this one is gonna get me a lot of shit but
I am so sick of when one trans men is shitty in some way, like being racist or transmisogynistic, people are like "omg this is proof every single trans men ever is an evil horrible person"
but then a trans woman can be like incredibly bigoted and racist and if you call that single person out for it, just that person, then you're a transmisogynist and how dare you accuse them of anything, because women are the Good Gender and are pure and can't be abusive or bigoted or rapists and men are the Evil Gender and every single man ever is a rapist
and it's like...idk how to express this because like trans women are pedojacketed and generalized by cis people constantly, but trans men are also treated horribly by cis people (fucking look at ANYTHING to do with Elliot Page), but transandrophobes will act like every trans man is evil and deserves anythhing that happens to them. and that trans women can do no wrong
and it's frustrating because like generalizing is horrible!!! no one group is all evil!!! and on the flipside, it's super important to call out actual bigotry in the community no matter who it comes from! if a trans man is being racist or otherwise bigoted, call them out!!! but don't have a double standard and accuse people of being a transmisogynist if they call out a racist transfem???





















