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How do you identify?

Daddy: An older man, often more mature and nurturing, who might be sought after by younger men for a mentor-like, caring, or authoritative relationship. Daddies often have a protective or dominant persona.

Bear: A large, often hairy man who is typically but not exclusively older. Bears are known for embracing body positivity and masculinity, though the community includes all body types and personalities.

Guy Next Door: A man who has a friendly, approachable, and casual personality, usually without any exaggerated traits or behaviors. He’s someone who might be described as "ordinary" but attractive due to his simplicity and relatability.

Muscle: Refers to men who have a highly muscular physique. In the bear scene, this might be the equivalent of “muscle bears,” who combine bulk and muscle mass, often seen as strong and physically powerful.

Chaser: A person, often thinner or less hairy, who is attracted to bears and seeks them out. A "chub chaser," for example, is attracted to heavier men.

Leather: This term refers to a subculture within the LGBTQ+ community, focused on leather clothing and accessories, often associated with BDSM and kink practices. Leather enthusiasts value power exchange, control, and discipline dynamics.

Poz: Short for HIV-positive, this term is often used in dating profiles to describe someone living with HIV. Within certain contexts, it’s a way to provide transparency about health status.

Discreet: Refers to someone who prefers to keep their sexuality or relationships private, sometimes due to personal, cultural, or social reasons. Often used by people who are not openly gay or bi in their everyday lives.

Geek: A man who is passionate about intellectual, technical, or niche interests, such as comics, video games, tech, sci-fi, or fantasy. The geek identity celebrates intelligence, curiosity, and fandom.

Jock: A physically fit, athletic man who emphasizes sports or fitness culture. Jocks are associated with a sporty, active lifestyle, often focusing on their physical appearance and capabilities.

Chub: A heavier-set man, often celebrated within the bear community for embracing their larger body size. Chubs are often appreciated for their softness and warmth.

Military: Refers to men who are or were in the military, often valued for their discipline, masculinity, and strength. Military men may be admired for their authority and structured lifestyles.

Otter: A slimmer or medium-built man, often hairy like a bear but with less body mass. Otters are sometimes seen as a middle ground between a bear and a twink.

Bisexual: A person who is attracted to both men and women, though not necessarily in equal measure. Bisexual individuals may experience different levels of attraction depending on the person.

Transgender: Refers to someone whose gender identity differs from the sex they were assigned at birth. Trans men and trans women may or may not undergo medical transitions to align their physical body with their gender identity.

Queer: An umbrella term used by people who identify as part of the LGBTQ+ community. Queer can include diverse sexual orientations, gender identities, and expressions. It’s a fluid and inclusive term.

Drag: The performance of exaggerated gender presentation, often for entertainment. Drag queens (typically men performing as women) and drag kings (women performing as men) use costumes, makeup, and personas to challenge and play with gender norms.

College: Refers to younger men who are often students, typically in their late teens or early twenties. It’s sometimes a stand-in for youth, freshness, and the pursuit of higher education or personal development.