#blackpill

recently been put on bp by cis friends, hella grey but i'm learning

feels lowkey lonely when it's all cis dudes

Take a random background belief you have. What even is a background belief? Something that you do not actively believe in it just kinda runs in the background and you don't pay mind to it but its there. Like, you walk and then drop your phone and go ugh I'm so clumsy! Background belief.

How to change it? Find evidence of the contrary the exact second it comes up. See why I am always preaching do Not disassociate please stay in your body live in your present do not escape your life its yours etc etc etc. Because you have to actually catch it.

You were walking. You dropped your phone. You go ugh I'm so careless. You say wait that's not true actually. Your brain says yes it is. Evidence A- you just dropped your phone. You say yeah that is true but I tripped, so by billions of years of evolution and adaptation its better the phone drops and I use my hands to hold myself up so I don't die and my genes survive. If I was in fact careless, I wouldn't have has this phone for four years, but I do. That's not true. What's true is I Love my body and I don't want to hurt it so I'm willing to sacrifice my phone for it.

Move. On.

Thats it. Thats itt.

"ugh I'm so dumb"

"Wait no that's not true. In fact the exact opposite is true. You KNOW this for a fact"

"Yeah but we let that boy play us"

"we did NOT let it happen. We took a chance at love, because we deserve being loved. He wasted it. What's stupid about that? Show me proof of low IQ"

"Ugh I look so ugly"

"We literally have the prettiest eyes ever be so serious right now."

'Wait no ugh I'm so slow"

The issue here isn't 'stop caring'. Its 'do you actually care?' Do you actually care about this do you care enough to put in the amount of energy required to give the reaction you are about to?

Okay you found out the new intern in the office is talking dirt on you. Okay you found that out. Your first impulse is, understandably, to go off on the mouthy little thing and show it a couple things your mouth can do. You're about to show her how dirt is talked. Okay. But first. Do you genuinely care? Do you actually care whether her or the ready set ears she was talking to think about you like do you actually give a fuck? Genuinely? If you think, what do I care about?? Its the intern's opinion of you?

A lot of times like every other human being on the planet earth, we act based on habit. cause -> effect. And a lot of times we forget we don't have to react just because it happened. You need to give your energy to things you genuinely care about you can't just be reacting to stimulus 24/7 that's not very sovereign of you. Not very thatbitch of you.

Decide what you do, in fact, care about

Forget everything else. '

And if you don't know how to do that, learn to think based on consequences. What are the consequences of what just happened to me and the life I want and my sense of self? What will be the consequences of how I react on me, the life I want and the person I want to be?

So much of conversations with ladies is just. Carol there is NO way you actually care about this be fr. No you do NOT care about some comment on a post on Instagram by a stranger lets be serious right now. Do you actually care right now??

Energy is the language of the universe. What you focus on you get. That's how positive thinking works if you think about the color red you see it everywhere all at once. because energy. You are telling me you want to give your energy to Billionaire Mogul Business Lordess doesn't know you exist Taylor Swift has one person that doesn't like her and now you are going to pour your energy into playing lawyer for her so User5679673973 can see you like her and change his mind?? Do you actually care?? Do you genuinely care?

This isnt about not caring. Its about energy allocation. I had a girl in high school that used to say she's not a lab she's not where reactions happen and I hated the heavens out of her but honestly icon. You can't just react to everything that's just such bad spiritual hygiene.

Girls do not abandon yourself challenge.

Girls have at least one drop of faith in yourself challenge.

What is the epitome of abundance mindset? Never accepting less. Not even from yourself. I think the highest embodiment of abundance mindset I've seen in pop media is Nicki Minaj and Jang Wonyoung. Unfortunately for us both of them are allergic to vlogging and we have to scrap through hell to fing videos of them etc but I remember watching this one vlog with Jang Wonyoung where she said if she doesn't like the food she just won't eat because why would she eat food she doesn't like?? And it was so exactlyyyy for me like why would I do something I don't want? Especially if I'm buying it. Yesterday my favorite store had a mass sale and I wanted to buy things so I saw this cute very classy very cute shirt and the price was unbelievably low then I look at the tag and boom polyester. And I do NOT wear polyester. So I'm complaining to my friend about it like ew? And she goes well it's cheap just buy it. And I'm like why would I buy polyester?? There's so many cute shirts out there made of non plastic. Why would I do that to myself? And it's like. Yes I've finally understood the abundance game.

Nicki Minaj holds abundance as a personality trait and it's so inspiring to me. She's so inspiring to me. She's not afraid to rattle up powerful people if she has to but she will stick up for herself because success is hers. She doesn't depend on power to make her successful she's successful because she's Nicki. She is all the power she needs .and that's why she run game for so long.

What does it mean to be abundant? To be sovereign. To be self driven .me , me, me. And know, right in your bones, everything you want a) exists b) is yours. Then why would you settle for less?