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my general opinion on what people should be "allowed" to portray and what topics they should be "allowed" to explore in fiction is that you can make whatever art with whatever themes you want but i'm also allowed to think the way you handled it was tasteless and should've been done differently. my negative opinion on your handling of sensitive topics is the price of admission for publicly showcasing your work. this is not a pro-censorship stance because i am not The Government
For the record (even though I've said it many times before) this is my stance when it comes to people writing characters with a schizospec disorder or psychosis, especially from their point of view, when you have no personal experience. I can't stop you because I don't have any power over you, but I will say that it will probably be very shallow, full of misconceptions and stereotypes. I personally don't believe people should be theorizing the experiences of stigmatized minorities and sharing it with others who don't know that experience so they can all circle jerk their false beliefs without including the real people who actually live with th disorder. But that's just my opinion, I can't actually stop you.
youre not hijacking, this discussion definitely extends to issues of representation. if you donβt mind me asking, do you think there are ways for someone without personal experience with psychosis to portray psychosis in a respectful manner? like if someone were to seek out other peopleβs experiences and incorporate them to the best of their ability, would your opinion of the portrayal be more favorable, or is this topic just one of those things you feel is so difficult to portray that itβs basically impossible to get right from an outsider perspective?
Yeah I have some problems with the "just ask someone who is psychotic for tips" thing. For starters I get that ask a lot and I personally would not dedicate my time for free to that rather than connecting with other people who are psychotic or their loved ones. Or literally doing anything else lol.
Secondly I wouldn't trust a nonpsychotic person's interpretation of my words because they wouldn't really understand it. Either they spin it in a way that makes sense to them, or they are just using my words instead of their own.
Schizospec disorders and psychosis bring on many experiences that are very hard to describe and difficult for others to understand unless they've been through it themselves. I think it's best for us to use our own words to explain it.
It also takes the metaphorical mic away from people speaking about their own experiences. Plus we have so many decades (or longer tbh) of bad representation and stereotypes that I think it's time for people who aren't schizo-spec/psychotic to just find something else to write about. A lot of it feels very "men writing women" to me. Like as a butch lesbian I'd hope that straight people wouldn't want to write someone like me as the main character, or ask me to divulge my deepest traumas to them for free to write about ya know?
A lot of companies that make things have two separate lines: consumer and enterprise. Consumer is for us poors that the company doesn't need to respect. You can buy more expensive, higher tier consumer items but it's just as fragile. You're paying for more bells and whistles. Enterprise grade is stuff that will actually last because it is often sold in a lot as part of a contract and the contract won't be renewed if the items suck. These things are often just not sold to consumers because why would you ever buy consumer-grade garbage if you could buy this?
For something like computers, this looks like how pricey "gAmiNG" laptops look all fancy but fall apart in about the same timeframe as the lower end laptops for students. But if you've ever handled the sort of laptops for banks or businesses, you'd wonder why laptops can't all be like this. People swear by Lenovo Thinkpads for a reason. Dell's Latitude (general productivity) and Precision (has the power of a gaming laptop but far less bs) lines, HP's probooks, all feel really nice and last for-fucking-ever. But you can't buy them in a store even if you wanted one.
So the trick is to buy what big organizations are buying, but you likely gotta get 'em secondhand when the orgs are done with them. For basic clothes, mil surplus might be a good port of call, for technology see an e-waste recycler or sometimes government auction (you just gotta know what to ask for; ThinkPads, Dell Latitude/Precision, HP Probook/Zbook). Otherwise try to thrift old, pre-enshitification items. The blanket I had as a kid is still going strong and has lived to bury multiple sets of newer bedding (which have worn thin and torn). Kitchen items, see if you can shop at a restaurant supplier.
TL;DR: if you need an item, think "which business needs these to function" and see where they 1) buy theirs (suppliers) or 2) sell their old ones (surplus) and buy that. If you can't do that, look at older, pre-enshitification things.
When I buy appliances I tend to go with what I think of as "landlord specials". The dishwasher that does the dishes and nothing else, that doesn't get a lot of service calls from your tenants, and that lasts for at least ten years. The refrigerator that keeps food cold and nothing else, that doesn't have a touchscreen or proprietary filters that need replacing. A stove without AI or wifi connection, that doesn't need a tech support contract to sort out your tenant's connectivity issue on Christmas morning. A landlord wants to pay for an appliance once and only once, not to have to pay for repairs or replacements very often. As I am in effect my own landlord, that's what I want too.
Landlords buy enough appliances to be the product testers for the rest of us, but few enough that they don't have special purchasing channels that exclude the rest of us.
Beware of "contractor specials", however! These are the appliances that home builders and house flippers install to make a house salable. They're designed to be attractive and last long enough for the new owner to sign the mortgage papers.
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I hate the push that you can quit addictions by pure willpower because it perpetuates the idea that people who can't have committed a moral failing of some kind. We all may know some people who did quit an addiction cold turkey, and with no aid, you may be one of them. And that's fantastic, but it is not the norm. It is more than okay to need help to quit an addiction. Relapse is also part of the process. Many people relapse several times before they are able to quit for good. Let's have compassion.
not only that but depending on the substance quitting cold turkey can kill you
ALCOHOL. Itβs a very common dependence and cold turkey CAN KILL YOU. A lot of people donβt know this. Doctors can literally prescribe beer in the ER to save a life.
Be careful out there.
I have quit most addictions cold turkey and I HATE this narrative that that is a sign of superiority and strength. Someone who can't quit with willpower alone is not a failure. They're not weak. They're not "not trying hard enough." If you feel this lack of "success" is a sign of being inferior, educate yourself about addiction. If you still won't update your knowledge, at least have the decency to stfu.
i hate viruses so fucking much. literally getting attacked by a fucking shape. a concept. consumes no energy. responds to no stimuli. its only existence is to fuck with you. like fuck offf
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I do not get to choose which seconds. they are not consecutive
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like many people have said this better than me but no it IS odd that we've come to think of potatoes as so quintessentially european that their presence in historical fantasy where they're anachronistic doesn't jar. and yes people are trying to have the trappings of post-colonial europe without engaging w the icky colonialism part and yes people are neglecting to imagine what a european cuisine without potatoes would be like.
one time I was lucid dreaming and I asked the Jennifer Coolidge figure in my dream how do i tell if something in a dream is real or not and she said. Itβs only real if they charge your card. best answer ever