and 🍇 have been together for 8 months, that's a long time

Congrats!! Me and my partner recently hit 6 months :)

Why are there several accounts dedicated to shitting on a gnc trans man of color's artwork?? Why the fuck does it matter? Also, the fact that you're posting his spirals and mental instability and saying that it's "like clockwork" is so fucking ableist. Is there something I'm missing? Or do yall just hate mentally ill black trans men?

Also even if you hate this guy for like. actual reasons. shitting on someone's art instead of their bad actions is just shallow and rude. You are a bad person.

I hate this new wave of defining your identity based on how people perceive you. Why have we suddenly decided that transmasc and transfem are socially imposed labels? That has never ever been the case. Transmasc and transfem have already been bastardized once, dont let it happen again.

”your gender identity is less important than how random people perceive you based off of their own biases” is probably bad rhetoric to have when you're purporting to be trans inclusive but if you can hide it behind already existing language being used wrong and pretend to not target binary trans men and women people will just do it

hey girl did you unpack that exorsexism yet? oh no it's nothing it's just that i noticed you use transfem to refer exclusively to trans women who were amab and you really dislike the idea of men doing anything with their femininity but discarding it or becoming women and you also think there has to be a "real" (cis) way to experience a gender under the patriarchy that you can say happens to you to justify your transhood which as a concept simply doesn't exist for nonbinary people who do not have one (cis) "nonbinary experience". but i'm sure that's nothing.

Malgendering is still transphobic.

We need to bring back "sex does not equal gender" because why are you mad when trans people still identify with their assigned/natal sex. Why does it upset you when a trans man isn't male or when a trans woman isn't female. Why are female trans men and male trans women accused of "clinging to their ASAB" or being bioessentalist, even when they acknowledge that they would never assume another person's sex. Sex doesn't equal gender and you need to stop treating like such, even when you're being "progressive" or "gender-affirming."

I'm always worried that the community™️will get mad that I prefer transsexual as an identifier for myself rather than transgender. I've transitioned, yeah, but with the exception of the hormone change (and yeeting of gamete-producing organs), my other medical interventions were all primarily driven by a concern for safety. My gender is 404 not found. Like, yes, it's different from my original body, and it's also almost equally different from my current body.

If you call transmasculine people transandrocunts, transandrobitches, whiny birthday boy tmes, theyfabs, or anything along those lines then I don't think you should have any say in feminism at all. I actually think you should shut the fuck up and unlearn your misogyny before you even think about talking about feminism again.