heyyyyy so i heard you like that character! so here's the thing. i know he's canonically male and identifies as male and is exclusively referred to in the media as a man and as he/him BUT. you have to understand. he likes pink. he likes flowers. he likes fashion. he likes cute things. he wears makeup. he paints his nails. he's — hey, are you listening? he's bisexual. yes i know men can be all of those things. but he's like. he's ALL of those things, you know? so the thing is, a lot of people in the fandom actually headcanon him as using they/them or she/her, because you can't like ALL of those things and be JUST a man, haha, you know what I'm saying right? like she's gotta be queer! what? no i know he's bisexual but that's not enough ykwim? like that doesn't explain All That. come on, you get it, like look at how they dress! their outfits are always so perfect! just look at them lol they're soooo gender. you get it. so anyway my point is you really shouldn't get upset or offended if anyone calls him she/they or a girl or whatever. it's affectionate. it's a compliment! i mean there's no way someone like THAT would really identify as a man.
oh my god i can't believe you're actually upset about this. oh my goddddd it's not that deep. it's just fandom dude. it's just my headcanon. i just personally think that any male character who likes anything feminine whatsoever is probably not actually a man, because men are boring and don't like things i like because fragile masculinity or whatever. this has absolutely no bearing on how i feel about gnc men in real life
