why don't you treat them like that then?
you de yarn well well on tumblr, but when you see men irl i bet you grovel at their feet
see this is why we're not taken seriously
i know that all the oat milk and tofu you've been consuming has turned you into a paragon of learned helplessness, but try to turn on your human brain
99% of men don't go crying on the internet about how much they hate women (apart from the mens rights activists and incel forum users), they are productive in their misogyny, always coming up with new hands-on ways to harm us
from butsukari otoko, to revenge porn, stealthing and baby trapping they're pretty good at what they do you have to admit
in comparison, mythandry is an absolute joke.
but if we work hard enough, it might actually start to exist
your misandry needs to be effortless. but first, you need to get accustomed to it so that it starts to come out naturall , roll off the tongue
for example, one of my psychiatrists (male) recommended me a book by eckhart tolle. i told him that men write slop and there isn't a single book by a male worth reading
and then I just carried on with my session. no hostility, no hint of anger in my voice, i said it as if it were the most obvious thing in the world. and the earth kept spinning
never, under any circumstance move for men on the sidewalk. i've missed buses, even interviews because I refused to step to the side and let the man walk past. never back down, stare at his eyes, even if you're in a hurry and think it's no biggie, even if you have to piss. id rather piss myself than move out of the way for a man
assume everything as female. from animals, to doctors, or professors, refer to everything as a she.
when i was doing a course, for my presentation i only used stock photos of women, and the only time I'd use men is if i needed to add someone doing the wrong thing, or example of something you shouldn't do.
and they would always be gay/effeminate men with tons of makeup on and looking stupid😂
stop smiling for no reason, stop hedging. as in using words like "maybe" "sort of" "i think" to avoid seeming too forceful
stop apologising excessively
stop using tag questions (eg: adding questions like "that makes sense right?" at the end of sentences to seek validation
stop being accommodating rather than assertive
if you have an alexa, or siri or anything like that, program it to a male voice. it may not seem like a big deal but it's actually subliminal programming that women take orders.
when anything is poorly designed, say "a man must have come up with this"
when a man talks over you, just keep talking as if nothing happened, close your eyes, that way it's easier to not get confused when multiple people are talking at once. it's kinda like rapping
when walking into an office, lawfirm or place of business, ask the first male you see if he's the secretary. if he say's he's not, look him up and down, as if you're deciding whether to believe him or not
when you see a car crash, immediately assume it was a males fault. laugh and within earshot of others, say "that's men for you🤣"
casually use empowering euphemisms. for example if you need to go have a think about it say "I'll menstruate on it"
i don't even need to tell you to stop wearing makeup
"nooooo you're still a radfem, even if you wear makeup, have a boyfriend and do OF" you can call yourself whatever you want it doesn't make it true. I thought we learnt that already
it's not men that need to be more like women, it's women that need to be more like men
this is what us radfems/misandrists should be talking about, not crying every day