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I cannot imagine what the actual legal argument is for slapping a felony on a trans healthcare provider, ESPECIALLY when they’re consulting patients that are OVER the legal age of 18.

Also let’s call out the antisemitic dogwhistle here.

THEY ADDED QUEER

I’ve seen this blog become a lot more popular lately and it’s become inefficient to warn people one on one. Please appropriately deplatform the actually organized murderous fascist ideology masquerading as a gender-liberatory program so recruitment efforts like this can’t get a foothold in new spaces. The best way to combat a recruitment-driven ideology is to starve it out of recruits. A single cagey post needs to be enough to deserve a response, let alone dozens.

The damage that continues to be done through the ideology is enough to justify a firm response. The lives that are choked or lost because TERFs are not taken seriously are worth enough for a damned unfollow or - heaven forbid - public contradiction. “Karen that’s a pretty fucked up thing to say, actually.”

what racism?

uhh for one, this ask you sent me

cardi b saying “chink,” which i’ve only seen two posts about, one of them being mine

the literal president referring to covid as “china virus,” something the world health organization specifically suggest not doing, and even though we now know covid probably originated in italy

chloe bennet had to change her last name to get cast by hollywood

3 of 10 americans blame chinese people for covid, and even then that’s just the ones who are honest

a 16yo was punched so many times he was sent to the emergency room because he wouldn’t admit to a classmate he had covid

1 in 4 asian american youths reported racist bullying due to covid

asian american restaurants have been hit hardest, even those that aren’t even chinese because all asians are the same

hmm i’m sensing a pattern here

the emmy’s this year had asian american nominations makeup only 1% of all nominations, which is actually a decrease from 2% lmao

yeah, covid is hitting everyone hard financially, but asian americans have been facing a steeper and faster increase in unemployment than white people

people who know supernatural (and haven’t bought into his schtick so badly they stan his rancid ass) also know that he attempted to repair his reputation of being a fame-mongerer and a general asshole to his costars by sucking up on social media. he wants to have a reputation of being kind hearted but when given a choice between addressing real issues and making funny haha jokes to cement his status with fans, he almost always chooses the latter.

everyone in the notes defending misha fucking collins of all people ………. his major contribution to the world has always been the encouragement of destiel - but ONLY (at first) because he thought it was funny, or (as it gained popularity) because it has kept him on the show for this long. he was supposed to be replaced by a different character (anna, another angel), but because of his consistent interaction with fans she was killed off and he was kept as a fan favorite. BECAUSE of the fact that he incited fujosji fans into a frenzy and continues to insinuate that not making destiel canon is homophobia, despite only nominal support for other mlm couples and characters on the show. this is a cishet white man. he is not a victim of a rabid fan base. he is the creator of it. misha collins USES the lgbtq+ community FULL KNOWING what he’s doing, for his own personal gain.

some receipts before bed ✌️

i see so many posts on here abt how polyamory is so “annoying” and polyamorous ppl are “cringe” and dont face any sort of oppression, as if half this fucking website forgets that in most, if not all, western countries outlaw polyamorous marriage

like there are posts and posts on here about how polyamorous people dont also face societal oppression, as if polyamory isnt frowned upon in western society? as if saying “my boyfriend’s girlfriend” or “my girlfriend’s husband” isnt a common fucking joke punchline, and will give you weird looks if you try to drop it casually within a conversation

We regularly get told that our relationship isn’t child-friendly. Concerned parents corner us and ask us not to “bring our lifestyle around their children” even though we didn’t do or talk about anything inappropriate.

My city apparently has an ordinance that prevents more than three people living together unless they’re related by blood or marriage (not that we pay any attention to it, but our landlord could LEGALLY evict us if she found out).

When we had to take my wife to the emergency room due to severe chest pains, our boyfriend had to sit out in the waiting room, scared and alone, while waiting for me to text him updates.

And I’ve just resigned myself to not being able to have kids because of all the legal issues that could arise if a bunch of polyamorous trans people tried to adopt.  

I am polyam. My husband is polyam. I am also trans and pan (and maybe ace? I’m still working through that). One of my friends who knows all of this still called me a whore (half jokingly, but with a lot of disbelief) when I told her I had set up profiles on a few dating apps.

None of the other bits of my identity got anywhere close to a similar reaction.