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idk at the end if the day maybe I really am just a curmudgeon but you simply will never convince me that mayor, senator, governor, or president are entry level jobs that can be done well with zero government or policy experience and the tremendous arrogance it takes to think they can should be disqualifying in and of itself.
I don’t disagree with you, particularly about the pay (public service is a highly skilled job and the pay should reflect that!) but I also think people underestimate how many opportunities for experience exist. I was reading this morning that in my state (Mass), 59% of state house and senate races this year are uncontested. I can’t tell you how many times I go to vote and every race lower than president, governor, or senate is uncontested or worse, will tell me to pick three from a list of two. Library, school, town, and city boards and committees are begging people to show up and participate, and most of the time it’s the same tiny group of people over and over again and then everyone wonders why nothing ever changes.

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I think before you're allowed to argue about whether trans people who can get pregnant are vulnerable to state-sanctioned violence in ways that trans people who can't get pregnant are exempt from (even if they are vulnerable to different forms of violence! they are still exempt from this one thing), you should be required to watch a vaginal delivery as well as a cesarean delivery. on video. full video. there are plenty of educational videos online where you can do so. if you have never seen a birth, I do not want to hear about how trivial of a violence you think it is. I really don't.
Also the permanent changes it can cause to your body.
Like yeah, body hair for transfems for some is INCREDIBLY dysphoria inducing. Now imagine if a transfem was banned from ever shaving anything ever, and was forced to have a beard and shag carpet of chest hair. Would make you wanna die right? Now imagine how trans guys who are dysphoric around their hips and waist and chest feel when they're forced to become *more* feminine looking and permanently unlike being able to shave. You can't shave off those changes.
Also I know it’s not the popular viewpoint, but stretch marks related to pregnancy are Also Permanent, for most people. I thought for the longest time that I was a bad person bc I didn’t feel empowered by my “tiger stripes” or my “battle scars” or however cis people try to paint the physical signs your body carried a baby. I genuinely thought I was monstrous bc whenever I look at the stretch marks I specifically gained from pregnancy I experience plummeting, horrible feelings in my stomach. But like. Birth for me was traumatizing. It wasn’t easy or magical or fun. I had an emergency c-section for my first child and thought I was going to die. Trauma + dysphoria + social shaming means this is the first time I’m talking publicly about how it feels to have marks on my body that won’t ever go away unless I elect to have expensive surgery, and if I have that surgery I am immediately ostracized and painted as shallow for not being able to overcome my trauma/dysphoria bc “girl power” or whatever (and no, saying “well I’m not a girl” does not stop this behavior.)
Birth for people who can have it but are dysphoric about it, can be a permanent trauma on their body in so many ways. It’s okay to acknowledge that and it doesn’t make a person bad for feeling those things and it doesn’t make us ungrateful when we do feel dysphoric over it.
(Obviously neither of you were saying that, but I have seen many who do and it’s always terrible when I do.)
oh 1000%, it's also things like loose skin that can become a genuinely disabling issue for some people. one of my formative childhood experiences was watching Kate Plus Eight and her showing what pregnancy did to her body and how many problems it gave her. it was genuinely very sad and I felt bad for her (even if Kate herself had abajillion problems and is a truly deplorable human being. the original Karen). the amount of extra skin she had was to such a point that it interfered with her ability to do basic things like exercise at all, do laundry, etc. basically any physical activity. I wanna say she was also getting yeast skin infections due to there being so many folds and creases that would trap sweat and moisture etc.. and obviously she's an extreme case, but even a standard pregnancy is going to change your body in some pretty dramatic ways.
one of the most infuratingly sanitized phrases in the English language is, imho, "the miracle of life". it's said as if it's some sort of wonder and awe about the fact that we can create new life. and to some degree, that's part of it, sure. but the other side of it is that human beings being able to survive childbirth is truly a miracle. we shouldn't be able survive that. that amount of physical bodily trauma? that doesn't seem survivable. the fact that we can and routinely do survive it, is a full fucking miracle. it doesn't make sense that we can be literally ripped apart from the inside and be (for the most part) fine. the amount of blood loss, too. obviously people do die but modern medicine is such a miracle itself
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white people appropriating aave is always irritating but specifically the use of "-ahh" like "goofy-ahh" "stupid-ahh" bro if you are not black just say ass. ass belongs to everyone, dumbass. are you afraid of cursing?? youre stealing the language of black americans cos you don't want to be caught saying a bad word like ASS ?

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reinstalled shinigami eyes to take a look at the damage and it's so much worse than a year or so ago when i deleted it. virtually every intersex blog i know of regardless of how they feel about tme/tma is marked red unless they are especially vocal about liking it, countless trans men are marked red regardless of whether they are vocally inclusive, most who are marked green are either famous guys or are (somewhat) infamous for their transphobia and exorsexism if not also racism.
Plenty of transphobic cis folks are green. Virtually every trans-positivity account is red except for the ones who are unapologetically transphobic to at least part of the community. Countless trans women who vocally uses the term transandrophobia are marked red. Several trans women who dont even use the term but have at least on one occasion defended or sympathized with trans men are red. Several trans women who are bigender/NB/Etc with inclusion of any "male" or masc terms are red regardless of whether they seem to have anything to say about trans men.
It is BLEAK. I've been trying to remove reds and greens as I assess, but it is really really gross that it was a pretty well-known soft rule a decade plus ago that you didn't mark trans people red at all even if they were shitheads, unless they were actual proud terfs, because the flagging was guaranteed to isolate them from community.
Inability to assess risk and a total aversion to narratives that contradict what you assume to be the case for others is getting people into a lot of trouble.
Shinigami eyes is completely dead and less than useless, but since so many people still seem to trust it, I do not want people to keep getting flagged as violent evil transphobes cause they started identifying as genderqueer.
Shinigami eyes is terrible and useless. Please stop using it you respect trans people.
The fact that some people use it as their personal means of attack against people they disagree with Doesn't really help.
I feel like "any black people who white queers disagree with" are woefully underrepresented on this post. Let me fix that.
The other day I saw a red-marked transmasc blog who was defending trans women; seeing the red edges around a post that said "you people need to fucking fix your transmisogyny" was very bleak.
Are there any more reasonable alternatives? I doubt people being transphobic on the internet with little to no consequences from the platform mods themselves is going to stop being a problem any time soon...
The extension was never meant to replace (or shouldn't have been) checking for yourself. The purpose of a flagging system, especially one where the USERS are who flags, is to say "hey, this person might be a big transphobe, take a look."
So is there a more reliable flagging system? No, but that just means double-checking the perspective as much as possible.
There are more nuanced deep-dives into TERFism, radfeminism, and "general" transphobia respectively but some things to look out for for all
Use of slurs or disparaging language directed at a specific group of people in a derogatory sense. Do they use slurs not to reclaim (not assessing whether they are "allowed" to reclaim) but to be mean? There's that famous comic strip about how even mundane words like "pepperoni" being said in a way to express disdain hits in a way that reclamation doesn't. ie "I'm queer" "the queer community" "I love you queers" vs "ugh the queers are ruining everything." A lot of these groups will insist their use of slurs and derogatory language is "punching up" or "getting back at" groups who have wronged them, but every actual slur carries the weight of marginalization, and two oppressed groups weaponizing slurs at one another isn't "punching up."
Insistence on separatism. Separatist movements are ones in which a group who has experienced wrongs either systemically or inter-personally (or both) finds their solution for protection is isolation from groups that are not identical to them. It makes logical sense to think that people who are not like you might be unsafe and untrustworthy, but this is incorrect. The idea that there are innate differences between groups that cannot ever be overcome is the basis for everything from incel groups to terfs to neo-radfems. The problem is that at the extreme end, the separatism stems from a belief of superiority, and at the "milder" end, it causes people to heavily police who is and isn't enough to belong, inevitably isolating people who even by their own metric "should" belong.
Essentialism. This is the belief that there are inherent traits, behaviors, experiences that cannot be shared among various groups of people, and that our identities are set in stone by either birth or identity. TERFs believe that being assigned male at birth is a situation that can never be undone. That the parts you were born with determines who you are, and no amount of hormones or surgery or experiences changes that, and that the set in stone identity is "predator." They think, either literally or for the sake of propaganda, that men and anyone "born male" is destined to be a predator, violent, and essentially a threat. Radfems believe that maleness as a construct is violence, creates predator behavior, etc and so your proximity to such a concept determines your evil. Misogynists believe that being assigned female or being female makes you weak, inferior, untrustworthy, etc. Two camps of racist thought say that either being born not-white makes you inferior (either weak or a predator, situation dependent) while others believe that you can achieve proximity to whiteness by how much you can distance yourself from your race and/or contribute to the subjugation of other "inferior" types of people. White supremacist orgs love having men of color in their secondary leadership, not because they have overcome their racism, but because it creates a relationship where the POC fight harder for approval among their nazi peers than other white men do, and they are much more easily disposable if it comes to it--while in the meantime being held up as "proof" that the org cannot be racist.
A deep interest in restricting self-determination. Transphobes love having endless debates about "what is a woman," not for any philosophical sense, but because they think that "woman" is an innate category one can neither escape from nor move to. "Womanhood" is simultaneously something so retched it's the only reason trans men transition--to escape it--but is also something so sacred and coveted that trans women are trying to steal it. Allowing people to define womanhood on their own terms is not allowed. Allowing people to call themselves what fits them best is not allowed. Allowing people to alter their bodies and appearance and how people refer to them is not allowed. It is essentialism again, but it is also the paradoxical beliefs that things are inherent but that you must also work hard to conform. A "woman" is xyz, but if you do not look or act like that, you are forced to change to fit this vision. Women who don't wear makeup are punished for it. Makeup is not an "inherent" trait--no one is born with winged liner--but if a desire to wear makeup is not part of who you are, you must "fix it." Every time we attempt to create hard borders between what is and what isn't an identity, we leave people out. If a woman is girly and loves pink, then every woman (cis, trans, or other) who isn't very feminine or doesn't like pink "ceases to be" a woman until she "corrects" it. If being a trans woman is about your ability to pass as cis, everyone who doesn't pass enough isn't a woman--or isn't a trans woman, depending on which separatist group is watching. Turning definitions into static identities we must adhere to rather than describing a pattern of similar traits will always create gaps where even people we never intend to exclude are left out. This isn't just cis vs trans, either. Cis men who fail to perform masculinity efficiently enough are "like a girl," women of color have to overperform femininity to not be seen as "masculine" or "male"--look at Serena Williams or Michelle Obama: two very feminine women who are never afforded the belief that their Black femininity is feminine. Trans folks are guilty of it too. There is the expectation that trans men must try harder to prove their maleness, but then are punished more severely for toxic masculinity than their cis peers. Sometimes trans women, like their cis peers, brutally punish gender-nonconformity in other trans women, holding up stereotypical cis femininity as not only the epitome, but the only way to be.
This is not a comprehensive list, but a lot of repeated patterns to look out for. It is important to recognize that trans people can be transphobic, marginalized people can throw others under the bus for an attempt at integration into the majority, and that trying to control how any marginalized group tries to make sense of their situation is not "striking back" at your oppressors. But it is also important to know that there are no inherent impassable differences between groups of people, and the ones who bridge the gaps are doing more good for our communities' safety than anyone who tries to lock the doors between us.
Ah did someone finally mark me red then, huh? Because I was not just clear but marked green when this post started circulating.
^from the 14th of May
It's that easy to switch one way or another and apparently people who were green for me were red for others despite me not being the one that marked them green, so it's also possible for links to not show up the same for everyone.
The only reason I keep it at this point is just for the sake of clearing colors.
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