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i feel like people got so weird about age gaps in this very abstract sense that now there's this taboo about being friends with someone who's a few years older or younger than u....like, i have friends in their 70s and i have friends in their early 20s and im always friendly with teenagers & kids too because they all deserve to have adult friends in their lives who they can trust! other people projecting their gross shit onto those friendships is not my problem
guess what! its good for us to have intergenerational friendships actually! its good for all of us to have healthy, friendly, respectful relationships with people of different ages! it works in all directions!
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A quiz for artists and writers to figure out the primary emotion they create from. 28 questions, 15 results that are about 150 words each, d
hey everyone đ take my uquiz i finished and then forgot about for months. it's 28 questions with 15 results and there's no lyrics or pop culture references so it should be friendly to non-americans and people like me who are just out of touch
I thought I was gonna get hope too, but...
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did you main super, who, or lock back in the day
if youre tagging this with ânone i had good taste and was better than youâ i know you have skeletons in your closet its okay to laugh about it
one thing id like to point out about pride flags is that absolutely none of them are as fuckin cool as the rubber/latex fetish pride flag. no completely indistinguishable pastels needed. so many pride flags look like youâre looking at the flag of a european microstate through foggy glasses. my colorblind ass can see exactly whats going on here and its dynamic and exciting
i have both deuteranopia and protanopia and these both look like toothpaste to me. these are barely distinguishable. why are we so scared of bright colors. am i supposed to use the eye dropper tool every time i see a pride flag so i can double-check the hex value of these flaccid blue-greens against a list of âproblematicâ vs ânot problematicâ hex values because the queer community online hasnât discovered that you can do things other than horizontal stripes. yes im dying on this hill
broke: instagram filters on a flag to make a new slightly tonally different flag woke: we ask r/somnivexillology to make new pride flags and we take whatever the fuck theyâve got going on
I agree with this. Let r/somnivexillology decide.
"there's no wrong way to consume a piece of media" yes there is
Yeah thatâs why they made Switch cartridges taste bad.

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LOVE those ultra modded skyrim screenshots where someoneâs character is this honey select demoness succubus thing and in the background is a regular skyrim guy doing his thing
I can see his expression despite his helmet
A lot of people with childhood trauma (and, from my experience, especially attachment trauma) find themselves yearning for a parent figure. A mother, a savior - someone to hold you and love you in all the ways you needed when you were a child. Someone to hold you while you break into a million pieces.
At some point in recovery/therapy you will have to face the harsh reality: there will never be anyone. Not like that, not anymore. And mourning that? Thatâs too much, that feels like a pain that cannot be survived. A pain that will swallow you whole, a pain that will drown you.
Therapists can offer a lot of support, but not like that. So maybe you want to switch therapists in hopes of finding someone who can (even though, if they are a good therapist, they canât), or you would rather be without therapists because then at least they wonât have to suffer the pain of âsomeoneâs here but theyâre not enoughâ.Â
Getting a little support, a little of everything we missed, a little of everything we want⌠Getting a little is worse, in some ways. Because getting a little bit activates the pain; it triggers the feelings of what we miss. Dripping a couple drops of water in an empty bucket makes you feel how devastatingly empty that bucket is.
Getting nothing and being absolutely alone is dull. Itâs a drag of depression and darkness. But getting a little bit but not everything? Thatâs sharp and flashing pain, itâs dry heaving from the heavy crying. Itâs intrusive thoughts and self-destructive thoughts. Itâs breaking apart again and again and again.
liSTEN my therapist warned me about this and then she told me THERE IS A SOLUTION
you DO NOT HAVE TO FEEL THIS WAY FOREVER
the solution is reparenting yourself
YOU be the parent you wish youâd had.Â
YOU give yourself comfort and love and acceptance (and ice cream and stuffed animals).
YOU talk to yourself the way a good parent would â tell yourself âitâs okayâ and âeverybody makes mistakesâ and âyou will feel better soonâ.Â
YOU can change the voices in your head. listen to those thoughts and hear whose voice theyâre speaking with. your parents programmed those intrusive thoughts. and then ARGUE with them the way you were never allowed to before. tell yourself âYOU DESERVE NICE THINGSâ and âYOU DESERVE TO BE HAPPYâ until someday someday someday with enough time you CHANGE your programming into something BETTER.
Itâs a process. itâs a looooooooooong process. Iâm still going at it. BUT. it can really really help to know that the way you feel right now is not forever, and that you can re-parent yourself and start to feel better. that you have power now that you didnât have before, and you can use that power to reinforce your programming and you can use that power to change that programming, and itâs all up to you.
OP is right that no one else can do it for you. you canât get adopted by a new perfect family. your therapist / partner / BFF canât do it.
but YOU CAN.
(p.s. https://www.outofthestorm.website/ is a really really great resource from anyone suffering from complex ptsd due to relational trauma, A++ highly recommend)
i donât normally like to add onto posts but i thought this thread was pretty insightful (link)
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When I am feminine it is in a masculine way and when I am masculine it is in a feminine way. Whatâs not clicking.

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reinstalled the sims 3 and forgot i had like eleventy billion mods going on