iâm just. very frustrated as an adult on a 17+ app being treated like iâm a little baby who canât handle adult content or curate my own experience. itâs fucking stupid
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iâm just. very frustrated as an adult on a 17+ app being treated like iâm a little baby who canât handle adult content or curate my own experience. itâs fucking stupid

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Yknow what while Iâm here I know we as a website agreed to oppress the business majors but all the bullshit that comes around every April over ao3âs business practices makes me think we shouldâve kept at least one to explain to people how nonprofits, despite their name, still need money to function and do not in fact run on rainbows and dreams alone
Woo! Itâs a good thing yâall didnt oppress accounting majors because we understand this stuff better than business majors. (We were around before capitalism and weâre already set up for after capitalism.)
First things first - I dont regularly use or donate to AO3 but I have made an account to see what the fuss was about. Fanfiction just isnt my thing but I see why people like it.
AO3 is a 501Š(3) organization. What that means - No Profit for owners or investors. What that does NOT mean - no cash at year end or not paying employees a livable wage/salary. If youâre contrivance with a non-profit is that they allow their employees to survive under capitalism, then you need to rethink your priorities.
That being said, AO3 has no employees. All work is volunteer based. ABSOLUTELY ZERO people are making money from this site. (Outside of contractors and professionals who are vendors and not affiliated with AO3.)
Iâm going to break down the 2019 Audited Financials because thatâs the most recent. And compare them to the budget and notes:
The auditorâs opinion is âunmodified.â That means these are as accurate as they get.
Their assets: $1.3M in cash. $197k in the value of the servers. (Thatâs the price they bought the servers minus depreciation. Depreciation is a tool we use to slowly devalue fixed assets over time. Without it, companies would recognize huge losses at year end when they sell old assets. Thatâs not reliable information when youâre trying to analyze the financials.) Why would a non-profit need a million dollars in cash? Partly to fund the next yearâs work - it looks like theyâre trying to bring on new servers which can cost upwards of $400k each time. They also have a history of protecting fans from people like Anne Rice who wants to sue them into debt and oblivion. Weâll talk about the legal stuff later. But in the case they would lose an expensive case, they need funds on hand to pay that out.
Revenues - this is the money in. They received $733k in donations and the like. Their expenses are about 37% of these. Which tells me, they are focused on managing their cash balance, and doing well. Again. No organization would survive if they had no cash at year end.
You might see the âIn-Kind Revenueâ and not know what that means. $190k is a big amount. But if you look at their expense statement on page (4) youâll see âIn-Kind Expensesâ for the same $190k. In-kind means services in kind of cash. Or services instead of cash. So they had $190k of pro-bono (donated) legal work in 2019. They mention it in the budget and later in the audit footnotes. There are other âprofessional feesâ for about $28k. Thatâs also legal/audit work but they had to pay cash for. It wasnât donated.
Cash expenses:
Server fees = $79k (these are higher than 2018 because they installed a new server.)
Transaction fees = $27k (these are charges from your banks/credit cards/paypal to process donations. They are roughly 3% of donations which is about correct.)
Contractor fees = $15k (the budget noted they paid for a security test - this is actually a pretty low cost for something like this.)
Supplies = $14k (I couldnât find notes on this but itâs similar to 2018, so itâs probably just normal business things.)
Postage = $12k (This is high compared to 2018, but I hazard a guess itâs related to sending out promotional items for donations.)
Advertising = $10k (looks like a new cost this year, but is related to fundraising efforts. And might be related to those promo items.)
Other non-cash expenses:
In-kind = $190k (those donated lawyer fees we talked about earlier.)
Depreciation = $74k (again this is an accounting process that every company with fixed assets does.)
The cash flows statement just confirms which expenses were and werenât cash. And it shows us that they have $1.3M available for the next year. Glancing at the 2020 budget they planned on spending a third of that to upgrade servers. And they have another $400k budgeted for 2021. Honestly to me, the cash looks low considering some years (2018 in particular,) their legal work was valued at half a million. There is a risk that they would have to pay that amount out of pocket the same year they plan to bring on a new server upgrade.
So all in all, if you want to donate to AO3, this looks like a reliable organization to donate to. There is no evidence in the financials that they donât deserve the donations. (And if you do donate, remember it is a tax credit!) I also donât see any verifiable reasons not to donate. If you have other places you would rather place your donation, thatâs fine! Do that! But there doesnât seem to be a reason to campaign against their fundraising efforts.
This is a really neat breakdown! And itâs explained so that idiots like me who donât know how stuff works can understand!
Iâm kinda new on this sceneâŚreally great explainer here, but I really hope this isnât a debate Iâm gonna have see every time ao3 collects money
Hate to break it to you, but that is exactly whatâs going to happen.
Iâve already seen all of the usual suspects from 2018 and 2019 and, like this post, 2020, pass by during this April 2021 drive. Iâm sure weâll see them all again in October too. (Thanks, tumblr, for your horrible lack of timestamps unless one turns that shit on with xkit.) No doubt there are classic drive wank posts from 2017 and before and I just havenât noticed because literally every six months, all the posts look the same.
Donât return ebooks or audiobooks youâve consumed on Amazon and Audible
Amazon and Audible made it into their policy that you can return ebooks and audiobooks and get a full refund.
They actively promote this, making their book shop into a book lending service, de facto a library you subscribe to. Thatâs their business plan to encourage subscribtions.
The dirty thing, however, is that Amazon and Audible are making the authors pay for each refunded item. They will detract money, income, royalties, from the authorsâ account. Theyâre not hurting from the refund, the author is.
Look, no-one is saying youâre not allowed to return an item if youâve read the first 50 pages or listened to the first 45 minutes. Maybe the style is not your thing. Maybe you donât like the narratorâs voice. Maybe the quality of the writing drops severely after chapter three. Go ahead, if the product is bad, return it.
What Iâm talking about is that no one should be able to listen to a ten-hour audiobook or read through nearly an entire novel and still get a refund.
Most of the readers donât know whoâs paying for this business plan. Itâs not Amazon and Audible, theyâre still keeping your subscription money. Itâs the authors.
Spread the word.
I looked into it because it sounded horrifying and apparently they changed policies starting Jan 1st this year (2021) because of pressure from The Authors Guild
if you refund the book seven days after purchase, Audible pays the author royalties.
Audible has a return policy, where people can return audiobooks and get a credit refund, within 365 days. Audible then takes back the royalties they paid to the publishers. The Authors Guild has gathered thousands of signatures from publishers and writers. The letter was sent to CEO Bob Carrigan and general counsel member Stas Zakharenko to âimmediately cease the practice of deducting royalties from authorsâ and narratorsâ accounts when a purchased audiobook is returned or exchanged days, weeks, or even months later, regardless of whether or not they have listened to the entire book.â
The authors state: âThis policy is in clear breach of the duty of good faith and fair dealing implied in the authorsâ agreements with Audible and ACX as it allows books to be purchased and listened to without paying the authors and narrators their royalties.â The guild has also asked the Amazon audiobook subsidiary to display the total number of unit purchases and returns on the author dashboards, rather than just the ânet salesâ already adjusted for any returns, as is currently the case. It estimates authors could have lost 15%â50% of earnings as a result of the policy.
Audible does not want another legal fight on their hand and bowed to the pressure. Starting January 1st, 2021, the company will pay royalties to authors for any title returned more than seven days following purchase. The company currently deducts royalties from authorsâ and narratorsâ accounts when a purchased audiobook is returned or exchanged within a year.
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Excuse me , what do notp mean ?

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Do you consider fanfiction legitimate writing?
I won the 2004 Hugo Award for Best Short Story for an H. P. Lovecraft /Arthur Conan Doyle mashup fiction, so fanfiction had better be legitimate, because Iâm not giving the Hugo back.
Or the 20O5 Locus Award for Best Novelette. Iâm not giving that back either.
The Lord of the Rings van Gogh style.
By Aja Trier.
im sorry but writing enemies to lovers on ao3 is so fucking funny. one of them will go a whole paragraph saying how much they hate, absolutely despise, have genuine burning contempt for the other and weâre all here knowing damn well that enemies to lovers tag is just sat there. like we already know whatâs coming bro youâre just embarrassing yourself
the appeal of enemies to lovers though is less âoh will they ever get together?â and more âat what exact point does he go from wanting to kill the bitch to the oh in italics?â
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On the flip side though, if you always apologize, work hard on the issues and are accountable, or if you MH presents more as extra needs and sensitivities⌠people are still allowed to be done with you whenever but its rather more of a shitty choice
It is and it isnât. Everyone is allowed to set their own boundaries, and decide what they can handle. Just because a person is trying and apologizing doesnât make it necessarily easier on the person theyâre dumping on.Â
No one is owed endless patience. Sorry. Itâs just not. Healthy boundaries make healthy relationships. And if a person decides their boundary is that they have to be done⌠sorry not sorry youâre not allowed to decide otherwise for them. And youâre an ass for judging them.
People can get mental illnesses by being affected by someone who has them too (for example: a vet with PTSD regularly lashing out at his family due to unresolved trauma, the family can get PTSD as well)
Some people in the mental health community seem to understand that, a lot of times it explains their own mental illness. But for some reason, they canât seem to make the connection that they are just as capable of doing the same.
It takes a lot of self awareness to see how you are hurting others, and it sucks once you do, but you have to understand that youâre not always going to be the victim.
And one of the only ways we can stop this cycle is by letting people set their boundaries. All people are just as worthy of setting boundaries like yourself, and you have to understand that. Even if you apologize/over apologize, people are allowed to keep their distance.
That doesnât mean your bad or not recovering, it just has nothing to do with you. This is about other peopleâs health, and you have to respect that.
Yes! This. This is what I was saying but with better words and more explained.
And even if you recover completely, and apologize, and work to make things right or whatever, no one owes it to you to come back into your life/let you back into theirs. No one owes you forgiveness. No one owes it to you to reset their boundaries just because your situation has changed.
And vice-versa. Â
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All I can think abt is that one quote that basically just describes that you canât be your true self in your native language bc thereâs too much emotional attachment, but that second languages allow speakers to be truly free with their words
âSome things could only be written in a foreign language; they are not lost in translation, but conceived by it. Foreign verbs of motion could be the only ways of transporting the ashes of familial memory. After all, a foreign language is like artâan alternative reality, a potential world. 
- Svetlana Boym, âEstrangement as a Lifestyle: Shklovsky and Brodskyâ
âBilinguals overwhelmingly report that they feel like different people in different languages. It is often assumed that the mother tongue is the language of the true self. (âŚ) But, it first languages are reservoirs of emotion, second languages can be rivers undammed, freeing their speakers to ride different currents.â
- Love in Translation by Lauren Collins from the New Yorker, August 8 & 15, 2016

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not be like âugh the Youthsâ but i think kids nowadays have gotten Too Comfortable on the internet.
like i see these tweets on twitter like âhey im 14 and i just got kicked out pls rt so i can find somewhere to stay im in x state/cityâ and like HOLY SHIT i cannot emphasize enough how incredibly dangerous this is. youâre broadcasting to EVERYONE that you are young, vulnerable, and desperate AND information on how to find you!!!! like i know you meant for that to be just for your friends on twitter but thatâs a public tweet!!! ANYONE could see it!!! like I saw it and i have no idea who you are you are not in my circle and yet!!! so like WHO ELSE has seen it!!!
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