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Confidently asserting that people who were AFAB aren't experiencing these things just shows how this person never cared to listen to anyone who wasn't exactly like them.
I Was Denied Treatment At My OBGYN Because I Am A Black Transman
My medical records list my gender as male so they didnβt believe I would need to see an OBGYN.
I explained that I was there for a pap smear and the nurse told me I didnβt know what a pap smear was, and they couldnβt help me.
The nurse at the reception desk started loudly misgendering me (calling me βsheβ and using my birth name) (...) I asked her to use the correct pronoun and to call me Jaden. I went to sit and wait and the next thing I know, LAPD is coming in. The nurse had called the police because she felt like I was threatening her.
I felt humiliated, and this kind of experience is so common.
When Joseph Schneier, a transgender man in his early 40s, started experiencing unusual spotting and elevated progesterone levels in 2021, hi
"The doctor wonβt see you because you are trans."
Jay Kallio faced hostility and bias when he was diagnosed with an aggressive breast cancer.
Kallio learned "accidentally" that he had breast cancer when the lab technician called to ask how he was doing with his diagnosis. "Which diagnosis?" Kallio asked, horrified.
Evan Minton sued Dignity Health after his medical treatment was cancelled because he is transgender. Now he has shared his story with Congre
I was denied healthcare because I am transgender. The justification, according to the hospital, was that religious doctrine permits them to refuse transgender patients, just because of who we are.
A lot of cis people (particularly cis women) and even some trans people use benign "All men bad" rhetoric to slyly be transphobic towards trans men in particular but i dont think the world is ready for this discussion
I remember years ago, long enough ago that I was still using either Tiktok or Instagram regularly, because that's where I saw this, long enough ago that unfortunately I do not remember the username, I saw an older trans woman responding to a comment asking "how come we see trans women from your generation, but never trans men?" And her response was simple. "Unfortunately, it's because most of them are dead." Between lack of safe and legal abortions (which, hey, look what's an issue again), the HIV/AIDs crisis (which still is lacking in approved treatments for trans men, and they're still likely to be denied PrEP/PEP even when they should be eligible as sexually active queer men), and how many of them chose to take their own lives after being forced into marriages and other women's roles, a lot of the trans men that should be elderly right now did not make it.
And now, when I find myself making the mistake of going on Instagram, I get to see trans men themselves talking about how historically, trans men didn't do anything for the community, and so we need to step up now. Which, first of all, that isn't true, but second of all, if trans men's contributions are lesser, that makes a lot of sense if we listen to that trans woman talking about the trans men she was in community with back in the day. It's very hard to advance the trans cause if you're not alive.
Anyway. It's a really chilling answer. "Where are all the elderly trans men?" "They're dead." And I just wish more people saw that tiktok and listened to it and really took it to heart, now that we're in the age of "well obviously trans men have it so much easier."
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If you want to support intersex people, stop using the TMA/TME binary.
Iβm saying this as an intersex person.
The general consensus (from what Iβve seen) is that TMA means βtransmisogyny affectedβ and TME means βtransmisogyny exemptβ. At first it sounds like a good binary, but quickly falls apart once you see its flaws.
In usage, TMA refers exclusively to transfeminine or βAMABβ people. It does not acknowledge the transmisogyny faced by those who would be exempt from it.
For example, a gender-nonforming cis woman would face transmisogyny for looking like a transgender woman. Would she still be TME, despite being a target?
An intersex man would be considered TME, but if he goes through an estrogenising puberty that makes him look feminine and become a target of transmisogyny, would he become TMA or stay TME?
Is a non-binary person TME or TMA? I know it depends on their assigned gender at birth, which makes the whole point of this flawed system completely moot.
And ignoring all those said flaws, what is the point of inventing entirely new binaries just to show who is βexemptβ from bigotry, when everyone can face it one way or another?
What about the entire intersex community, who canβt neatly fit into every single binary you make? What about those who canβt be categorised as βTMEβ, nor βTMAβ?
It is simply intersexist in almost every way. There is no point of showing who can be and canβt be affected by transmisogyny when you refuse to acknowledge the millions of people who donβt neatly fit in a binary.
And if your first thought is some form of βI donβt careβ or βtheyβre TME by defaultβ then you are the problem. This sort of binary is actively harming the community and only putting everybody in a divide.
Stop making useless binaries and actually focus on the real problems that plague the world!
Focus on the transgender men who are being silenced because of their assigned sex at birth!
Focus on the intersex babies being forcibly mutilated before they can even crawl!
Focus on the transgender people facing execution, possibly being stoned or flogged for the mere act of being transgender!
Focus on SOMETHING ELSE! Do a change in the world! Advocate for your community! Protest transphobic laws, regulations and policies!
Stop focusing on the West where you are (rightly) valued and help the people who are being actively kicked out of their homes, killed, and mutilated against their will for being queer!
And most importantly, stop referring to yourself as βTMEβ or βTMAβ. It helps no one and only signals to the wrong people. It actively divides the community and harms everybody.
My own country has me banned from a normal life for being queer. I face a potential death penalty for being gay. I wonβt even be able to go on Hajj if anyone finds out Iβm transgender. I wonβt even be able to practice my culture!
I am forced to stay in a shell that isnβt mine.
And Iβm supposed to care about being βTMEβ and respecting every single order from radfems who live on the opposite side of the globe, who have never faced the possibility of being murdered by their own parents.
I am supposed to respect the same people who hate my mere existence, who want me dead for the mistake of being a man, while my parents actively talk about the βdiseaseβ that is queerness and how they want to protect me from it.
I am supposed to shut my mouth and let the people who mutter βtheyfabβ, βtransandrobroβ, and every single other slur under the sun at me speak for the entire community.
While my own people are ACTIVELY being shunned out of society for acting gay. For crossdressing. For having a face that looks even slightly feminine.
While my own people are being forced to βget fixedβ. To undergo genital surgery for being intersex. While they are being actively murdered for having ambiguous genitalia.
And you care about me not being your model view of a good trans man?
Why is the "transfeminism" tag filled with like 50% just shitting on transmascs and calling us evil? like...that's not what tranfeminism is or should be? Like I go in that tag to read about transfeminism and half the posts I see are like "all trans men should die", "trans men are all abusive", "trans men are privileged over cis women".
It's frustrating. Why am I not allowed to feel safe in my own fucking community? Why am I "evil" because I try to talk about my fucking fear of pregnancy and my need for access to gynecological care? Or menstrual care?
please stop taking away our cdd joy. we are allowed to make the most of our disorder without it affirming your ableism. please can you not take this away from us. please can you let disabled people have something please
hey.. guys.. guys... someone on hereβi dont know which one, but they're in our community i believeβhas made a post relating to empowered multiples and stated that Sigmund Freud coined endogenic.
I cannot find the post for the LIFE of me, but I saw a screenshot and I genuinely got really mad because now we're spreading misinfo without any sources for the hell of it.
Sigmund Freud did NOT coin 'endogenic'. The term came from endogenousβa word used by early psychiatrists like Emil Kraepelin in the late 1800s to describe the biological roots of mental disordersβand in online psychiatry and early Tumblr around 2014, the term endogenic was made. Check your sources before making info posts, I literally BEG you.
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First of all, what the fuck are βmatching altersβ? That sounds so fucking stupid. Second of all, you cannot just create a βheadmateβ out of thin air. Even if it was possible, doing it for that reason would be beyond idiotic. Dummy dummy dumbfuck.
Splitting new headmates is NOT fun. Iβll never comprehend why they think it is. Itβs almost as though constant splitting for a real system with trauma is fucking life ruining because itβs A DISABILITY. Fucking moron.
The plural community, at its core, has a complete, uneducated, misunderstanding of what an alter is.
They think that the term and concept can be separated from CDDs because they wholeheartedly believe that alter is just "someone else in your head". I don't think I have to explain how that's extremely watered down and ableist.
In refusing to understand how CDDs work, how they form, and how alters come to be in the first place they water down alters to just a "buddy in your head", rather than a severe response to severe trauma.
Their community time and time again, refuses to listen to those with CDDs around them that call them out of their ableist logics and behaviors. They refuse to see how the very core of their beliefs are born from pure ableism. And in doing so, they are a community that isn't safe for any trauma survivors, let alone anyone with a CDD.
It's incredibly disappointing that even when you argue with polite and nice endos and pro endos, who actually listen to what you have to say, they still aren't actually taking in the information you're giving them. They still aren't actually listening to the disordered person telling them how the community they're in is unsafe and ableist, because they see endos as "friendlier". Because they don't see the ableism, because they don't have our fucking disorder.
maybe endos could want / need trauma holders for . . the trauma they may have ??? what kinda question is that lmao
the point of trauma-holders is to insure memory fragmentation, not to "deal with trauma".
"Memory fragmentation occurs to protect the brain from the trauma it endures and is the brainβs way of trying to heal." (Kylie Hamacher, 2026.) (feel free to dm me for my source on this if you can't find it!! XD)
some parts might be more tolerant of healing with access to it, but trauma-holders literally develop from the severe trauma that traumagenic systems go through. they develop as a means to shut-off those memories to ensure functional life for the system. watering down trauma-holders to just "oh we remember things" is inherently ableist to systems who have suffered so much.
I assume part of reason why pro endos put awv blogs in such a spotlight to target is because people see anti willo verse as like just gimmick blogs and not people
Yeahhh that makes sense. If they viewed us as people theyβd have to feel guilt for saying horrendous things about/to a bunch of traumatized people.
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[IMG ID: Anti endos are for real out here gatekeeping IFS therapy #anti endo #what is purity culture #this too is purity culture . END ID]
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anti endos arent gatekeeping it, anti endos are just saying IFS therapy doesnt make someone "plural" and the idea of IFS being plurality is a fundamental misunderstanding of IFS itself
IFS therapy is gatekept by how fucking expensive therapy is. thats the actual structural and oppressive gatekeeping here. not systems on the internet saying point 1
at no point is purity culture actually involved in this
Theory of Structural Dissociation & Why EPs/ANPs aren't always system related...
The Theory of Structural Dissociation is the most commonly accepted model of what happens when, in layman's terms, someone is traumatized in one way or another. When talking about The Theory Of Structural Dissociation (Onno van der Hart, Ellert R. S. Nijenhuis, and Kathy Steele), we can think about Structural Dissociation in layers.
1. Primary Structural Dissociation
Primary Structural Dissociation includes PTSD and Acute Stress Disorder. These two disorders have a simple split of ONE ANP (Apparently Normal Part) and ONE EP (Emotional Part).. more on that later. This type of dissociation is oftentimes caused by events that happen later in life, and are non repetitive. This usually causes flashbacks and other related issues, because the EP is stuck reliving that traumatic event.
2. Secondary Structural Dissociation
This layer encompasses Complex-Post Traumatic Stress Disorder, and Borderline Personality Disorder. This is categorized by ONE ANP (Apparently Normal Part) and MULTIPLE EPs (Emotional Parts). This is likely caused by repetitive trauma, but not enough to cause severe fragmentation. This causes multiple defensive trauma-based habits to form, which oftentimes cause issues with identity and daily life.
3. Tertiary Structural Dissociation
This is recognized as the most severe form of Structured Dissociation, encompassing DID (Dissociative Identity Disorder). This is caused by repeated, severe traumatic events in early childhood (before the age of 9), which causes amnesiac barriers to form around pre-existing identity facets, leading to severe fragmentation. This is categorized by MULTIPLE ANPs (Apparently Normal Parts) and MULTIPLE EPs (Emotional Parts). This causes issues with functioning in daily life due to severe amnesia, and identity problems.
What is an ANP?
An ANP, or Apparently Normal Part, is the part of us that handles daily life. It's the part that drives your car, files your taxes, works your job. And for many people, (non traumatized people...), ANPs and EPs are very cohesive with one another. They work together to manage life. This creates a solid state of identity, which allows you to feel like... well YOU!
What is an EP?
An EP, or Emotional Part, on the other hand is the part that handles traumatic memories and emotions pertaining to a traumatic event. When traumatic events happen, the ANP gets split up from an EP. So the ANP will handle the daily life, while the EP remains traumatized.
So Yosuke... Why does the Second level have multiple EP's, but is not a system?
I'm glad you asked! This is because of two simple little differentiations between the two... The severity of the trauma, and the reaction to the trauma. In early childhood, all of our minds (yes, EVERYONES) were already in multiple different facets (or pieces, however you want to phrase it). These facets may have been dedicated to sadness, or happiness, or hunger, anger, fear, etc. When severe and repeated trauma disrupts daily life for a young individual, the facets begin a survival tactic. The mind builds a wall of amnesia around an affected facet, in order to stop the traumatic repercussions from spreading and bothering other facets. This is a survival mechanism. It splits up both ANPs and EPs alike, which causes them to eventually develop their own identity, leading to Dissociative Identity Disorder or Other Specified Dissociative Disorder.
In Secondary Structural Dissociation, the affected person maintains a cohesive ANP. And most of the time, they also do not develop the same amnesia barriers between EPs and ANPs. (More on why I say MOST later...) This is what differentiates between the Secondary and Tertiary Structural Dissociation Level.
The entire reason Tertiary Structural Dissociation maintains separate identity states (aka Alters, Parts, Headmates, whatever you want to call them) is because of the amnesia between the identity states. Eventually after these amnesiac walls are put up, they develop their own identities as the person grows. This does not happen most of the time in Secondary Structural Dissociation.
Why haven't you gone in depth on OSDD yet???
Great question. I've held off on mentioning OSDD, or Other Specified Dissociative Disorder for a VERY specific reason, and that OSDD is considered a "catch-all" term for those who may experience profound dissociative symptoms, but don't meet the full criteria for DID. It falls under the Second Structural Dissociation category, but can really be considered the 2.5th layer. (Which I know is weird, let me explain...)
OSDD 1A
OSDD 1A is a subtype of OSDD, or Other Specified Dissociative Disorder. This is categorized by ONE ANP and MULTIPLE EPs, but does experience the same amnesiac barriers as DID. (Remember when I mentioned this is weird to categorize?) These EPs may be less distinct, and can sometimes be considered as different "modes" rather than full fledged Alters.
OSDD 1B
OSDD 1B is really the 2.5th layer of Dissociation (Not factual, just layman's terms.) It is also categorized in the Secondary Structural Dissociation category, while maintaining ONE ANP and MULTIPLE EPs. This subset also has similar amnesiac barriers and distinct alters to DID, however the key difference being they are oftentimes lacking the severe amnesia between Alters. So, more amnesia than 1A, less than full DID.
And that is EPs and ANPs explained in The Theory of Structural Dissociation! Yosuke out!
